My Brother is in a shitty LTR with a very low SMV, BPD woman, how can I save him.

redolas · 2017-01-11T03:02:16+00:00

You don't. You can lead the horse to water but you can't make it drink.

GayLubeOil · 2017-01-11T11:32:23+00:00

You can save your brother by having sex with her.

Star_Signs · 2017-01-11T03:07:05+00:00

Wish I had an answer for you man. My brother is dating a girl 7 years older than him who is also a 4 at best and he actually tried but failed to break up with her because she started crying a bunch apparently, truly pathetic. While I'm banging plenty of hotter chicks than him even though his SMV should be the same as mine, he's dating this one 4 who gained a bunch of weight throughout their relationship... He sees all this but still when I showed him the red pill he laughed at me instead of trying to understand it. After that I stopped caring about it, people just have to seek the truth for themselves

evilkenevil · 2017-01-11T09:03:02+00:00

This is a calling from within. Maybe he gets there, maybe he doesn't. Just be there for him and knock it off with RP sales pitch.

pm_me_the_best_tits · 2017-01-11T11:30:25+00:00

been there brother, they announced their engagement today. leave them to it, nothing much you can do

Red_Invictus · 2017-01-11T11:38:59+00:00

If you've been here any length of time, you already knew the answer to this thread before making it. Yes, it sucks. No, you can't save him, you can only show him the door. He has to want to save himself.

ReddittorOC · 2017-01-11T13:59:29+00:00

Tell him how miserable he looks and ask him if he just want to feel "OK" about his life or improve and try to reach better fulfillment.

If he stay there he is gonna be stuck in this situation for the rest of his life, banging ugly chicks.

But maybe he really love to bang his ugly overweight chick with "back pain" cooking him his "favorite meal"

CDBaller · 2017-01-11T15:15:56+00:00

You don't. He'll wake up when he's ready to.

Title	My Brother is in a shitty LTR with a very low SMV, BPD woman, how can I save him.
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Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	January 11, 2017 2:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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