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She is cheating. 100%. Get your ass out of this relationship. If you choose to stay, she will make you miserable. You will try to win her over, you will start doing weak, supplicating shit. She has taken someone else's, she isn't going to stop that. Break-up with her, interact with more girls.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 03:57 AM
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Hmmm. How close are you to your family, mate? I guess not too close. How many close friends or bros do you have? I can bet you don't have any. It is masculine to say that you don't need anyone to open to. Truth is, we all do. some of us, more than others. You are one such person . There is nothing weak about it. Many people on this forum will tell you that you feel like this because you do not have a mission. Fuck them. They are just regurgitating what they have learned here without applying the…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:27 PM
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I do not agree with the message of your post.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:29 AM
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No, not at all.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 10:52 AM
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Good for you. Read all his old posts. In the last 3 years, the site has gone to the dogs. The original writer Roissy does not write there anymore. The posts in the last few years do not hold a candle to the older posts.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:41 AM
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I am surprised why this post does not have more upvotes. Although , this is well known amongst the old-time red-pillers, OP has explained this in a very simple and easy to understand language for the new-comers. Some of the points of Heartiste's 16 commandments of poon resonate with this. For those who don't know what I am talking about, Google it up. This was the starting point of my RP journey. From a 30 year old virgin to a 34 year old, who has had 3-4 chicks (at different times) absolutely b…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:34 AM
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Is this your first job, buddy? One week is too short a time to judge. Some companies prefer to make trainings extremely exhaustive by design. Corporate life can be demanding. I suggest that you wait a couple of months more before making a call.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:16 PM
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Please see our message exchanges 8 months back. The same reason still stands.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 04:26 AM
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Fuck your girlfriend man. Prankster, I remember having advised you about the very same girl 8 months back. You are still hung up about a female who did not give a fuck about you. Why man? Are you a masochist? Do you not have anything else to do? Work on yourself. Find a new girl. Fuck her good. Act masculine with her. You will forget the old one very soon. And the old one was not your girlfriend. She was a female who conveniently used you without caring the slightest about you. Get it? Many of u…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 12:26 PM
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She did not even find you worthy enough to say goodbye before ghosting you and you are here writing a lengthy post and telling us that your only source of enjoyment is gone. No woman will stick with you if she is your only source of joy. That puts too much responsibility on her which she does not want. If you were her only source of joy she would have stayed. But it is vice versa. You assumed a feminine role of seeking comfort from her. You were not her rock. You wanted her to be your rock. Your…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:02 AM
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She is going to fuck guys higher in SMV than you pretty soon.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:34 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5hjnht/you_should_ghost_women_who_have_cheated_on_you/
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:57 AM
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Read this: When, how and why should you ghost a woman. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5hjnht/you_should_ghost_women_who_have_cheated_on_you/
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:29 AM
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'tell her you just aren't attracted to her. no reasons.' No.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 02:25 AM
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He may or may not be ugly but he definitely does not have game.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:10 PM
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I am a 34 year single Indian living in India. You never marry a woman who is not 'fuck, yes' with the idea of marrying you. You were fed blue pill fantasies by your mother, sister and the society. I had a very close friend marrying a girl who did not want to marry him. And she was a slut. She has made her life a living hell. This guy is a good looking, well educated smart guy. But he was mesmerized with the pre marital sex. She told her openly that she did not want to marry her. But he did. She …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 08:22 AM
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Keep being in no contact. It's over.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:33 PM
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nice! Hope you learned you lesson
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:39 AM
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wow!
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:38 AM
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ha ha ha ha You have won this thread. Your tale brother is the faggest of fags. But we all live and learn!
/r/askTRP13/03/17 08:36 AM
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No. It's a bad idea. Secretly you are definitely going to want to fuck her again. One little trigger and your oneitis feelings will come back and overwhelm you. And why do you want her as friends? What values is she going to add in your life that your other friends can not? It's a stupid move. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:56 AM
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Pushing back does not work. You withdraw your attention and focus on other women/things. If she is going to get re-attracted to you this is the only way she will.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:54 AM
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Do you work out? Start working out. You will look better than you do now. Do you understand game? Read The 16 commandments of poon on Chateau Heartiste. Read all the stuff on game that is there on CH. Apply those changes in the way you interact with women. You will start getting female attention. Walk away when she starts talking about other guys. Your life will get better. I promise you that.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:50 AM
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I must tell you, I was out of work for 10 months. My then 3 month old gf (3 months in the relationship) stuck with me like a rock. It took me 10 months to find another job, I had moments of weakness. And she did not leave me. Of course, I generally maintained a positive disposition. She is still with me.There are women like that too. Although, you shouldn't count on that. The safer and the more probable thing is to assume that most women would be disgusted by any show of voluntary or involuntary…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 06:29 AM
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It's not lame. He is right.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:51 AM
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You were sick. She saw the chink in you. To her, it does not matter that everyone falls sick some time or the other. The fact that you were ill means that you are not the solid, bullet-proof rock that she imagined you to be. She lost attraction for you. Does not matter if she is old school. Her internal wiring tells her that a man who falls sick is not attractive. So that's pretty much it. It wasn't that you were debilitated.It was just a short sickness. But she could not even handle that. Life …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:44 AM
