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blackhawks93/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:05 AM
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blackhawks93/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:45 AM
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If you are in a monogamous relationship that means you are entitled to sex, at least a little. That's the whole point of being monogamous, sex with only one person.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:29 PM
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I'm in finance, what she did was illegal. She can get her license pulled. Consider your options, some races are worth ending. If you wanted to you could contact a financial regulating authority and report her.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:28 PM
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She was in a mono relationship with you and there was no sex. Don't apologize but don't be a dick. Simply say, "You didn't satisfy my needs so I found it elsewhere." The relationship is dead. Move on. Also FYI never hard next a plate that has leverage over you that you are tired of. I become super beta towards them and they end up leaving haha.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:23 PM
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If he has a six pack he is an automatic 7
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:46 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:28 PM
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This is why you should get std tests every 3 months.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:26 PM
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I had a friend who was a 2, maybe a 1. He started lifting and now he is fit and has a six pack. Women call him a solid 7 or 8 now. My point is lifting is 70% of physical attraction for both men and women. The other 30% is genetics. Max out your body and you will be attractive even if you are ugly as shit. Then learn game and you will be even more attractive. Read Models and the sidebar if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:23 PM
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Yes. It made it easier to talk to women. I was also able to connect with my extroverted self easier and not be in my head.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 05:28 PM
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NPR is by far the least worst out of all of them. CNN should be shamed.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:24 PM
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All the advice here is good but what really was a game changer was learning how to edge properly. When you feel like you are 50-60% of the way to cumming, change the rhythm or position. Just focus on yourself and her orgasm will come. Just keep repeating that. Don't be afraid to pause, and if you pause, stay inside her but rub your body against her. It will still feel like sex to her but you don't have friction so it will help you calm down.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:48 AM
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Perhaps. It's always an option.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:05 PM
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Don't think of things as black or white / on or off. Think of TRP as a spectrum with blue pill on one side, purple in the middle, and red on the far right. You will find good information throughout the spectrum but in my experience the more red you get, the more successful you are with women. Whoever cares the least holds the most power. We do say that you should be 10-20% Blue in long term relationships for comfort tests but don't go overboard. I think I just lost a girl because I was sick and …
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:32 PM
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Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (Gregory Hayes edition), How to win friends and influence people, 48 laws of power, rational male, models,
/r/askTRP01/11/16 11:47 PM
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Yeah. You may have already ruined her. They say cheaters are born from being cheated on. Now she will probably cheat on the next guy.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:24 AM
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Let her suck you off (with a condom on). Fuck her if you want. I read your comments and I think it's a good idea to do this. It will help you mellow out. Ignore the haters.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:22 AM
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Do improv. Seriously. Also read more books (non fiction)
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:18 AM
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It's probably too late to take roids (mainly HGH) to increase height. I'd agree and amplify when someone makes fun of you and that will help take the sting out of it, show you are a man, and take the fun out of it for them. I suggest improv and read the sidebar again. I'm sorry you are 5'8 but in the time it took you to read this, at least 1 child died from starvation. Get over it.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:16 AM
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It happens. Less with religion people but still 30%+
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:26 PM
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Outdoor soccer (usually just training and running with the ball in front of me) Lifting BJJ Shooting guns (responsibly)
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:23 PM
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Don't you gut them on site to reduce weight?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:23 PM
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Exactly. It was tradition to burn journals after death but his survived. He would hate the fact that millions of people have read his personal journals but he was a stoic so he would probably be unfazed.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:02 PM
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You don't. You get new friends. Make them feel threatened that you may leave them then show yourself. People are a lot more accepting if they are afraid.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:42 AM
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What's the third book about?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:24 AM
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Women do initiate if you are alpha enough. But if you are a 5 you get bombarded with hot guys on a daily basis. Don't get me started on the 6's. The reality is they just don't need to put on any effort.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 06:45 PM
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You sound like a great dad. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 06:37 PM
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Read bang. Some tips are to ask as few questions as possible and try to invoke emotion. Most of the time asking girls out is risky, but it's a numbers game. Waiting for a perfect moment is too costly.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:12 PM
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I think models and the game were better. The art of seduction is great as well.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:23 PM
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Setting boundaries is arguably the most important part of any relationship.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:37 AM
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Pay for it. It's a small price to pay.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:36 AM
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Mods please ban this spammer. He offers no constructive advice.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:34 PM
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Take longer to cum. Get good at edging and then pulling out or stopping for a few second. Also I'm noticed that the more you tense up the easier it is to cum so try to remain super relaxed.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:15 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, you lucked out by not marrying this girl.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:58 PM
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If you use time correctly. Do a cycle of p90x and get healthy. Read some books.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:35 PM
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Transfer credits now. Don't take a year off.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:04 PM
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You can do whatever you want but the reality is that she has a child that will consume a lot of her time. You are still young and you should be able to find a girl that isn't a single mom.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:22 AM
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Well said. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 09:58 PM
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Exactly. In my opinion OP is kind of a dick for taking her best years and breaking up if he can't give a good reason. From the surface, this girl did everything right and was loyal and avoided the CC.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 08:19 PM
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I've heard a lot about r/k so maybe you haven't read all the posts? TRP basically assumes that human nature is by default r (which there's evidence for, see Stefan Molyneux's video on r/k). It's possible to find a k woman, and we talk about it a lot, but they are hard to find. We talk about LTR's all the time and the qualities to look for (k qualities). I don't really get your argument. I feel like we discuss r/k all the time. We might not label it r/k so that's why you can't search for it but w…
/r/askTRP17/09/16 06:18 PM
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Ding ding. Get a paternity test on any and all future children.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:06 PM
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The massage therapist stole from you! The banker stole from you! The personal trainer stole from you! You exchanged money for a service. Period. Don't get existential or crazy. Unless she was trafficked or abused, you shouldn't feel bad. As long as she wasn't an obvious drug addict, a child, or trafficked and didn't want to be here, you shouldn't feel bad.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:15 AM
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Why did you leave so fast? You didn't try for round 2 or 3? You didn't go down on her? More info is needed.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:01 AM
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Not a bad idea but remember to go back.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:26 AM
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20% caught an STD? Shit
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:01 AM
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Game theory suggests you should say nothing. She wants to be exclusive, and she potentially deleted her tinder account. I would consider going exclusive with her if you don't want to chase other women. Don't ask because it makes you sound beta.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 11:33 PM
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I was very upset that being nice to women got me nowhere. I didn't understand that exchanging "niceness" for sex is manipulative. TRP taught me game and really helped take the anger out of me. I think the idea that TRP is full of anger is wrong, we have angry new subscribers, but the older gents on here do their best to calm them down.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:50 AM
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I encourage it. Less competition for me.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:39 AM
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What's wrong with bringing women to your parents? Will they disapprove? Why not go to her place? I can't live your life for you but I'd try to pay off my debts as fast as possible. Why are you only netting 29k out of 40k? You said cost of living is high but in the first paragraph you said your parents pay for housing, utilities, etc.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:39 AM
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Just ghost them if you don't have the guts to break up.
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:35 AM
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Shit happens. Be happy it's him and not you. You have a choice between reconnecting with him or ignoring him because he was a shity person before the diagnosis. Game theory suggests that there's a benefit to reconnecting with him, and minimal costs. I hate saying it because personally I feel like he should reap what he sewed but I would reconnect with him for the sole reason that you can walk away at any time and you don't want to regret it after his death. If things get shity don't be afraid to…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:31 AM
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How wealthy are we talking?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:12 PM
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Don't be ashamed. Never be ashamed for being a man. Women expect men to make the first move, and then shame the ugly ones for being "too forward." It's possibly she stopped because of you, but don't be so narcissistic. It probably has nothing to do with you. If she or someone else tries to shame you in the future, laugh and say that you will never apologize for being a man. You can joke that you hit on every woman, especially your grandma. Women never make the first move so they can't complain w…
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:04 PM
