When a girl tells you she wants something serious and...

yellowmonkeyzx93 · 2016-08-23T05:23:59+00:00

Good attempt. However, I'll be honest, you're making obvious mistakes you shouldn't be making. I'll point out the obvious ones.

4 days later invite her out. She's busy and doesn't offer an alternate night. Now I know it's over but would prefer being outright rejected since hey why not and out last interaction was sex.

She's losing interest fast, despite you and her having sex. You're also pursuing her instead of you making her pursue you. You make yourself too available and like a beta would. You must be the selector. Everything about you is so precious. Time, money and effort. Don't ever waste it.

She says I'm great but she wants something serious.

She is hinting she wants a relationship. Get the fuck as far away from he or set your boundaries that you're not searching for a relationship, and we have something going here. Just enjoy the moment. Tell her that.

My compliments weren't specific and overly beta. In the shower after sex I was like gushing over her body. I think I over complimented her and she lost interest.

No shit, Sherlocks. Facepalm..

I really don't believe she's serious.

Simple. It's not her. It's you. Somewhere along the way, you screwed up. Suggestion, improve your game. Get a stronger frame.

DigitalDegenerate · 2016-08-23T08:01:40+00:00

Or you could grow a new RED PAIR and respond with "My biological clock says you're out and a new Jane I met elsewhere is in. Bon voyage, your useless vaginal services are no longer needed!"

Title	When a girl tells you she wants something serious and...
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Date	August 23, 2016 4:31 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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