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She is not your wife or your gf. She is just a flatmate. You hate her guts. Move out. If you can not afford to live alone, move in with other people.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 04:32 AM
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Do women switch like this whenever they find someone more "worthy"? Yes. I have personally experienced this a couple of times. You could be worthy (alpha) in her eyes. When someone who she considers to be better than you comes in her life all her feelings for you disappear in a flash.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 05:15 AM
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Alright, you want to know what to do. Some douchebag wrote this for for people in your situation https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5hjnht/you_should_ghost_women_who_have_cheated_on_you/
/r/askTRP11/01/17 01:08 PM
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Sure, a muscular alpha will get a lot of pussy. But, once the woman knows that he has a weak frame, her attraction for him will diminish.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:13 PM
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OP is simply stating that a big, muscular guy can have the mind of a whimpering pussy. Fair enough. Why so many negative comments. This is not a specially insightful post but it's not a shit post either. He does raise a very valid point - guys who are built like tanks can still be mentally fragile - and therefore beta. Being an alpha is as much about a strong frame as it is about having a strong body. If you have a strong body and a weak mind women would still take you to the cleaners.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:25 AM
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Pay him back in his own currency. Wait for a time when you guys are in a group with some of your known supporters. Look for something stupid in a story and associate him with it. His ego is very fragile. He will counter you by trying to insult you (which he is already doing anyway) or he will lose his cool (which implies that he loses) or he will shut up (which implies that he loses). He can win only if he tries to agree and amplify your insult (by essentially laughing it off). This guy has such…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:31 AM
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She has already chosen.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 02:36 AM
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You were her rebound.Her ex is her chad. Break up with her. If not she will break up with you anyway.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:09 PM
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Your plan of action is silly. It won't work. Verbalizing boundaries means nothing, zero, zilch, nada. That is some weak sauce. The woman is not going to stop pushing your boundaries simply because you have stated them. I will tell you a way which is far more effective. When she behaves like shit, withdraw your attention completely, go out meet your friends, speak with some chicks, if possible. If she asks you, why you have been behaving 'strangely', just say 'its nothing, I have been busy.' That…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 03:50 AM
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Give me a couple examples of how he talks shit about you on your face and I will tell you how to turn it around.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:30 PM
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She is going to Europe because she wants to get fucked by European guys. Yours is a 4 month Long Distance Relationship You behave as a super duper nice guy. There is no way on earth she can have a very high degree of attraction for you. There is only one shot you have to get out with your dignity intact. Start acting distant, use dread. Stop being exclusive with her.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:36 PM
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Ha ha ha I spit my coffee on my computer screen.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:31 PM
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Does he do with others in the company as well? If he does, it is easier for you guys to gang up on him - enemy of an enemy is a friend. If you are the only one he targets, you have to call him out on his shit in front of people who are more inclined towards you. When confronting him, you will be assertive and tell him directly to stop this shit or you will agree and amplify or you will use sarcasm to get others laughing at him. Make sure whichever way you choose, you don't lose your cool, you wi…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:20 PM
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To establish themselves as the alpha of the group.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:12 PM
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'He said to a friend of his that because I do whatever I want in the office and he's a guy who always says what he thinks, then I deserve what I get.' I did not get this part. Rephrase this please.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:34 AM
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Call him out on his behaviour, do it in front of others, so that others cans ee what shit he is upto. In doing so, don't lose your cool, don't shout and scream because if you do that you will be seen as a loser.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:14 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:37 AM
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Revenge is not inherently bad. It can get bad for you, if your pursuit of revenge makes you emotional and reactive. Often, a person in pursuit of revenge tends to do something stupid, something which comes to bite him in the ass and makes the situation much worse. If you can plan your revenge in a cold and calculated manner it can work. It can work, when you choose to respond (give it a thought, think about pros and cons) and not merely react (based on what your emotions are telling you to do) T…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:33 AM
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The title of your post looks interesting. I want to read your article. Do your readers a favour and break this article into smaller paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:03 AM
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Dude, I have said what I had to. You continue having your head in the sand. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:56 AM
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I am a decade older than you and I have a lot more experience with women. What happily married? Happily married, while taking another cock on the side? You act like a gigantic pussy in your relationship and when someone gives you advice you choose to ignore it and instead keep projecting your disney world fantasies. Go ahead, get married to this girl and see how she cheats on you, takes 50% of your income and fucks your life. I am not going to explain every single thing to you. Go read the sideb…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:15 AM
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'my girlfriend is very sexual and has had her experiences but that doesn't make someone a slut. It doesn't make them incapable of something serious and monogamous.' It does.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:43 AM
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Yup. that's what exactly I would do.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:35 AM
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OP's gf is probably not going on a business trip.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:03 AM
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I actually commented on this post on Quora. The girl and her friend are going to fuck, that's why they are going alone to a romantic spot. That is what is going to happen, its crystal clear. There is no 'maybe, she won't cheat afterall'. Yes she will. She has decided that she will fuck the other guy. That is pretty much there is to it. There is some good advice on the thread, while some others are so absolutely stupid. Some females and manginas blame the BF that he does not trust his gf enough a…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 03:53 AM
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Your post is not related to the title.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:48 PM