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My advice: dancing is 90% ego and doing whatever you want. I was called a very talented dancer because I basically threw her around the dance floor, did a bunch of spins by myself, purposefully let go of her to dance and do my own moves and have her re establish the touch. Do the hand of God and other dance moves. Watch YouTube videos. It takes 10 min.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 06:58 PM
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Suicide is an option but here's my advice. Kids in Africa would kill for your body. Same with paraplegics. If they could be happy with your body, then it stands that the problem is your personality. Kill your personality. Drop all your friends and family and delete every number from your phone. If they were good influences, you wouldn't be thinking like this. Get new hobbies. Become extremely selfish. One common theme in guys like you is that they are not selfish enough. They put others first an…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:57 PM
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Good luck finding a virgin. Even then, how do you know she really is? I could never forgive myself if I gave up sexual pleasure and restrained myself for a wife who didn't do the same. Same with finance, I will never marry a girl who wasted her youth and didn't save money and prepare for the future.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:15 PM
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Is it in the sidebar or in the book of pook? I've read all the material but I don't remember a O, unless I just forgot.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 03:21 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 01:55 AM
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More inhuman than lying like she did? At some point you have to put yourself first in the relationship and look out for your best interests. The reason we say no explanation is because it's easy to fuck up a break up explanation and make her feel like she's not as guilty as she actually is. By saying nothing, you don't make it any easier on her. Closure is for good girlfriends who break up with you, not for shity ones that cheat. Also there's the possibility of her convincing you to stay. Have y…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 01:54 AM
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Depends on your country. It helps a lot of guys so it should be considered.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 01:45 AM
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What exercise? For deadlift, the swinging of your hips before you pull (to load the hamstrings) really helped me get by back straight.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:22 PM
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Serious answer: go to a pros or a Asian massage parlor during monk mode. It will help significantly with anxiety and depression if used in moderation.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:18 PM
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What does TSGM stand for?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:32 PM
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Follow Donald Trump's unwritten rules: No blacks, minorities, or poor people. Seriously though, don't be a dick.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 12:31 PM
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She's getting ready to branch swing or is in the process. Or she unlocked him when you broke up for a few days. I'd break up with her.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:27 AM
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I'd tell her no and let her drop. We complain about women who waste their time pursuing relationships that don't have an outcome. In a way, I respect her for being up front and not just going with the flow like other women.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:15 PM
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If you tried to help them they would only get bitter and hold it against you. Just let it be and be thankful you aren't them.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:30 PM
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Bro the secret is don't make a big deal out of partner count. Now she will try to lie to the next guy about her number.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:21 PM
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5-10% match rate. Sometimes higher. Chicago/Orange County, California 5'10 165 Decent build, think of a soccer player. I see myself as a solid 8 but I've been called a 9 multiple times. 25% are 6's, 30% are 7's, 20% are 8's, 15% are 9's, 10% are 10's.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:52 AM
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Just acknowledge that you will probably get herpes. I hear it's not so bad. Most doctors don't test for it anymore because it's so common so even girls who are honest with you may not know they even have it. Don't become a player if you can't accept the risk. They say that the way you know you've become a player is when you get herpes.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:54 PM
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I disagree with this for one reason. It incentivizes women not to recant false accusations. If someone knows they will be punished if they admit to lying they are less likely to tell the truth after the fact.
/r/becomeaman19/08/16 08:44 PM
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The only way to even it out is if you fuck another woman, maybe an escort. Or else the power dynamics would be off.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:50 AM
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Prime yourself by talking to anyone. Try to have 5-6 conversations with anyone really helps me.
/r/seduction15/08/16 10:12 PM
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Not worth it. Just kill your personality and become a different person.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 11:50 PM
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I think that body is totally achievable but facts are facts.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 09:57 PM
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Brad Pitt took steroids to get that body.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 06:50 PM
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Yup. But remember that women are victims and men are oppressive. White males control everything and have absolutely no problems. /s
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:31 PM
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Muhahaha this is great advice. Play the victim and get sympathy for not finding a girl to marry haha.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:15 PM
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I think the "magic" comes from taking the release away from you. If you are no longer able to release yourself it changes the way you think and act. Nofap is freeing in a way because you have to actually go out and talk to girls if you want to orgasm. I think that taking the ability to orgasm out of your own hands (literally) can give a different experience to many young kids who grew up on porn and masturbating.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:34 AM
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I do. Any gigs besides teaching? Like accounting? What company did you use to get it set up?
/r/seduction11/08/16 12:19 AM
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This is why you always get a paternity test. No exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 09:48 PM
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Oral herpes is common as fuck. He probably got it from kissing her not eating her out.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:38 AM
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No it's perfectly appropriate in this context. I recommend exercise, meditation, and therapy.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:20 AM
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Never apologize for being a man. Approach everyone because girls won't make the first move. Get used to rejection, make a game out of it.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 01:18 AM
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I highly recommend listening to the game audiobook and then reading models by Mark Manson. Those two books have changed my life and filled 99% of the gaps.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:37 AM
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Please tell me you have a prenup. Please god tell me you have a prenup. If you do id divorce immediately. Go to every attorney in town and the surrounding area that is good and get them on a $500 retainer. Tell them you want to hire them but you are waiting for the right moment. Keep them on standby. That way none of them will help her because it's a conflict of interest. Drain your savings. Buy Bitcoin. And protect your assets by any means necessary. Stop having sex with her.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:26 PM
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Wow I wasn't expecting that. Great video.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:28 PM
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Buy horny goat weed. It's better and safer. Take 1-2 pills a day and it will work almost immediately but it might take 3 or 4 days if you are unlucky. Much cheaper and healthier.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:48 AM
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Lol good luck finding a virgin.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:40 AM
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I know this is petty but maybe getting revenge on your brother could help you heal. Beat him up a few times, break one of his arms, steal all his money and break some things of his. Causing him pain might help you feel better about giving up the pain he caused you.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:59 PM
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It's possible to have kids without marriage now so I'd recommend that.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:54 PM
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I know a film guy who makes a lot by going door to door asking businesses if they'd like to make a commercial or a YouTube video. Most businesses want to but they think they have to spend 20k to make a good commercial. If you could make a good commercial for 5k you'd probably find people.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:51 PM
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The iron rules of tomassi? That's in the "Rational Male"
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:37 PM
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Bro delete that photo you don't want to be doxxed. Delete it from the site you posted it on too.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:32 PM
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Isn't Tijuana pretty dangerous right now with the drug war? I was going to visit but my Aunt told me people disappear all the time.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:12 PM
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Car, walks, beach, city, run, gym
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:26 PM
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What were your symptoms
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:28 AM
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Kill your personality, not your body.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:15 PM
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Well then her workout plan needs to change. Also anxiety drugs are known to cause weight gain. I'd create a new workout plan for her, do HIIT instead of steady state cardio. I'd do the deck of cards workout or other HIIT plans for full body. Also get her off those pills if you can. Smoke cannabis instead. It has been shown to help with anxiety. I used to take pills and cannabis actually cured me of anxiety by forcing me to be comfortable when I'm outside of my comfort zone. It's different though…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:47 PM
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5x5 is best all around. But consistency (lifting 3x per week minimum) is 98%, reps and sets are 2%.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:31 AM
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It all depends on the girl. If she has very good genetics, I would tell her to keep the baby. If she doesn't, I'd encourage abortion.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:23 AM
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Strong fathers, brothers, army, or hard life experience.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:17 AM
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Block her on everything and move on.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 09:40 PM
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Get her exercising every day. They did a study and a 30 min run 3x a week was more effective than anti anxiety drugs. Her body is probably fucked up right now and exercise and a good diet will put her back on track and make her hornier. Also make her take horny goat weed every day. It increase libidos in both men and women.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 01:35 AM
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Towels are better they absorb more skin oil.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 12:12 AM
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Another great tip for acne is to put a towel over your pillow each night and remove it in the morning. It will really help with acne. That helped me more than anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 05:38 AM
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Get good at improv
/r/askTRP17/06/16 03:43 PM
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Are frozen sperm the same quality as fresh sperm? I'd like a vacemtomy but idk if i want frozen sperm to turn into my future kids. Sorry English is not my first language.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 06:18 PM
1

