I know a lot of people here hate the idea of marriage and LTR, but I still have a question about my LTR.

Mecha75 · 2016-12-17T00:10:07+00:00

Accept her as she is. Marry her. Please her and make her feel nice and safe. Then after 5 years of having a dead bedroom and her plumping you up. She will hit the gym, get that hot bod you lusted over at first. Then she will starfish you and go fuck a chad like she never fucked you.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-12-16T22:28:05+00:00

she has been gaining weight.

Is it 2# or 20? Because that makes a difference.

I'm still attracted to her in most ways, but losing physical attraction.

Then you won't be happy.

I still want to marry this woman

I see where you're going wrong.

I'm afraid it'll get worse as time goes on.

It will.

I'll be honest, I don't want to have a fat wife

Nobody does, unless they have weird psychological issues.

Anyone else been in a similar situation and if so, what did you do?

I don't date fatties. My two primary girls are 5'8" and 105# and 5'11" and 120#

First, don't get married. If you do, make it a "private" marriage, and don't live somewhere that you can get fucked over based on "common law" bullshit.

Second, you need to nip this in the bud, before she turns into Two Ton Tessie. You lead she follows, so lead her to the gym, or get her out walking or whatever.

Third, if you get married, you are going to be policing this for the rest of your life. If you have a kid, do you think she's going to lose the baby weight easily?

Fourth, you might want to go over to Married Red Pill and ask this question, as guys there will have more experience with it than the general TRP population.

[deleted] · 2016-12-16T23:44:00+00:00

Paging /u/thefamilyalpha

You need to lead her in this situation.

[deleted] · 2016-12-17T01:43:42+00:00

OP, check This Post on Balancing the Scales and see if it helps.

You aren't wrong or superficial for desiring your woman to maintain her physique.

I hope the article helps.

Nyquil-Junkie · 2016-12-17T04:43:05+00:00

I still think the tapeworm is viable option.

ecosci · 2016-12-18T04:31:40+00:00

She will cheat or get bored 2-5yrs later after marriage no matter her weight or size awalt dont do it men dont stand a chance in this society.

kruxofthemimed · 2016-12-17T01:09:05+00:00

It's hard to not gain weight in today's society. Tell her to go plant-based and not only will she lose weight, her cardiovascular system will benefit majorly meaning she will be able to get more aroused during sexy times.

Seriously, it's perfect. You can offer the advice under the guise of health, and hey it's actually very healthy so it would be a good thing to do regardless. Saturated fat/cholesterol intake can create plaque build up and lower arterial function, which means when she gets aroused she'll have much more blood flow down there. Same goes for you, erectile dysfunction is a known side effect of eating too much saturated fat and you can get waaay harder erections if your arteries are healthy.

Here's a cool site if you like nutrition research.

Title	I know a lot of people here hate the idea of marriage and LTR, but I still have a question about my LTR.
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Date	December 16, 2016 10:18 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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