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Can you expand more on the interview part. I am someone who does not have a natural smile and when I do smile it comes off as forced. I am also in the middle of giving several interviews. Can you expound on the interview part?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:09 PM
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Whether you like it or not, managing impression is a requirement in the world - in the corporate world and business and in social life. One would have to be silly to not understand this. This does not imply that one should ever stop improving. What OP is saying may not be a comprehensive advice on how one should lead one's life, it may not have all bases covered, it is still good advice.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 08:13 AM
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Look, you suggest not to judge people who do not look or who cannot be happy because of whatever circumstances. That's a good advice. That being said you will not be drawn towards these people isntinctively. Inspite of having a cognitive understanding of the fact that everyone who looks grumpy is not necessarily a loser, you would still be attracted towards happy people and want to stay away from the not so happy ones. You cannot change what you are naturally attracted to. OP is not asking us to…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 05:35 AM
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This is a very, very good post. It is on point. I can vouch for this from my personal experiences. The times I have acted happy, people are drawn to me. I am not a whinger, I am seen as a leader within my friend circle. But on the rare occasions I have expressed doubts or complained people have disappeared for sometime. And that is when my generic demeanour is upbeat. There are two very pertinent points all you droopy faces need to understand: Everyone faces challenges. As a man you are expected…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:45 AM
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Because they live for validation, it is their Oxygen.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:33 AM
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I know
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:31 AM
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There is your answer OP. Now, no more what ifs.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:53 AM
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Bad.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:52 AM
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You will have to give us more details if you want us to help you out.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:51 AM
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He is used to being in the limelight or he wants to stay in the limelight, he sees you as a threat and uses subtle jabs to diminish your status. I have had this experience with a 'friend' of mine. I was the natural leader in our friend circle of 6 people. There were a couple of other guys in the group who also got attention because they were very witty or good looking. This particular guy was not a leader, not very witty, not a great orator but wanted to be the centre of attention. So, he used d…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:11 AM
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Grow a beard.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:11 AM
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3 possible reasons. Moving on without being too affected on being rejected forces them to reassess your alpha cred positively. so you end up being more attractive. This being said I don't think they are looking to get back with you. They don't want to feel like dicks. They are contacting you to alleviate their guilt . Because you moved on, you stopped giving them validation. Women want to have a beta wrapped around their fingers giving them free validation. Its their oxygen No, they are not look…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:07 AM
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No, while that may be true, this chick's behaviour is not because of that. When she broke up with OP, she expected him to plead and beg with her to stay back, she expected him to be devastated at losing her. But he did not to do any of that, he started looking for other girls and word got around to her. So, her subconscious is thinking if this guy is not devastated with the break up and he actually thinks he can get on with other girls so quickly, maybe he isn't so weak as she thought him to be.…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:59 AM
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Gostkowski does not know what he is talking about. You did not mess up. Ask her in person once. if she comes, great if she does not move on to the next girl. That being said, I don't agree with never text to ask out. It works depending on whether or not she has enough attraction for you.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:43 AM
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She has fucked 11 dudes, multiply that by 3. She is incapable of pair bonding. She is not your true love. She cannot be anyone's true love in the way you imagine love to be. It's not your fault, she cannot pair bond, she gets thrill from fucking a new guy every few months, irrespective of ow alpha one is, there is little you can do to prevent her from fucking others. There are two rules to manage relationships - Don't get into a relationship with a slut Once you are in a relationship with a woma…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 07:48 AM
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Dude, there is a huge, fat elephant in the room but you refuse to see it. You dont even need to be intuitive to know she is fucking other people. Its there for everyone to see. What gut feel are you talking about. This is the most clear cut admission in girlspeak that she is fucking other guys. She is also a drama queen and you are catching feelings. End things with her or she will fuck you in the ass.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:37 AM
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Calling a woman on her bullshit gets you nothing. If you never want to see her again what you did was alright. I would have ghosted straight away.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:30 AM
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Bail out, man, it's your workplace. Don't shit there.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:26 AM
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'I'll go to [store] to buy a secret santa gift for my coworker. Join me to watch [movie]' Sounds right 'we've been postponing for so long?' I will cut out this last part. It gives the impression that you have been thinking too much about arranging the meeting which is not the impression that you want to give.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 03:58 PM
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You should ask her in a way that implies that you want to meet her but if she doesn't come ,it wouldn't affect you too much.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:02 PM
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Yes, absolutely.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:59 AM
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Ultimatums have a way of coming across as weak particularly to women who are not very invested in you. Don't try to convey your anger.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:59 AM
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No, don't.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 02:57 PM
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If she crosses your boundaries, withdraw your attention, focus your energy on other things, she will come around. When she comes around, don't explain to her why you withdrew attention, she will figure it out on her own.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:04 PM
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verify_account is right. There is no maybe. She is fucking someone else. Whether you want to believe it or not does not make any difference.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:09 AM
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'Hopefully I'll find my little unicorn one day ' No, you won't. Because there are no unicorns. All women have a propensity to cheat, every single one of them. One of the important tenets of TRP is to act in a masculine way - it can reduce their propensity to cheat greatly , it does not eliminate it completely, though. You acted like a female with her. You killed her attraction for you. If you go into your next relationship thinking that the girl is a unicorn you will fuck yourself over again bec…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:01 AM