Don't stop. Self improvement is hard.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 07:38 PM
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In America we over tax people making less than 250k and under tax people making more. We severely undertax our billionaires aka our corporate overlords aka our oligarchs.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:40 PM
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This is huge. I went from super shy introvert to a gregarious extrovert.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:22 PM
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No catch just watch out for crazy/baby rabies.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:40 PM
1

Fuck a escort and that will get you up to speed very fast. Sex is easy and kissing is easy. It's not a huge deal.
/r/seduction03/06/16 10:11 PM
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I love the hate. Keep brining it. Haha. I just thought I could help some newbies so say what you want.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 03:08 PM
1

Yea I just wonder about that because it's different than natural test. Also Arnold might not be the best example because didn't he have heart surgery twice? I wish steroids were 100% safe and they were proven.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:07 PM
1

What are the long term effects? I want to live to be 80 or 100. Would taking test make my lifespan shorter?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:57 PM
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Why would you get the female test and not the male?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:52 PM
0

I recommend Horny Goat Weed instead of Viagra. It's a lot safer and does the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:51 PM
1

Ok so what's the number? You can always move. I estimate that there are 50 million women at least that fit the bill for me. I just need to find them.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:46 PM
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You told her your position but thank god you didn't say why. Obviously don't say divorce rape or anything like that. Just say you don't want kids at this age and you don't want to get married anytime soon. She will then ask about in 3-5 years and then you can say maybe. That way you can get yourself out of the shit storm you put yourself in. Or you can say you don't want kids or marriage. Don't give a reason. Never give a reason. Personally I would break up with her and let another guy date her …
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:33 AM
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Whoever is most willing to walk away has the most power in a relationship. With at least 3 billion women on this planet, don't sacrifice your boundaries for one.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:42 PM
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Next. I'd block her on all forms of social media and watch her crawl back.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 02:17 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:43 AM
1

We don't trust men either. But giving women a free pass is stupid.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:08 PM
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Expect 1-2 years of trying before change.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:25 PM
1

What's your job? Any advice for a accounting guy fresh out of college? I'm going for a CPA
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:59 PM
2

I got laid and now I no longer fear success. If I were you, I'd either stop masturbating or see a hooker. Either of those options will eventually kill success anxiety. I also recommend buying Horny Goat Weed at any supplement store. It will make you hornier and more aggressive which will help you.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:53 PM
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You need to become alpha in slower steps. You can't just change overnight and make demands. Slowly prove it. Step 1 do not apologize no matter what. Step 2 if they don't clean up clothes or dishes throw them in the garbage literally. Step 3 don't apologize and say clean up after yourself next time. No need to curse because in my opinion cursing doesn't help when you aren't trying to be playful. If someone doesn't clean up their shit I will throw it away. They never fuck up again. Give them a war…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:45 PM
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I find that my anxiety was actually fear of outcome. I was afraid that I would be successful or that I won't be successful and I would be rejected. So I told myself I wasn't going to get a number or ask her out. When I told myself that, it was easier to just talk because you don't have the overwhelming fear of when is the right moment to make the move.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:10 PM
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I stopped going in with expectations. Tell yourself you won't get numbers
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:01 PM
1

What are the best bars and clubs to go to?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 10:08 PM
5

That's not TRP's fault. Ignorance is bliss. I'd rather know the cheat codes to life and be bitter than be blissfully ignorant and keep fucking up relationships.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 01:41 AM
1

You can thank Ronald Reagan for that. He started the trend of no fault divorce.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 01:12 PM
0

Take improv classes
/r/seduction09/05/16 01:02 PM
1

Sgm?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 12:54 PM
6

Dump her
/r/askTRP09/05/16 01:24 AM
-5

Do IVF. Pay a Harvard swimmer 10k for her eggs (ask for at least 3). Get prime genetics and intelligence and pay a maid/caretaker to help you raise your child.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:27 PM
2

Read the 48 laws of power. One law is to make your actions seem effortless. Don't talk about TRP to anyone EXCEPT your son or daughter. They should know the laws of social dynamics. I've told my friends about the 48 laws of power and now they think I'm manipulative. Don't tell people where you get your secrets from unless they ask and you think they are capable of change.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 07:30 PM
1

It won't damage your reputation. In this context. Also what if she was being sarcastic?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:37 PM
5

She found someone else. Cut all contact and block her on everything. Try to get all your money back for everything and if you can't get refunded, send the bill to her parents and ask for your money back. Never talk to her again and if her parents ask say she broke it off. Be more dominant and care less about their feelings. You should be #1 in your world, not her. Also unicorns don't exist, there are millions of women just like her, many hotter.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:36 PM
1

Where in Iowa? Cost of living is high but it reflects the weather and low property taxes compared to other states. I've lived in Iowa and while it was good (college town) I would not go back because of the winters.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 10:46 PM
1

I would say SF or LA. Malibu is nice but it's for older people and super pricy. I recommend Hermosa Beach, Marina Del Rey, SF city, Los Angeles, Long Beach, Or basically any town near the coast or that the 405 goes through. I'd try living with some roommates and saving for a condo next time the economy crashes. Personally, I really like Orange County but it's about 2 hours from LA which can be a pain.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:02 PM
2

SoCal is heaven on earth. Unless you are living in Arizona metros, Houson, Dallas, or Florida Metros I would say SoCal is where it's at. I've never been to Washington state or Oregon but I hear those are acceptable.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:00 PM
1

I like to laugh things off when I'm very wrong. It's better that I'm corrected sooner rather than later.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 07:58 PM
2

No always break the ice in person first.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 08:04 PM
1

Everything that everyone else said is gold but I want to add maybe hire some hookers to help build confidence and lower approach anxiety?
/r/askTRP08/04/16 08:03 PM
1

No but I think he got it from a trannie pros
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 05:56 PM
1

