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[–]moontripper12461 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Loll this is where things may get a little tricky.....you could conceivably pull off being the sexually submissive one in bed but still be dominant outside of the bedroom. Like, at this point, it seems like the red pill has become an ideology more than a helpful point of reference for you. "goes against everything it stands for..." dude, fuck what it stands for. You like getting tied up and spanked during sex, fuck yeah so do I loll I like tying her up a bit more, but its still fucking hot. My point is, don't avoid something sexual just because it isn't "red pill approve", that turns this whole thing into a mindless movement instead of something that's supposed to improve your life.
And yes, there are tons of girls into being the dom in bed. Imma go on an anecdotal rant for a minute.
I'm more pua than red pill fyi. For some reason that seems to matter here loll
I used to screen hard in girls I approached for chicks into BDSM. Like, the third thing out of my mouth would be "so, are you into bdsm? you like getting tied up ;)" loll. Anyways, I'm talking to this girl on a bench ask her, and she's just like, "yeah". Long story short, we're back at my place and she just starts tying up my wrists with my own belt, trying to get me to stay still, but I don't fight fairly loll Point is, girls are like that, you just have to screen for them. And that means asking them one way or another, ether by telling them a story about a friend who got tied up and loved it and watching their reaction or straight up asking if they'll tie you up later.
[–]Sweedie1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Stop being ashamed of your preferences and learn to accept who you are. TRP might not be the best place for you.
And yes, dom girls do exist.
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link
Any example of a dom girl? I think all of them prefer to be sub.
[–]Sweedie1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (21 children) | Copy Link
Would give example, but doing so would violate TRP rules.
[–]Sweedie0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
You're right however in saying MOST women are sub, or at least prefer to be.
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
If there are actual don women out there then I'm certain they would have made a career of it. Do you know about anyone? I don't think informing about famous people breaks any rules?
[–]Sweedie0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Read my post history. And that makes no sense. Enjoying being dominant in the bedroom/with a partner doesn't automatically mean you want to do it to random people you have no attraction to and/or sell your services. By the same logic you could assume all submissive women were professional submissives.
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
No, I won't go through your post history.
And it makes no sense that at least one dominant woman has made it into fame? Well... I agree. It's sort of my point. They don't exist.
[–]Sweedie1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
If you won't go through my post (submission) history to see what I'm trying to say, I don't know what to tell you, given I don't want to upset the TRP mods again.
You can believe whatever you want. I frequent BDSM sites and have come into contact with all kinds of people. From my experience I can safely say dom girls aren't unicorns, although it's true that sub girls are a lot more common.
Most famous people aren't extremely open about their kinks, fetishes, BDSM leanings and so force. There are famous women who are rumoured to be submissive in a BDSM sense (e.g. Fiona Apple) and there are others who are rumoured to be dominant (e.g. Angelina Jolie) and there are others who are reportedly switches (e.g. the late Amy Winehouse).
The vast majority however don't involve the public in their sex lives and will make sure they have a gagging order on any former partner who is inclined to spill juicy gossip. Same with male celebrities.
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
You have a rumor that Angelina Jolie is a dom.
You refuse to post a confirmed name in fear of making mods upset.
Do you realize your case is weak?
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
I don't do private messages /u/Sweedie.
Dude What is your problem? "My case is weak"? I told you to look at my submitted posts.
Dude
What is your problem? "My case is weak"? I told you to look at my submitted posts.
I am convinced you want to be dom. I'm convinced you've been with guys that let you dominate them. I am convinced you found it interesting doing so. But I am not convinced you would rather dominate than be dominated.
Your case is weak because you have no evidence. You can not name even one out of 3.5 billion people as an example of a dom girl. All you had was "Angelina Jolie's is rumored to be dom".
The internet is filled with porn, and a subset of that has a shit load of dominatrixes. Name one that is believable, and that doesn't prefer to be dominated instead of doing the domination.
The fact that you are unable to do so just proves my point.
Dude continued I fail to understand why you're apparently desperate to prove that female doms don't exist. If you're male and a sub, surely you should be glad that the occasional one does in fact?
Dude continued
I fail to understand why you're apparently desperate to prove that female doms don't exist. If you're male and a sub, surely you should be glad that the occasional one does in fact?
If I am desperate, then I am desperate to disprove my theory. You, and anyone else, has yet to help me with that. The theory still stands.
[–]savagedealer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where was your mom growing up what kind of woman was she
[–]deadwoodcylon 1 points1 points1 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yes you're fucked and also literally.
Get therapy to understand this problem.
[–]6482620 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've heard women say they like to be dominant in bed, but I have never, ever seen anyone doing it in a convincing way. They all would rather be dominated.
You can change it. Figure out why it is attractive to you. See if it aligns with how you see the ideal man. Decide what kind of man you want to become.
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