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You established yourself as an omega in her eyes. It's okay, though, many of us have made similar mistakes when we were younger. That being said get on with other girls. This relationship is well and truly over. I wrote a post specifically for men in situation like yours. Read this, and never behave like a woman in front of a woman again. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5hjnht/you_should_ghost_women_who_have_cheated_on_you/
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:39 AM
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Post a link
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:27 AM
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There is no aftermath. Wrap your dick and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:25 AM
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Use paragraphs. Go for the date.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:25 AM
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You are completely in her frame, mate. You will get nothing out of interacting with her. She will not get back with you. She is using you only for validation (because his current bf is 1000 miles away). She has no intention of getting back with you. Her constant hot and cold behaviour will completely fuck your mind (if it hasn't already) Women who are interested in you don't play hot and cold. They may put up some token resistance here and there but that is not the case here. "hey, have I ruined…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:17 AM
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Hey Skorch, seeing you after a long time on this forum. I remember you giving me good advice some time back. How have you been?
/r/askTRP17/12/16 02:58 AM
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In most cases, when the woman cheats, she is already over you. Your confronting her gives her an out. A woman will never admit that she was in the wrong to a man she does not respect, And guess what, if she has cheated on you, she does not respect you. Confronting does not help because by the time you realize she is cheating she has secured the next branch. she thinks nothing about turning on you and browbeating you because she is getting what you could give her from another man. In fact it's go…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 02:52 AM
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ha ha ha ha fuck.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 12:18 PM
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She got mad because she is not taking her pills.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 12:17 PM
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Don't
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:34 AM
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Talking with a misbehaving woman achieves nothing. If a woman misbehaves, You give her the gift of your absence. If she values you, she'll rectify what she did wrong and not do it again. If she doesn't, she doesn't give a fuck about you. And, no it's not a passive aggressive move. Its Pavlov's training.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:43 PM
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The point is that you should just cut her off, whether you see it as revenge or not does not matter in the long run. At the end of the day, whatever you initial objective is, cutting off contact helps you in freeing your mind from her clutches and that is what is needed.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 04:27 AM
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'The term ghosting means "following". ' Wrong. 'You go silent on her. Give her no feedback, no attention. No response. It will drive her mental.' Right.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:30 PM
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It did not mean anything, brother. The encounter you speak about did nothing to either increase or diminish her interest in you. How old are you, mate?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:44 PM
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go grab it, what are you waiting for, op?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 12:18 PM
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Dude it was a very trivial encounter, that's why you are seeing the kind of replies you are seeing. It was not a shit test and you did not pass or fail.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:36 AM
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No, there is one. His gf gave the beta bait, he did not bite.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:28 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:22 AM
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'Hence the best thing is always the hardest thing.' It's a very hard thing to execute, very hard. But it's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:10 AM
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Sending one final text is okay too, but don't get trapped in a non-ending back and forth.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 05:09 AM
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If she has cheated on you, she does not respect the very core of your relationship.There is nothing to be achieved by speaking with her. I am not interested in listening why she did what she did. It's a non issue. Howsoever small or big the temptation or provocation, she knows another man is forbidden territory while she's in a relationship with me. She can choose to explore other man or men, that's her choice. But then she does not hear another word from me in her lifetime. I have no time to li…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 04:56 AM
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Don't focus on this too much. There are girls who do an absolute 180 when you tell them that you love them. If you don't love her, don't tell her that you do. I am in a very similar situation. My LTR tells me she loves me and she wonders whether I love her back. I tell her my actions should tell her, words are meaningless anyway, she goes into a thoughtful mood everytime I tell her this, 5 minutes later she's back to her cheerful self. It's not something you should think too much about.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:41 AM
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OP is downvoting people who are showing him the real picture. Why ask if you don't want to listen! Anyway.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:35 PM
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Dude, your gut read is wrong. Girls don't break up with guys unless there is another guy they see themselves being with. They just don't. She is not loyal to you now and she will not be loyal to you in the future. She thinks that she can get a higher value male than you, she definitely tried to get one and she did not succeed. That does not mean that she won't try again. She does not love you. You are a placeholder, she will dump you when the guy or guys she is gunning for accept(s) her. I am so…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 10:25 AM
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There is another guy or other guys in the scene, whether you want to believe or not is immaterial.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 10:21 AM
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'I don't think there's another guy in the picture.' There is always another guy in the picture.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:56 AM
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Your friend is Brutus himself.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:10 AM
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Different techniques to the same end.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:44 PM
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'Just have to learn how to compartmentalize your emotions.' Yes, but it isn't easy for most men.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:41 PM
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Yup, but would being in touch with her have resulted in a different outcome?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:38 PM
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It screams lack of abundance. I wouldn't do it. She breached my trust. I will get sex from another woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:38 PM
1