I was like you. The reality is that "the dreamy reality" you want does not exist beyond Hollywood movies. You always need to calculate and understand power moves and boundaries. It sucks but life is not easy.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 04:50 AM
2

He also got aids from anal sex with trannies. I wish I was kidding. He didn't get it from vaginal with a high class female escort.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 04:47 AM
6

Fair enough. Practice is good.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:23 PM
3

Exactly. Just because you can bang hot dudes doesn't mean they are in your league.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:01 PM
9

I agree but what are you gaining from putting yourself out there? You might ruin any chance of talking to the cute soccer player in your class. Also what are your main points that you would argue?
/r/askTRP03/04/16 02:30 PM
108

You don't.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 02:14 PM
0

Can you elaborate? I thought omegas < alphas
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 01:45 PM
3

It gets easier the longer you approach. Expect 6 months of hell with zero results and then one day you will become semi natural and start getting results. It only gets better after that. Be aggressive but don't assault women (obviously). Stop masturbating so much and imagine biting the girls ass and sinking your teeth into her. Sub communicate that you desire her and you will get results. It's better to be rejected in 10 seconds of honest intentions than to "game" for 10 minutes acting like her …
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:48 AM
1

I would say cut down just to free up time but the problem isn't weed.
/r/seduction29/03/16 05:05 PM
1

Maybe for most people but I find it does the opposite for ADD people.
/r/seduction29/03/16 05:03 PM
5

It's all about the mentality. Having a victim complex is never healthy.
/r/seduction29/03/16 01:32 AM
161

Weed isn't the problem, lack of discipline is. Stop blaming other people and other things for your failure. Stop considering yourself a victim, no one is a victim.
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:42 PM
1

How does self depreciation apply to agree and amplify? If someone says I'm fat, A&A tells me I should sarcastically say yeah I'm so fat I can hardly get through doors.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:11 PM
1

He's not sorry for anything but the idea is if she shows up asking for answers say sorry I have nothing else to say. Sometimes starting a sentence with sorry makes it better than if you just said I have nothing to say.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 10:24 PM
5

Tell her over text that you are breaking up. Few words as possible and then block her number. If she shows up say sorry but you have nothing more to say and walk away. Let your boss know she cheated on you and say that's the reason for ending it if she makes a scene. Don't give too many reasons or words.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:20 AM
3

Adopt my 20 minute rule. Set a timer on your phone and force yourself to not move until it is finished. I read 15 books last year from doing that. Remember that 5 pages a day is over 5 books per year. I recommend reading immediately when you get up and right before bed. Also it sounds like you have anxiety, plan out your future and act IN THE PRESENT. Ignore the past and future when you are creating action. Also read Models by Mark Manson. Great book.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 05:08 AM
13

Just remember she's probably ducking other guys so don't get too attached.
/r/seduction22/03/16 04:41 AM
8

The laffer curve is interesting but it misses the point of the velocity of money and how people react to higher taxes. Higher personal income taxes incentivize business owners to keep money in their businesses instead of taking it out. Also, billionaires take up a significant portion of the GDP (if you consider that it's just one person) but yet they spend very little compared to the average middle class person if you look at income to spending charts. Couple that with a consumption based econom…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:53 AM
1

Yes and I read it. What are some of your favorites? I've probably read them
/r/askTRP21/03/16 02:48 AM
1

I agree. I wonder why sociopaths are so masculine or succeed so much. My guess is that they aren't embarrassed by social norms and take life by the horns.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:40 AM
1

Any books to recommend besides the sidebar? I've read the side bar and I still want more.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:37 AM
11

Economist here. Entitlements are bad, but the two wars that we didn't pay for and almost 10 years of tax cuts (with no caps for millionaires or billionaires) is what is fucking us. Plus corporations are avoiding taxes left and right and making the middle class deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 12:52 AM
57

I would have laughed and started to give him tips. "Tell her that you like her hair" etc. make it awkward for him.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 05:20 PM
1

About hookers... What's the risk of HSV 2 if they aren't showing symptoms?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:08 AM
1

I agree but what's your best advice when you can't relate easily? Find new friends?
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:15 PM
4

Bro never touch a girls throat. That's assault in my state, even if she slaps you it's always the guys fault.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 10:56 PM
1

I'll let others address the time but for studying use my golden rule of 20. It's a system I developed: 20 min study, 20 min break, 20 min study. That way you use 2/3 of each hour and your brain is at peak performance 100% of the time. Studying for longer than 20 minutes starts to reduce efficiency and after 40 minutes you are half of what you began with.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 10:52 PM
2

Downgrades are covert not overt. Just treat her like you already downgraded her and she will hopefully eventually get it. If not, don't be a dick just don't invest.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 10:04 PM
3

I wouldn't even plate at first. I'd straight up dump, no reason, and let her crawl back.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 07:34 PM
0

I'd say give me back my money immediately or I'll sue.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 03:42 AM
1

I found out that "game" was something you could learn instead of something you just had. I bought into the narrative of "be yourself." I was tired of being nice and not getting anything to show for it.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 09:18 PM
3

Great response. If she tries to piss you off the best thing you can do is laugh. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:13 AM
2

The feeling that I am unloveable. I have half facial paralysis. Sometimes I feel like nothing will help me, but I still cold approach and game anyway. I go on dates but I still haven't had success. Edit: To the guy who messaged me, prostitution is illegal in the USA
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:28 PM
2

Bad idea never do that bc they will raise your wage and start looking for another person and 4 months later you'll get canned.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:21 AM
1

Yea game is necessary because you will come into contact with women.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:09 PM
4

No more mr nice guy and Models by mark Manson. I haven't read the rational male so I can't comment.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:46 AM
-2

Over rated
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:09 AM
-1

Over rated
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:09 AM
-2

Child support?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:16 PM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:42 AM
2

Thanks for the info. it came from a health book called "Eat to Live" by Dr. Joel Fuhrman. The author is a vegan. I still eat meat but I thought the idea of caloric density was interesting. He says we only need about 100g of protein max per day and we should focus on micronutrients and eat over 50% of our food from plant sources. He has studies and sources backing up his points about how animal products and especially dairy are linked to increased cancer risk and if you want to maximize overall h…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:54 PM
0

Why? Some sources like beef have a lot of fat (which is calories as well). Protein per total calories? Protein density? Maybe those terms will help you understand what I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:15 PM
3

Good job but you didn't even have to explain yourself after she flipped out. Personally if someone doesn't respond within 24 hours I assume a no and invite someone else. When you explained yourself, in her mind she thinks you were giving an excuse to validate your wrongdoing. The reality is that you never explain yourself if you didn't do anything wrong. She flipped the script on you. Good job on standing your ground though.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:33 PM
-4

Lift hard and eat healthy. Meat is not a good source of protein if you consider protein per calorie. I suggest beans and greens. Meat should be considered a dessert not the main meal.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:20 PM
1

What are the side effects
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:35 PM
6

Why is it that when you give a woman everything she wants, and your heart, she will mistreat you? All women claim that they want everything listed above, but if you are actually stupid enough to do it, you will always get friend zoned. Is it a "you want what you can't have" thing?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 06:28 PM
3

No I know people that started at 49 and got their shit together. Work out everyday and eat healthy. No sugar and only drink water. Do cardio 3x per week and weight lifting 5x per week. You can drown in pussy when you are 30+ if you get fit.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:06 PM
1

