Need a slight bit of guidance on how to proceed with this girl.

Archwinger · 2016-10-24T13:26:55+00:00

Never chase. Quit stalking her online and liking her shit and validating her. You're not exclusive. Go fuck other girls and leave this one be. If she doesn't come to you in...let's say 2 weeks since you guys have been fucking with some regularity ... then text her once, telling her you're going to be doing thing X and time Y and place Z. If she comes, escalate and fuck. If she declines but proposes another day and time, meet her then, escalate, and fuck. If she declines without a counter-offer or flakes on you and doesn't respond, soft next. She's fucking someone else who's either more badass than you, or more willing to commit than you, and once she's done with him, she might seek you out again in a couple of months. Fuck other women in the mean time.

gijoemaximus · 2016-10-24T12:56:54+00:00

Soft next

Title	Need a slight bit of guidance on how to proceed with this girl.
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Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	October 24, 2016 12:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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