Common sense is not very common.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:36 PM
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Yes, if you let her know briefly and don't get drawn into a prolonged argument , it's all good.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:33 PM
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'I un-hooked an LTR who decided we were over after an argument, and just never looked back. Deleted txts and emails w/o reading them, told my own friends privately I was cutting her off and would appreciate it if they did the same. Dealt with apartment stuff through the landlord.' You call it 'unhooking', I call it 'ghosting'. Ghost her to unhook from her clutches. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:32 PM
5

'My mind was friggin great up until I decided to go full retard and look up one of 'em on jewbook.' Yup, this should be avoided.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 08:28 AM
2

15 years later, she wouldn't even be your mind, you would be completely indifferent. You want to fuck with her mind, leave the message. Personally, I will continue not having any contact.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:03 AM
2

Exactly. Plating a a cheating whore is anything but abundance mentality. If it works for some men, great I think deep inside they do secretly hope that by continuing to have sex with her they have a sliver of a chance of her again falling in love with them. It gives them hope. Hope is the biggest beta killer. I don't give false hopes to people. I would not plate a cheating ex but if it works for some people, more power to them.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:43 AM
2

Continue being a part of the social circle, never quit a social circle just because your ex is part of it, unless it was primarily her social circle that she introduced you to and the social circle values her more than you. Limit your contact with her and speak with the others in the group. It may be a little uncomfortable initially but it gets better with time and with some more time you wouldn't even need to think about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:23 AM
1

She got to know exactly why you broke up with her, she needn't need to wonder why you broke up, you gave her a ready made answer. You prevented her hamster from spinning, i would not say it was a terrible idea but it wasn't the most effective either.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 06:20 PM
3

