So this morning I come home from the gym and as I walk into the kitchen I see dirty dishes on the bench. This doesn't bother me in the slightest but I'm trying to be less of a nice guy so this seemed like a good opportunity to test out being more dominant.

I walk into the lounge room where my female roommate is sitting and say "you need to get your little ass in that kitchen and clean those dishes."

Now, my intention was to be cheeky but I forgot to grin and my voice was kinda flat so it came off as a confrontation. As the words are coming out of my mouth I see her facial expression change from friendly to "wtf?" then angry.

She says something along the lines of "don't start with that feminist (think she meant misogynist, she's not that bright) bs I'm not some woman who slaves away in the kitchen", then directly transitions into telling me about something funny she read on Facebook. However, her voice is kind of anxious/agitated and fast paced.

I wait till she finishes and as she looks up I maintain eye contact and say "The washing needs to be done, I need to use the containers you've left sitting there for days."

She replies with some excuses about how they're not hers (lie) and I just hold eye contact with a facial expression of "bitch please, don't bs me." I realise she isn't going to comply so I walk back into the kitchen, mix a protein shake, then go take a shower.

Later in the morning I get a message from my other roommate, also her bf, saying:

"Hey mate,

Beth wasn't really impressed with the way you spoke to her this morning, and it was very disrespectful. Beth does a lot around the house, and she also does more cleaning then anyone else, and she has washed mine, yours, and joshes dishes on countless occasions, but she is not obligated in anyway to clean up after anyone else, but she still does! So even if something was hers we should all chip in and make an effort. The way you came across to her was very condescending"

Me: K

Him: I don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable in the house, including you and josh.

Me: K

Not sure how to proceed from here. I've never really done anything like that so to me it was purely an experiment to see what would happen.

Any opinions on how to handle possible repercussions/situations like these in the future?