Girl flaked. 2 hours before. Rain check she says. Now..

supersede · 2017-01-02T08:13:50+00:00

a good response is not responding.

bouncebby · 2017-01-02T14:24:16+00:00

So youve had a bunch of different responses here from nuclear (ice her) to stoic (dont reply). Neither of those really work for me when i try them, i get far more lays with short and playful txts.

The girl sounds bored. If she wants to chill, get her to chill on your dick at least.

Id respond with "yep, furious" Then push for "punishing" her. Every girl ive known loves the idea of chad angrily fucking her.

Youre shutting off your opportunities with the lame duck response of "hmu when youre free".

50pluspiller · 2017-01-02T02:00:00+00:00

Mad? Did you do something wrong?

Certifiedfamilylaw · 2017-01-02T01:57:07+00:00

She wants attention. So act accordingly

Squeezymypenisy · 2017-01-02T02:09:07+00:00

Ignore it completely. Just use text for logistics.

hawkeaglejesus · 2017-01-02T15:07:46+00:00

the hamster is doing its warm up lap, don't get in its way

WillWorkForLTC · 2017-01-02T02:18:20+00:00

It's better that you come worry here than on text. You're fine. She just was cementing celebrating new year's with another Chad. You'll get your turn ;)

In all honesty though, don't worry about it. Logistics only. No sappy texts unless she's a 10 and you're getting married and even then, only for comfort.

ghostbrainalpha · 2017-01-02T16:50:24+00:00

Sounds like she is on her period, needs to delay a few days but is embarrassed to say what's going on.

The nice thing to say is, let's try to meet up next weekend. But don't commit because you have a lot going on.

Squeeze her in if the attitude and actions are what you want the next few days.

do_it_or_leave · 2017-01-02T01:51:08+00:00

Today is a very lazy day tbh. I would be mad but okay because I feel lazy too.

randarrow · 2017-01-02T06:12:27+00:00

Next her.

IronMonk48 · 2017-01-02T07:32:58+00:00

Just respond with "nope" then say nothing more. Only text her again in a few days saying she should join you at x for y. If she declines, next.

Questionnaire7 · 2017-01-02T11:36:23+00:00

If she just wants to chill maybe she means come to ur place and bang

MorningLtMtn · 2017-01-02T04:23:45+00:00

Mad? What are you talking about? Mad about what?

USBCube · 2017-01-02T05:48:26+00:00

I know she wants to fuck she's said it.

Wise up to women. Nothing she says suggests anything about fucking. Shes seeing if she can get you interested, and nothing to do with you actually putting p in v.

I simply said "Hmu when you're free"

Idiot. Sorry but you are. You're giving her complete control and power.

She then said "I'm sorry

as expected.

Now an hour or so later she's asking "Are you mad at me

Do you understand shes playing with you? how are you not seeing this?

What's a good response,

A good response is blocking her and ignoring her forever, MOVE ON!

she still wants to meet up within the week.

shes seeing how much of a loser you are, how beta, how much she can fuck you about.

Mild111 · 2017-01-02T02:24:41+00:00

"HMU when you're free"

Double down on this.

"Not 'mad'. Don't care for a big conversation about it. HMU when you're free"

If she keeps hampstering, ignore.

Title	Girl flaked. 2 hours before. Rain check she says. Now..
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Date	January 2, 2017 1:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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