If you are not emotionally involved, you could keep fucking her. 95 out of 100 men would not be able to pull this off.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 06:11 PM
1

You understood it perfectly. Also, the chick reinforced how destructive ghosting can be to female hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 06:10 PM
7

By using her do you mean continuing to have sex with her? Well, if you have the mental fortitude or the inclination, go for it. Most men don't. I would not want to have sex with a female I was emotionally invested in, knowing that she has replaced me with someone else. I would rather cut her out. There are so many other women to have sex with. Sex isn't enjoyable if the woman does not respect you. A woman who cheated on me certainly does not have respect for me. Lack of respect is a boner killer…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 05:58 PM
28

The idea is not to explain to her what she did wrong, as far as possible. If it's very difficult, just tell her that it's not working out without specifying her the reason. If she insists, repeat the line like a broken record.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:18 PM
5

Glad you liked reading it. 'I should have read that a year ago when the ex cheated on me with one of my best friends.' Its incidents like these that direct us to places like this forum. You now know what to do if the next one starts fucking with you. We all live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:14 PM
23

"Option 1" - you can as well buy some lube and a strap on and suggest that you can suck her boyfriend's dick while she pegs you. You are funny. Sadly, some men do this, don't they.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:51 PM
2

Thanks. We all live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:50 PM
9

Do people really need to hear this? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:48 PM
11

Thanks. Ghosting, deleting, same thing, different names.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 02:47 PM
3

'Her petty shit can't bother you.Tell her matter of fact, and let it be done.' If it's petty shit, why do you even need to 'tell her matter of fact'? How will it help you?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 01:30 PM
40

Whatever the reason, you start ghosting her for, in the end it helps you in ridding your mind from her clutches. And that's the beauty of ghosting. To many of us she appears attractive because she isn't giving us the time of day. Ghosting reverses the dynamic. Instead of acting as if she were above you, she starts craving and begging for your attention and because you don't give it to her, she tries even harder, her worth drops in your eyes, you start seeing all her flaws, she isn't the unattain…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 12:51 PM
20

'So, along with ghosting, I would suggest one should spoil their reputation unbeknownst to them to all the people around' That's a little tricky, it may work and it may also come back to bite you in the ass. If a girl knows that you are spoiling her reputation, she is likely to get super vindictive. She may spread all sorts of lies against you, she will play the victim, invent stories against you. If she feels that you have spoilt her reputation too much, she may even play the rape card. If she …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:19 AM
1

She isn't supposed to take the lead. The man has taken the lead by asking her to hang out. Her response was not even lukewarm. Girls who want to hang out don't just repeat the question, they give an opening to the man. If I were OP, I would cut my losses and go after girls who were more open to me. Anyway, looks like you and I interpret IOIs differently. We'll have to agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 10:04 AM
1

You are doing it correctly. Except, 'So now basically she's a plate as I told her I'm only into casually dating and seeing other girls. She agreed no worries. ' Say it after having sex when she's hooked, not before. You don't want to make her feel like a slut.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:53 AM
1

'Sure, let's hang out on tuesday' or 'I have plans on Tuesday but let's do it on Saturday' or 'Ha ha ha, ok.' or some variation of any of the above. The girl just repeated the question, don't think that conveys interest.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:48 AM
0

No, doesn't look like interest to me.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:37 AM
1

Hope is what makes betas orbit. Let's assume she saw her phone after 13 hours. Did her reply betray any interest in meeting OP? Nope. Let's not give OP false hopes, he will orbit around the girl for a few more months and reach the conclusion that he utterly and unnecessarily wasted his time on a girl who wasn't interested. Hope is the beta killer, I don't give false hopes.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:28 AM
9

'In your example, she is super confused for weeks of ghosting, then hamsters it was his fault anyway.' No. Ghosting gives her nothing to play with, she won't be able to arrive at a conclusion because there would be no data to help her reach one. 'Why is he not answering my calls? He's not even answering my texts. Why is he doing it to me? But I was the best gf to him. No, wait, did he find out that I was cheating? But it was a one night stand anyway. Nothing serious. Is he going to tell everyone…
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:05 AM
4

True. The asshole is a high smv guy who is giving her tingles and not his time of day.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:03 AM
1

First of all she is not a doctor now. But if she were to become one then your apprehension would be proved right. If she earns significantly more than you, she will invent a way dump you. Sorry man, that's almost unavoidable.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 05:15 AM
30

