All my friends are losers. Where do I make friends of good influence?

Heathcliff-- · 2016-09-06T14:04:28+00:00

I was in the same situation. My friends are all bluepill nerds who spend their free time on twitch and call me a misogynist while I'm screwing girls who would never even look in their direction.

Sports are where I found masculine friends. Also political societies at my university.

aanarchist · 2016-09-06T09:30:16+00:00

just be ready for your new friends of influence to treat you as little more than a resource to be used. you fuck up, you say the wrong thing at the wrong time, you get disposed.

i'm similar where most of my friends aren't into the more advanced stuff i'm into. i'm totally fine with it cuz my friends aren't there to intellectually spar with, they're there to chill and have a good time with. i don't need sparing partners or people to echo chamber with to stroke my ego, personally.

i take both sides tbh like on the one hand you want people in your acquaintance who are allies in your cause, but you also want friends who you can just shoot the shit with. imo it sounds to me like you need to learn to chill. what really makes a loser is being a faggot who runs like a rat in a maze trying to gather every litle pellet his corporate masters give him.

if it's time to bunker down and work hard to get your company off the ground, then focus on that, that's a good thing. just don't blame your friends for not being you and wanting to soar high in the sky for the sake of getting money and bitches, they're living life on their terms and there's nothing wrong with that. if you have a problem with them you're welcome to never speak to them again and find some real friends.

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-09-06T15:21:36+00:00

To be brutally honest if your friends are losers, then you are a loser too. You can only make friends of the same (or lesser) quality you are, so if you want better friends stop being a loser first.

Edit: Yes, sometimes you can have a better than you friend and they are more like a mentor.

Title	All my friends are losers. Where do I make friends of good influence?
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Date	September 6, 2016 9:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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