If she keeps saying I'm just like her boyfriend, is she trying to keep me as an orbiter? I'm trying to game her, by the way

Hunter2isit · 2016-07-07T16:33:01+00:00

why are you trying so hard with a chick with a BF?

trpthroway123 · 2016-07-07T18:32:53+00:00

She loves the validation and attention your lavishing her with. She loves that you flirt with her. She loves that it's clear you want her. She loves knowing she's in control and gets to deny you over and over and you'll come crawling back because you want her so bad.

She loves knowing she can get you to leave a girl you're flirting with, a girl you might actually have a chance with, just by flipping her hair or whatever move it is she does to get your attention. She loves that she can control you.

This is why you don't get anywhere in private, she has no interest in you beyond a fountain of validation.

Pull away. Ignore her. Focus on others. Make her crave the validation she knows she can get from you and is now being denied, and you might get somewhere.

If you don't, fuck it, at least you got somewhere with another girl instead of wasting your time filling her head with compliments.

Title	If she keeps saying I'm just like her boyfriend, is she trying to keep me as an orbiter? I'm trying to game her, by the way
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Date	July 7, 2016 4:20 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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