Yup, I have a feeling though, that OP will not listen to our advice and do some beta shit to get closure, which he won't get. He will then rave and rant for a few months talking about how unfair women are etc. etc. OP, if you want to come out of this feeling like a winner, do as we say, or else do whatever you wanted to do and feel like a cuck. If you actually follow our advice, post what happened thereafter. Let it be a lesson to all betas on how to come out feeling like a winner in a fucked up…
/r/askTRP10/12/16 04:59 AM
3

Nope, I don't agree. Girls have their phones with them almost the entire time. If she replied 13 hours late she is not super attracted towards OP.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 02:16 AM
48

Currently you feel mindfucked. If you ghost her,she will be the one getting mindfucked. It will make you feel infinitely better. This discussion prompted me to write a detailed post on ghosting on TRP. Here's the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5hjnht/you_should_ghost_women_who_have_cheated_on_you/
/r/askTRP10/12/16 02:13 AM
0

Hey Vaisley, I am an HR professional. I moved out of my job in March of this year because the HR Head was a toxic person. Now that I am looking back to join full time, its difficult to explain why I left the organization in 8 months. I am from a top business school with 4 years of experience. Advise please.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:27 AM
2

Alright, dude, this girl does not want you, she wants the other guy instead, if you keep fighting for her, you will lose her anyway. Pay no attention to her, then there may be a little chance of her coming back.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:49 AM
1

Attention whoring. Most women do that. Why does it baffle you?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:11 PM
1

"I saw a chick today walking past and she looked exactly like you" Stupid idea
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:10 PM
1

Beeing seeing this girl for a while, we went gym together just now and she gets news her friends mum has died. How does an alpha react? What is this shit? You are trying too hard.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:08 PM
2

Look, contrary to what others have said, she may come back if you just let it be. Yes, it was a beta mistake to break down in front of her but if you initiated the break up you do have some alpha cred, so all is not lost. The only way not to lose her is to show to her that your world will not be shattered if you actually did lose her. Just be normal, be a little stoic, she will be back, I promise you that (the caveat being that there should not be another guy on the scene. Don't go out of the wa…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:49 PM
1

It's my turn to be the beggar and ask for her back. Wont help.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:06 PM
1

She's uptight, she'll take time to loosen up. With such people, you don't mention that they are tight, that makes them to withdraw in their shells even further. Continue being playful, she'll open up when she understands that you are not judging her.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 04:20 AM
1

Yup, you have to roast him harder than he roasts you. You are already down in the hiearchy, not retaliating and trying to appear classy will not work. He should know that if he tries to take a crack at you you will make him very uncomfortable. It may not make you look very classy but if you stay silent you will look like his bitch, which you definitely don't want to be seen as. The goal should be to eventually make him stop giving the shit that he is giving you now. Sounds like both of you are y…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 03:51 PM
1

I don't disagree with what you said. Compared to the OP, the other guy is a lesser beta and hence relatively alpha.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 03:48 PM
1

I understand that you were referring to the other person and not OP. And I stick to what I said. This other person is massively insecure, yet he appears more powerful than OP. Therefore girls take his side and not OP's. That doesn't make him an alpha. Its a battle of two betas.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 05:11 PM
1

There is no contradiction in my statement, you did not get it.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 04:32 PM
1

No, he is not alpha at all, he's massively insecure. Girls side with the person who has the greater power, the one who is winning these battles. Does not look like OP is winning these battles.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:09 PM
1

Understand, its perfectly normal for you to feel a little low on confidence at this juncture. Its expected. It doesn't make you any less of a man. A couple of months from now and a girl or two later you will laugh at why you felt so low on losing this chick. Trust me on this. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:43 AM
1

Look, its ok, I had a break up last year, it messed me up. You know how the feelings of longing went away? By getting another girl. Did it kill the longing for the old one immediately? No. But gradually, the old one faded away, each day I thought a little less about her. Time and another girl are the biggest break up healers. Its only a passing phase, dont worry too much about it.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:48 PM
2

You are musicians. 'Let's jam'
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:23 AM
1

Your smv must be quite high then. Mine is good enough to get girls when I initiate and escalate, not good enough to get sex if I simply ask them for it. What you are saying is possible, but that only happens with very high smv guys, maybe you are one of them.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:25 AM
2

