Am I in an unwinnable situation; or am I still being a fuckwit? Married

[deleted] · 2016-06-26T00:40:46+00:00

One of the things ive agreed not to do is initiate sex.

You absolutely 100 percent cannot do this indefinitely. Helping her work through her issues is great, and I'm of the opinion that you should do that, but it should not consist of removing initiating sex indefinitely.

Might want to take this to the marriedredpill sub.

blackhawks93 · 2016-06-26T01:35:24+00:00

Get her exercising every day. They did a study and a 30 min run 3x a week was more effective than anti anxiety drugs. Her body is probably fucked up right now and exercise and a good diet will put her back on track and make her hornier. Also make her take horny goat weed every day. It increase libidos in both men and women.

50pluspiller · 2016-06-26T11:39:18+00:00

If she's not having sex with you find it elsewhere.

Her moron counselor already told her to leave, so you are already in the shit. Get out and about, lift, meet new people, go for a plate or two. Reduce /eliminate any affection shown to your wife, but dont be an asshole about it, but just make the relationship more like a business arrangement, hopefully this aloof dread, will kick start her. If not, if she follows the counselor advice you're screwed anyway.

Which brings me to the most important advice, get your ass to an attorney NOW and get your ducks in a row. Go full nuclear the moment she takes the advice and leaves.

Title	Am I in an unwinnable situation; or am I still being a fuckwit? Married
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	June 26, 2016 12:06 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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