Lol that's a great idea
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:44 PM
6

The U.K., aka capital of the regressive left.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 03:31 AM
2

Basically said, among other things, tips for getting over her. Remembering that she will miss you too (even if she dumps you) and if you take the mentally that although you were happy, you are going to concentrate on missing her less than she misses you. Make the breakup a small part of your life, go no contact with her because the more words you say the less power you have. Change your life and start lifting and caring about yourself first. Make your own happiness a priority. Don't give too muc…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:15 PM
3

Don't hate her because you realized other people are self interested. Be happy that you didn't marry her. Live for yourself now. You only have 30 years left IF YOURE LUCKY. Don't make actions that don't directly benefit you. It sounds shity but c'est la vie.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:16 PM
1

The erotic review website. Be careful of backpage, I hear there's a lot of cops. Also I don't condone illegal behavior.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:13 PM
6

This. Remember no explanation. Don't give her closure.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:11 PM
2

What's the protocol? TRP would tell you to kick her out and not let her sleep over if she tells you no to sex.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:59 AM
1

Send me her number. I love older women.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 01:36 AM
1

This. People need a sexual outlet.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:09 PM
64

This. And another reason not to tell her is so the next guy will see the red flags as well. We don't want her to get smart and start doing it secretly.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:22 PM
1

Beta male Virgins are the ones who shoot up schools.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:54 PM
1

The military is a great start for people.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:25 AM
3

They test it but in .001% of cases bad blood does go through. That's why they say never give blood as a means to test for STD's.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:24 AM
3

I agree with you but what if the immigrants don't have any education or skills? What if they aren't rich and need a job? Regular Americans need money for school, we need jobs. Why not help out the citizens first, since they pay taxes. The humanitarian approach is nice, but look at what is happening now with Sweden. People will abuse your kindness. We should let the people who have been here over a year or longer get citizenship, especially if they are Latino. As for Middle East refugees..... May…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:23 AM
3

Yes. But stop assuming everyone is one or the other. People can have a spectrum of beliefs.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:35 AM
4

You sound like a good person but as someone who lives in a big city, please don't give to the homeless. I know it sounds cruel but that's why we have social safety nets and welfare and free housing. Homeless people have options but choose to not use them. Immigration: what's wrong with a conservative view? I pay taxes, shouldn't every government decision be biased in the favor of its citizens? Yea letting everyone in would be nice, but Switzerland didn't become rich from having open borders and …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:34 AM
1

Great advice. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is now. Semi-controversial advice: you should join the military. It will get you healthy and make you fit.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 11:01 PM
2

You can be happy because happiness is a choice. Emotions are not dependent on circumstance, don't be a slave to circumstance and to your emotions like everyone else. You should feel happy because you choose to. That's the only reason you need.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:38 PM
1

Don't respond or reply with vague "ok" or "for sure" so that she thinks you are just blowing her off and don't really care.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:21 PM
2

A beta is someone who puts his happiness in other things and not himself. Happiness is a choice, regardless of circumstance. That is why poor men are happy and rich men are sad. First things first, your cat died, I'm sorry. I watched my father die in front of me when I was 12 so if you want to talk about how fucked up life is, let me write the intro. The reality is that you need to re create yourself and use this as a sign. If you died tomorrow suddenly, just like your cat, would you be happy wi…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:17 PM
2

Pretty much.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:08 PM
2

Donating blood to check for std's is the worst idea ever. Bad blood does get through occasionally and can really hurt someone.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:06 PM
2

It's a bad idea. You could really hurt someone so don't do it.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 10:05 PM
1

The best mentor is a mix between Machiavelli, PUA's, and Robert Greene. Read the FAQ and all the suggested reading and picture those men as your father.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:57 PM
2

Exactly. Don't think about it.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:04 PM
1

I feel bad for any guy reading this and thinking he should stay a beta. I don't have a problem with their relationship but where was he while she was in her prime and living it up? He was probably single and miserable. A mix of alpha and beta is good for husband material but you have to be crazy if you think beta males can succeed in early 20's dating.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:49 PM
10

What people say in public is not what they would do if they are desperate 20+ virgins. I think Freud said it best that sex is a human NEED and without it you can become psychologically messed up. It's sad that our society is so puritanical and acts like sex isn't necessary and makes fun of people who complain that they don't have a sex life.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 10:15 PM
17

Guys with no sexual outlet can be a danger to society. That's why St. Augustine of all people said that prostitution is a social need. There is no legal way to get sex if your game is shit and you don't look good or are mental because of other reasons. I think sexual frustration was his biggest problem.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:57 PM
0

Asshole, I know it's a shit test but I want your actual line that you use.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 06:14 PM
1

Amused mastery, agree and amplify, disagree and amplify, or silence.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:56 PM
1

Please tell me you're being sarcastic.
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:12 PM
1

48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:28 AM
2

Just manipulate him. He can't be trusted because he blabs his mouth. Use that to your advantage and go art of war style. Don't talk shit about your ex all the time, make it a more classy attack against her. Or rather, how you have found the perfect woman who is free of a specific flaw.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 10:53 PM
3

If you could take a step back and plan out your life and ask yourself what you think the ultimate version of yourself looks like, does he have muscle? Why not hit your potential?
/r/becomeaman10/09/15 12:16 AM
1

Different context then if you are talking to a girl you just met at the bar...
/r/seduction29/08/15 04:33 AM
0

I'm not broke I just don't trade gifts for friendship. If you are already friends, that's one thing, but in this context you shouldn't be paying for a girl you don't have a relationship with.
/r/seduction29/08/15 03:25 AM
1

She's cheating or will be soon. Go radio silent for at least 3 days. Don't succumb to her power play. If she talks about privacy, say that privacy doesn't matter when you are in a committed relationship and one partner is lieing about talking to their ex.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:29 PM
-3

I hope you have better friends then I have had, but long story short, no one in this world truly cares about you more than they care about themselves... Except maybe your dog or your mom.
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:02 AM
-5

Ok but would you be friends without the financial addition? That's my point. You shouldn't buy a girl anything.
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:33 AM
-11

In my social circle (19-25) everyone is broke and you will be taken advantage of if you have money to blow.
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:32 AM
-13

No. Never pay for anything for a girl you aren't dating / sleeping with. Do you offer to buy your friends drinks??
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:00 AM
2

I'd dump her and move on. It's not even worth plating.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 01:35 PM
1

You should add that no one truly cares about you unconditionally. If you want love, buy a dog.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 01:31 PM
1

A decent amount are starting in the negative. Student loans are killing us. The average 22 year old has around 20k in debt and little to no savings.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 09:40 PM
3

He was never really broke though. Bankruptcy for rich people is different.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:50 PM
1

No he is a great writer.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 12:59 PM
59

It's easier to become a billionaire if you have 100m then it is to become a multi millionaire if you have 0.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:37 AM
1

Get your sleep and nutrition on point. Sleep 8 hours max. Eat healthy to show gains. Hit the gym and work out at least 3x per week. Try to get abs within 6 months (it's easy). Stop watching tv and playing video games. Do you care more about living life or watching others live it? Spend 1 hour a day reading. I recommend The Game by Neil Strauss to get you into the frame of mind for dealing with women. Make sure you kill it in school and make money too. You don't need A's but be sure you know the …
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:08 PM
3

Most waiters don't ask if it looks like a date.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:06 AM
1

