Friendzoned after having sex multiple times

savagedealer · 2016-11-12T07:11:41+00:00

The jig is up lover boy unless you can prove more value then you wait till whatever other dude replaced you leaves or disappoints her ... only way she'll be back now is higher value from you or she has no better options . Just the way it works .

Bomm1e · 2016-11-12T07:12:47+00:00

Don't chase. Chances are if you radio silence her, she'll eventually want the D back.

menial_optimist · 2016-11-12T07:18:14+00:00

It's not your turn anymore, nothing you can do if a sexier, buffer, richer, taller man came into her life and bagged her like she's never been bagged before. The only thing and best thing you can do is like everyone says focus on gaining other plates and what works for you, since you are the prize.

HS-Thompson · 2016-11-12T12:17:33+00:00

When you learn how to fuck women properly you will literally find it impossible to escape them. They'll move to another city or get engaged and still come back for an occasional roll in the hay.

Learn how to fuck a woman so that she can't imagine giving it up. Your text messages are completely irrelevant to this story, work on figuring out how to make them wet at the mere thought of you.

fcb98292 · 2016-11-12T12:54:42+00:00

There is always someone better; someone who knows more. This is not fatalistic, but challenging. You can always get better with your game and skill. Abundance mentality. That was just one girl.

Change up your game and skill, then try again. But yeah, friend-zone is not an option unless YOU choose it. Keep frame.

Gawernator · 2016-11-12T17:59:03+00:00

Developing oneitis. Soft next and move on. When she says something like that the only correct option is soft next. Any other display towards her does not show abundance mentality. You shouldn't even care. Or at least fake not caring.

ecosci · 2016-11-12T19:18:16+00:00

Your always a stand in guy until she finds someone else my son got dumped after going to a college football game with his girl last night for believing what society told him to do i will get him back on track during the holiday im glad it happened he needs to understand female nature nice guys get leftovers but he will be redpill ready now remember its always about another guy when ya here this shit.

zboo1h · 2016-11-12T15:49:30+00:00

Get a new one.

[deleted] · 2016-11-12T20:59:48+00:00

If she didn't give you a real reason.. it may be that she knows you are talking to other girls and she isn't interested in something casual.

Some girls do have a lot of self respect to not have casual sex, especially in a rural environment where she may have been raised with strong family values.

It's too late now, only chance is of she comes back to you and then you can address it.

Kalidane · 2016-11-12T07:18:53+00:00

Oops. Your reply was basically pussy-meet-Sahara. Forget about it and move on. Been there and done that myself.

What she actually said was "I don't want to have sex with you." You misread this.

What you did earlier to cause her to lose attraction is not described. Based on scant information, you messaged too much and made her concerned that you were clingy due to low SMV, and that she had made a mistake.

Title	Friendzoned after having sex multiple times
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	15
Comments	25
Date	November 12, 2016 7:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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