My existence is just work, gym, sleep. I work a standard 40 hours 9-5, I do a 6 day PPL split spending about 1.5 hours a day at the gym and that's coming along nicely, I like the progress I have made the past half year. I am going back to school in January at a community college to better my education, I am extremely focused on my personal development, I have never been successful career or education wise and I am working very hard to change that, I am 27 and should be starting on my career in the medical field when I am 30. TRP has been tremendously helpful in getting me over my depression after my wife divorced me. Luckily I didn't lose anything financial or material in the divorce. The problem is that I have no social life after moving, and I don't know how to get one.

TRP has kind of made me feel like I am not worthwhile unless I am a top 10% man, every-time I think of signing up for a dating site/tinder, or to chat up a girl I find attractive, I just figure that it's not worthwhile, but that my time will come eventually if I just keep doing what I am doing. I am pretty content with my life as is, but it is empty. When I was married my wife and her family were wealthy, so I got to pick up a lot of cool, but expensive hobbies, scuba diving, traveling, snowboarding, things that I can't afford to do now. While for sure anyone would miss scuba diving in south america, or snowboarding in Switzerland, she was also naturally outgoing and social and dragged me along, so by proxy I had a ton of friends and acquaintances.

I don't really feel insecure, I just figure that it's pure logic that girls/people won't like me. I am not in the best shape I could be in, I used to be able to afford nicer clothes/better haircuts, I have braces on my teeth which I figure automatically disqualifies me from most girls, I am not the most outgoing person, although I am not bad at talking to people. I also figure I can't really impress any girls even if I did have my looks together, she would probably quickly realize that I have no friends/social life just my work and my hobbies.

How exactly should I think about this? Should I work on finding friends? And how do I do that if I am busy all the time? For references I have not done anything social, had a date/hookup even just a meal or coffee with another person for an entire year.