I stopped trying to negotiate attraction. I realized that girls could want me for me and I didn't need to put them on a pedestal anymore. I have a theory that most "blue pill" men who are successful with women are actually alpha's and could be classified as red pill at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 03:07 AM
1

I take women very seriously but I also understand a woman's perspective because I live with two of them. Without sounding too harsh, its easier to get what you want if you are an attractive woman than if you are an average man. I've noticed that when attractive women complain because they aren't getting what they want, they tend to over react (because a lot of the time men bend to their wishes for whatever reason). If you put up with their over reaction, and wait 15 minutes, they often calm down…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 02:52 AM
1

Ok and what if I hit a wall. Is their recommended reading about where to steer the conversation after?
/r/seduction18/07/15 11:22 PM
1

What's up or how are you feeling
/r/seduction18/07/15 05:09 PM
1

Great idea. Thank you. Any other advice/topics? I feel like I could get something going for 5-10 min, should I ask another relationship question after that or what? I tend to do something similar and then out of the blue, act like I heard someone call my name and walk away.
/r/seduction18/07/15 05:07 PM
1

My honest opinion is that she liked you but realized she didn't want to date you. If you want to date every girl that you hook up/spend time with then you have low self-esteem. You should consider helping her out with your friend. I'm sure both would appreciate it if you could help them hook up, and in the future if they break up theres always a chance for a FWB or a second go at dating.
/r/seduction18/07/15 04:53 PM
1

Is there a general time frame for responses? I usually follow the "match how long it took her to respond to you" rule but what if she doesn't respond for like 5-6 hours or a day? Also what if you are texting at 11pm and she responds the next morning apologizing because she fell asleep?
/r/seduction18/07/15 04:51 PM
2

I'm happy for people to know that I asked two Japanese men how often they masturbate but I want to be the one who tells them. So.... what's the answer? I would try replying, "Oh, you mean the time YOU fucked the bread? Didn't you say it left you wide open for a week." Or something like that and try to embarrass her. If she says, no it was you, cut her off and reply no need to be shy, we are all friends here. It is a great story you have. Or you could say stop flirting with me, or you can give he…
/r/seduction18/07/15 04:34 PM
11

Might be a cop
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:35 AM
1

True but you'll get more from nonfiction like Harris or Greene then from fiction like Shakespeare or Hemingway.
/r/becomeaman10/07/15 02:31 AM
6

You fucked up. You came off extremely beta and low self esteem.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 10:55 PM
1

I don't want one. If they ask why say that most people don't have anything to offer.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 03:45 AM
3

It's social suicide. Your woman will hate you for it and if you signed the birth certificate first (and did the test in secret) you can still be on the hook for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:30 AM
2

I have HSV-1 too. Personally, I rock it. I think women see it as pre-selection from MANY different girls. I find myself even more aggressively talking to girls and I get better reactions too. I am attractive but I think having oral herpes makes girls think I am a player/go down on girls a lot. It probably puts some girls off, but the majority of people get coldsores.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:36 AM
2

Your relationship is dead IMO. Don't forgive her, don't lose the "power" you gained by her fucking up and getting drunk. Start prioritizing lifting over her, and start talking about how your friends downloaded a app called tinder and are talking about how EVERY girl on there is HOT AND THIRSTY. Also, take an emotional step back and distance yourself. It sounds weird but if you give too much of your heart to a girl, she will get bored of you. My sister has the perfect boyfriend right now, but gue…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:32 AM
1

Going to bars alone is the shit. You can talk to anyone and girls will approach you if you project confidence.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:26 AM
3

Exactly. IMO, A lot of intellectuals have trouble with intuition. When you type it out in a logical format, it sounds bad but intuition doesn't always make logical sense. TRP is the sparknotes on intuition to guys like me who struggle with it or just haven't learned it yet.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:16 PM
1

Read the Prince. It was a book he wrote for a prince on how to achieve power and then how to keep it. The idea of being a fox is to be sly and sometimes not creating noise so you can get under someone's nose before you strike.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:04 PM
2

Learn from his social skills and maybe hold back a little on "giving him things." I've learned that people don't respond well to free advice and benefit but if you make them crave/want more from the relationship they more seriously consider it. So hold back a little on affection/giving him stuff but don't become a dick. Let him initiate more and do more of the groundwork and maybe he will become more receptive to your wants.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:07 PM
10

Your title makes it sound like you were dating him. Honestly, I would just ignore him and used amused mastery if he pisses you off. I would actually take some of Machiavelli's advice and become a "fox." Befriend him, invite him out to lunch, get him to like you and do stuff for you. Make him your subordinate and invite him to the gym. His attitude might shift for the better, or else you will be in a better leverage position to act upon it because right now you have little leverage to make an eff…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:51 PM
1

Yea in a sense but what do you classify as good parenting? Do most people teach their kids about seduction and mind games? My mom emphasized being a good person but never acknowledged mind games or how to seduce. She kind of came from the "put all you have on the table" approach and a girl will pick you up if she wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 08:38 PM
1

I agree. She could have done a better job but you need to take what you get. It could have been worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:20 AM
1

The idea that feminists are at fault for women not being 50% of the US military is an absurd re-writing of history. I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:05 AM
3

My mom wasn't a helicopter parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 08:36 PM
1

So a 5'11.25 guy would be off limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 03:16 AM
2

That's why we should create a TRP subreddit that is moderate that talks about all you said. I love the knowledge TRP gives but I hate the blatant sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:44 AM
1

No it's not that you are lying or not real, its that your "faction" is not vocal enough in the feminist community.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:41 AM
3

Exactly. A middle age woman who decides to start running and go to the gym will be able to pick up any man 18-99.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:37 AM
1

Extreme TRP and extreme feminists need to get together and form a group. Feminists in America tend to ignore male issues while TRP ignores female issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:24 AM
2

That is exactly what it is. Gender roles are changing and there is no clear picture of what it is to be a man anymore. Women are getting more rights every day (which is good) but men are losing advantages that they used to have and aren't giving a clear picture of how to act in the new culture. Feminism wants to get rid of male privilege but American feminism seems to ignore female privilege. That is why we get TRP. In my home country of Norway, the female Norwegian feminists noticed that female…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:14 AM
1

Totally depends. I would say anything higher than 8 starts to open my eyes and over 15 seems like too many unless you are a 8+ on the attractive scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:09 AM
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I think that women can fall out of love quicker then men if their needs aren't being met so maybe that is why they say this. Honestly I am confused by the statement as well. I think it goes back to the idea that the average woman has a clear advantage in the dating/marriage market over the average man and thats why they say women are opportunistic or hypergamous. They can get something better so why wouldn't they take it, whereas the average man often can't get an above average woman and most se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:04 AM
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For me, TRP taught me about power games and how to stop being a doormat for women. A lot of "nice guys" were taught about dating from their mother. Not hating on moms, but my mom definitely had my future girlfriends best interests in mind when she was telling me what to do, not my best interests. "Pay for all her meals, buy her gifts, open the doors, [put her on a pedestal].
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 02:00 AM
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I'm against the blatant sexism in TRP but if you can overlook that I think TRP has been one of the greatest things in my life. I grew up without a dad and was raised by a "old fashioned mom." Modern day women are different than the women of the 50's, 60's, and 70's. I was playing by a different rulebook. I put women on a pedestal, let them win arguments because I thought that the sooner the argument ended the faster the relationship would heal, and I HAD NO KNOWLEDGE OF POWER GAMES. TRP has taug…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 01:55 AM
1

