How long till I next a girl I really want to bang

jb_trp · 2016-09-21T21:12:14+00:00

Dude. You're crashing your plane into beta mountain. Abort! Abort!

Neediness is the fastest way to turn a woman off. Approach other women and if she reaches out to you, arrange a meetup. Stop checking her twitter/snapchat/facebook.

Second, she's not an HB9. Stop putting it on a pedestal, man. Whenever people mention numbers like this (like these arbitrary gradings even matter?) I always subtract 2 points in my mind. 5 is average, 6 is above average/cute, 7-8 is hot. 9s are movie star hot, and you're not dating a young Gisele. We don't give the fatties on old women a grade because they are unfuckable.

stephcurryftw · 2016-09-21T20:56:42+00:00

Talk to other girls.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-09-21T22:45:52+00:00

drunk called her

You went full retard. Never go full retard.

Work on limiting your alcohol intake to 2-3 drinks. Turn your phone of when you go out drinking. You can either get buzzed, or you can game women, you can't do both at the same time. Some guys can, to some extent, just accept that you're not one of them.

Texted her "was rude last night, hope it was no biggie" and she replied "you were". Replied I'll make it up to you then aww is someone in a mood.

Fatal mistake #1: You gave a fuck whether one woman might have a bad opinion of you. You believed her bad opinion mattered.

Fatal mistake #2: Instead of accepting your mistake, embracing an abundance attitude, and moving on......... you asked her to Pity you.

Women cannot feel pity or compassion for mentally unfit men. At best they feel mild annoyance, more often they feel genuine hatred.

Only apologize when absolutely positively necessary, when someone actually demands it.

nigborg · 2016-09-22T00:28:53+00:00

here is you are problem:

Ok, ok. I know this post isnt exactly thick in abundance mentality but in this case I was at fault.

Hooked up with girl in my class end of June before breaking off, agree to keep in touch. Go about my summer travelling, hooking up and having sex with other girls, she's still initiating most of the contact saying how she can't wait till start of next semester.

Meet up with her twice last month when I come back to view a flat in university town, have sex neither time. One time met up during the day, other she was at mine early on and said she didn't want to then go straight for lunch with her mom, did pretty much everything else though.

Last week, few days before semester starts, out clubbing and drunk call her and was very rude, can't remember exactly what I said but when she said she was tired and wanted me off the phone I told her cool just hang up I'll go get with other girls, and she did.

Texted her "was rude last night, hope it was no biggie" and she replied "you were". Replied I'll make it up to you then aww is someone in a mood. She hasn't even viewed those whatsapp messages. Ignored my text and two calls the next day (we'd spoke on the phone a few times), and hasnt opened my Snapchat message from 3 days ago.

It's annoying as it's went from me thinking I'll be coming back to sex with a HB9 on tap who I got on great with to getting no contact from her whilst just a few days before I was getting told how much she fancied me, and my inbox has about 50 photos of quotes about sex/ stupid shit she's pasted from Fb or photos of her she's sent in the gym etc.

I even saw on her twitter it looked like one of her friends got ahold of her phone and messaged a guy she was seeing before "hello remember me ;)" when they were out that night, so she's already looking for a validation rebound.

I know I was out of place here, but it'll be a week tomorrow since I called, she's viewed my snap stories and hasnt deleted me on anything so she can't never want to see me again.

Any experiences of girls trying to shame you into guilt by not replying / opening messages and crawling back later, or should I just hit the clubs and social circle hard now schools back on and try forget this girl. Gonna take me a while to forget that ass, though.

Don't do any of that.

Title	How long till I next a girl I really want to bang
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Date	September 21, 2016 8:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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