Never hide your attraction
/r/askTRP31/05/15 01:10 AM
1

For me, who was in a similar position, running and swimming really helped me. You should already be weightlifting but incorporate some sprints or swims into your routine. When I get emotional (for lack of a better word) I start dead out sprinting or do butterfly (swim) and it leaves me exhausted. I also have spent time sitting alone in a dark room and meditating (with and without cannabis) so I can meditate on the event and let my emotion out. I have punched/broken a few things out of anger when…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:50 AM
2

Stop reading fiction. It is a waste when you only have so much time in a day. Get your entertainment from hanging out with people and women. I only read nonfiction and it has become my first love.
/r/becomeaman31/05/15 12:39 AM
1

How do you join a RSD inner circle?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 08:04 PM
1

No. Get a gym membership or my personal favorite... do p90x. In 90 days you will have a body that women want. It's hard, don't kid yourself, I am in the top 30% of guys and I still can't do all the workouts.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 10:03 PM
2

Either do nothing, say "Hold on let me finish", or keep talking and act like she never interrupted you.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 05:35 PM
1

What if I don't find her attractive but good looking enough to fuck?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:29 AM
1

OK and while I do that should I pursue lower quality women or monk mode?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:28 AM
1

Just don't respect someone who doesn't deserve respect. If they fuck up, call them on it. Too often, in my past, I let girls get away with things that I wouldn't let boys get away with because they were female and I was attracted to them, or sometimes I wasn't attracted and I still let them walk all over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 10:41 PM
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There's a fine line between respecting and letting women walk all over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 03:51 AM
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It is easier to be a woman if you play your cards right, but in our time you can be more successful as a man. In my opinion, I'd rather have a higher glass ceiling than a lower glass ceiling but a higher floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:44 AM
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Just be conscious of your boundaries. TRP mainly applies to ex-BP guys who have boundary issues with women. For example, my mom would invade my boundaries all the time but yet never let me push back to an even par in the relationship. TRP is an expansion on the Power game. It is real and most BP guys don't know it. If you are in a healthy relationship, you probably have some of the essential TRP concepts ingrained in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:39 AM
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What about aesthetic guys that came out of a bad relationship? You are forgetting them. Also TRP new subs may look like that, but TRP encourages exercise daily so after 1-2 years most would be pretty aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:31 AM
0

Care to explain why being sex positive is bad? I think that it would be cool to live in a society that isn't constantly sexually repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:26 AM
1

Try to get a bruise so my later assault charges will have merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:18 AM
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Its much harder to have a high partner count as a male than it is if you are an attractive female. There is a double standard when it comes to partner count because men and women can not be judged the same when men have a significantly longer hill to climb then women do. Slut shaming isn't right, but it's not ok for girls to think that their numbers are equal to guy's numbers. A guy has to work a lot harder then women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:13 AM
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TRP is aimed at Beta guys who are just unplugged. A common theme in our culture is that men who were raised by single moms (see nice guys) don't know how to have an "active voice" in a relationship without being submissive all the time. Most of the time, it won't be a problem, but over time and definitely after marriage, if you don't grow a pair of balls and respect yourself then your wife will not respect you the same as someone who is dominant when the relationship needs a dominant figure. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:11 AM
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In my opinion, it comes from a point of jealously. It is undeniable that women have an easier time getting sex than men do. TRP is jealous that women hold the cards for sex, but they also realize that men hold the cards for relationships. I have nothing against sluts. But there is a double standard when it comes to partner count because if you are a woman, "Sex buys you drinks at the bar." A high partner count for a man is seen as respectable because it is very rare and you have to be very good …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:08 AM
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It doesn't. Red Pill says that you should never marry a girl before you have sex with her. Some people think that you should marry virgins but that is not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 03:01 AM
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This. Worst advice I ever received was "Wait, let the girl come to you." On the flip side, this is what a lot of girls are told and many of them follow this advice. Both sides are getting screwed. We should actively pursue what we want.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 04:47 AM
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Ok thank you for the advice. I agree with you. It sucks that this happens but at least I found TRP and won't be used any longer!
/r/askTRP18/02/15 03:01 AM
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Thanks. I won't reply
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:59 AM
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Thank you! I am reading no more mr nice guy and the art of war right now. I will definitely continue following your advice.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:57 AM
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Thank you. What should my response be if she calls me on it tomorrow? "Why didn't you respond to my text, or why are you ignoring me, etc."
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:55 AM
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I disagree. She progressively has acted more interested in me and talks about how her fiance isn't as good as me, etc. She looks like she is attempting to swing branches. It helps that the other girl in the group is into me as well.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:55 AM
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Haha thanks. So going out of your way to help a girl that you aren't physical with yet is a bad idea? I understand.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:52 AM
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Ok so what is the best response?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:49 AM
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I agree. I am not fucking her... yet. She has a fiance and started to trash talk him in front of me. I can tell she thinks I am a better match than him. Personally she would have to dump him before I fuck her so it probably won't happen. Do you think doing her hw will help me fuck her?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:48 AM
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What I meant was, why is saying that better than no contact? I know I don't owe her shit but if she breaks up with her fiance I am down to "hang out" with her.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:47 AM
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Are you being serious? What is your angle by saying that?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:41 AM
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That's why we have prostitutes, to fuck the unlovable.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:30 AM
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Take it as a compliment. I had a single mom chasing me for a while at my old job and all the girls thought i should date her even though she was older and had a kid.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:44 AM
1

Yesss. The best decision I've ever made was to start lifting
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:36 AM
1

Just an idea, could work but you kind of missed your chance. Good luck
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:21 AM
1

Text her and tell her you were sending her signals and now your relationship with your girlfriend is rocky.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:44 AM
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STOP ASKING FOR SEX. Your wife thinks she can get it anytime she wants (because she has a 100% success rate with asking for it) and is getting annoyed every time you ask for it. Stop asking for sex and wait until she asks for it once and DENY HER! MAKE HER KNOW THAT SEX ISN'T SOMETHING THAT IS TOTALLY HERS. INSTALL DREAD GAME and stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 11:49 PM
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I've heard this several times. They are told that men should do everything and literally swoop them off their feet. Kind of dangerous thinking
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:34 PM
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TRP has an identity crisis. Some people want to make it a philosophy, some people want it to be an activist group, some are trying to make it a cult of thought (and deleting comments that oppose them.) It really all depends on the time of day, the mod who supervises the post, and the testosterone pumping through the veins of the individual posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 08:19 PM
1

Indeed. Divorce law definitely favors women above men so it makes sense that TRP wants to reform it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 08:01 PM
1

I disagree. Why would they complain about genetics and things you can't change? Seems like a waste of time to me. It's well known that prime genetics will beat game any day, but you just need to do your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 11:53 PM
4

Buy good health insurance with a high deductible and start working out. The best way to save money is to lead a healthy lifestyle and also don't neglect an awesome diet.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:18 PM
3

I bought a sports car and paid 13k for it. Ended up putting 3k into it before selling for a loss at 8k. Thats why.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:13 PM
1

If she initiates say no! Make her know that you are not a guaranteed booty call.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:34 PM
1

You can still meet people just focus on health and gym first! Put sex #4 on list after job, diet, and exercise.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:26 PM
1

If you start causing harm to the people around you. Keep in mind, making someone wait 20 minutes for you can be classified as harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:45 AM
2

When a guy goes to a therapist to discuss a lack of sex life in a marriage, do you know what the therapist DOESN'T say? "Have you tried treating her like shit? Have you tried treating her like she's inferior and illogical?" No, but they do encourage raising your own self worth, which in turn affects the difference between how much you value her compared to how much you value yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:41 AM
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For fucks sake, "sexual strategy is amoral!" Apparently that includes fucking someone else's wife. What better way to hamster away your self-centered need for sex that REQUIRES you to fuck a married woman than to just pass it off as amoral? Read the 48 laws of power. It dates back to ethics of moral law vs ethics of war. In a world that is solely controlled by power it is ethical to take another man's wife because she is not his property. Ethics of moral law would say that this is wrong. Most TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:40 AM
1

Hey look back at it. I think he's onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:34 AM
1

I'd agree with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:34 AM
5

No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:31 AM
1

So would you recommend going "head first"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:24 AM
2

How do you "know" them. What specific categories do you look for that perhaps some people are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:22 AM
2

I think you are completely misunderstanding the analogy and what TRP says. The TRP says you would make a good leader in a household/breadwinner. True but they would also call me a Beta Bux and obviously encourage change. That is why I have to mix it up and not be a total pansy around women when they are being unreasonable. Yeah having a woman who would support me would be great but it would take some of the challenge out of life. I'm someone who gets bored easily and without a challenge in the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 04:14 AM
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I feel you. This is why RP says never to get married (but many of us know that is not an option). I would just calculate benefits/costs. If you get caught calculate everything you'd lose. Then just reason with yourself that it is or isn't worth it depending on the woman. ONS < ruining your financial future and even maybe losing the respect of kids Sorry buddy, I'll be sure to remember this when I think about getting married though. So at least the situation doesn't go to waste.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 04:09 AM
1

Where are you from?
/r/askTRP11/01/15 04:07 AM
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I would refer to inner self as a "carrier". I have most of my shit together, (six figure net worth, one year away from finishing college with majors in Finance and Accounting, above average reasoning/intelligence, charisma, the list goes on.) Oh, did I mention I'm 21? Long story short is that I like investing my time in women who need help. I'm the guy who will go to the rescue, I think we call ourselves "Fixers." I do it for the challenge. TRP encourages not being a "fixer" or a carrier just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 03:59 AM
0

Can you lift?
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:41 AM
2

They are fake. You can still be nice but just know they are fake in the futute.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:37 AM
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My understanding is with a good lawyer and a smart man, divorce rape is 50-55% maximum. And future income excluded. Anyone who gets a worse deal than that didnt spend enough on lawyers.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:31 AM
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If you want to continue the chat then call me. Otherwise i need to use this time to chat up other tinder ladies. If she calls then talk but near the end bring up meeting in person. If she says no or not yet then next her.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:29 AM
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This happened to me. I had a sure thing, she even started showing me her BC to prove she couldnt get pregnant. The othee guy wasnt going to fuck her he just did it so i couldnt have her. I've thought long about this and i think it's a male dominance thing. He was threatened by me (i naturally am pretty alpha) and he did this as a sign that he is competition and maybe even an equal. Dont act butthurt, just add him to your radar - he just challenged. Absolutely no negative emotion
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:25 AM
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Exactly. She just initated female dread so you have to match it to balance out the power.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:20 AM
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Is your SMV higher than your wifes? Thats what it sounds like. My advice is don't fall for it unless the benefits outweigh the costs. Would your wife dicorce you for it? Would she tell your kids about it when they are older? ONS wouldnt seem worth it yet. Maybe divorce her in 10-15 years and do it then.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:18 AM
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Start lifting today! Seriously do 2 pushups and continue doing regular pushups every 30 minutes. Join /r/keto. You are fat and keto will help you switch your metabolism to burning fat for fuel instead of carbs. You will have to grocery shop for yourself, and go on a no carb diet for 5-6 days and then 1-2 days you will carb load. Carbs are seriously your enemy because you want to lose some of that fat and burn it as fuel, which will help boost testosterone and growth hormone. Sources: http://www.…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 01:57 AM
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Just be conscious about the mercury in fish? I'm no expert but I eat a lot of fish and am still researching mercury's role. Another post on bb.com said that eating 2 cans of tuna per day made him a little crazy.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 01:50 AM
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Nah hes on the same page i think. I dont want to sound stupid but look up YOLO before it went mainstream. The general vibe was exactly like what he just said
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 06:01 AM
1

Exactly. Always be working on yourself and your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:47 AM
1

Humans, women especially love emotional support and are afraid of being alone. They are probably content where they are so why ruin something if you still have a possible use for it?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:44 AM
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Exactly. If i could get those YEARS back from video games and invest it in lifting and socializing i would be even farther ahead. But whatever im happy i started the race and am ahead of most.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:40 AM
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He works long hours and in his free time plays games instead of lifting. Id dump a girl if she did those things.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:37 AM
1

Really? This question should be addressed because it directly influences RP philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:34 AM
1

How would you explain sociopaths and psychopaths? Would they operate off of emotions as well?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:25 AM
2

Yeah why is OP not hitting the gym? Red flags would go off in my mind if my gf was lifting with another guy without me there at least most of the time
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 04:47 AM
1

Thanks. I already work out and recently have taken my work outs to a new level so I'm guessing the added testosterone is making me more emotional. I just am getting tired of plates, I want to find a girl thats attractive and smart but for some reason all the smart girls are still fat.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:13 AM
2

Have you ever read Cosmo? They have the female version of cheat codes in there. I'd recommend picking up a copy once in a while to see what your next date will try on you.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:24 AM
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No problem. I got it from a article I read about how to deal with another guy hitting on your girlfriend. If you help the guy hit on her, it makes it awkward and they usually back off and your girl sees it for what it is and loses her "tingly feelings" towards him. Modify it for your situation and it should work.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:22 AM
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I feel you. Life sucks but something I've learned is that complaining about it and feeling shity about it won't make it better. Life benefits those of us who are the happiest and try the hardest. At least you aren't the guy from Canada I saw on /r/fitness the other day who was a complete stud and got hit by a drunk driver and now can never walk again. He was a pussy magnet but his sex life is over. It could always be worse. I don't mean to reduce the suffering you feel now, but you need to under…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:19 AM
1

I would introduce the girl to your brother and while you guys are talking make it a point to "give her pointers" for seducing your brother. It will be awkward but make sure your bro is going along with it. If you use the temptation of the forbidden fruit against her, she may be less likely to say something later.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:12 AM
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I would introduce the girl to your brother and while you guys are talking make it a point to "give her pointers" for seducing your brother. It will be awkward but make sure your bro is going along with it. If you use the temptation of the forbidden fruit against her, she may be less likely to say something later.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:12 AM
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Pretty awesome routine my only advice is to incorporate burnout sets into workouts. Somedays I shoot for 3 sets of 8-10, other days I shoot for 3 sets and just do as many as I can and then burn out going lower in weight and keep going. Your body will adjust so keep it mixed up or else you will plateau. As Arnold would say, you want to shock the muscle, and sometimes burning out is the best way.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:09 AM
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