This, I agree with. Irrespective with how much in love your woman thinks she is with you, it can all go away in a jiffy. Thinking that you are invincible and sending your wife on a date with another man is completely safe is stupid as fuck. It doesn't matter how alpha you are, your woman can very well cheat on you. In this case the husband sees the other guy as someone with a much lower smv,its a move that may come to bite him in the ass.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:19 AM
1

I don't have problems getting girls, maybe you are addressing the OP. I was addressing the issue you raised about escalating. My opinion is one must escalate on dates, if you don't and you are not super attractive girls will not see you as a potential lover. If you are a 9 on 10, sure the rules change a bit. What I said definitely holds true for at least 8 out of 10 men.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:59 PM
1

'The point is women are very good at reading body language and picking up on this. Not being comfortable with exuding sexuality but having a list of steps to escalate with isn't going to do much good. Women can know a sexual male by seeing him walk and the way he looks at her without ever having to touch her. ' I agree with this part. 'Yes touching is effective but it's going to come off forced for a beta male who's afraid of being labeled creep for being sexual. Inner core needs to be change, a…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 05:59 PM
1

Nope, escalating is being sexual. I always touch women during first dates. Not even once has it had a negative effect. And I am not a good looking guy. The times I have not touched women were the times I did not get date number 2. If escalating is not being sexual what is? What's your definition of being sexual? Tell us.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:17 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:39 AM
1

Your game is not strong enough. You didn't escalate. That's a failure.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 06:38 AM
1

She is a nutcase. Hard next her.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:04 AM
2

It depends on the context. Let's say a chick you want has little to no respect for you, you have given her a couple of chances, you know that no good is going to come out of her; what use it is to be in touch with her? Nothing. If you a woman you know is a toxic, manipulative bitch, why would you want to be in touch with her? If you know a woman is a slut who sleeps around when you want to be in a relationship with her, why would you stay in touch with her? Hard nexting is advocated when you kno…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 12:22 PM
2

She is manipulative
/r/askTRP29/10/16 10:52 AM
2

Give her so much space that she feels like Neil Armstrong. On a serious note, she is fucking other guys. Move on.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:50 PM
1

Break ups affect almost everyone. If it has affected you, it does not make you less of a man. Breakups, especially if initiated by the other partner, trigger feelings of inadequacy. And that is why they sucks so bad. Time heals breakups....slowly. Fucking other girls heals them faster! You have only fucked one after the break up, fuck a few more. You will be in a much better frame of mind then.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:36 AM
3

You have worked on your physique, show it off, why not!
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:34 AM
1

'Mutual hardship and achievement'. That forms the best connection but only till the hardship lasts for both.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:19 AM
1

You give nothing away but you ask a question. Anyway, I recently put myself into a position where I cannot back out because backing out is extremely stupid. What position have you put yourself into? 'I've been practicing being lazy, delaying things, not doing anything, killing time for the past 4 years. I'm a pro at it.' Delaying things - what things? Creating discipline helps but it's benefit is limited. How have you gone about it? Your answers would help us in getting inputs to tell you what e…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:59 AM
2

Why? Is her pussy made of gold?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:56 AM
1

Its only a month. Don't rock their boat. Get out of there with a good review. Not every battle is worth fighting, sometimes losing a battle helps you in winning the war. This is one such situation.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:54 AM
1

Why are you dumping your emotions on a girl? Its a huge turn-off them. Read stuff here and assimilatte it. You are not acting like a man.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:11 PM
3

OP is the bald Indian guy. He asks the same question over and over from different accounts. No white guy has so much of empathy with bald Indian guys to actually write a post as to why bald Indian guys don't get laid.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:02 PM
1

dread game
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:59 PM
1

Hard next.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:41 PM
2

This is so true. Lift, get buffer, improve your skills, girls will come when you have it all. As a man in his 30s, I must tell you, relationships are a huge time sink. So improve, this is the time to improve.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:35 AM
13

So, what, you think all guys in relationships are happy? No.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:58 AM
68

She is monkey branching - She has another man in sight, she has not got complete hold of the branch, that's why she has asked for some time. If the other guy gives her commitment, she will leave you without any second thoughts, if he doesn't she will stick around for some time with you but she will be ambivalent with you, she will be happy at times, withdrawn at others etc. Your relationship with her is over. She is not attracted towards you anymore. She will let you go the moment she has a conc…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:57 AM
1

Every time a man wants a woman, its not oneitis. Other than that, good advice.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:33 PM
1

You are not building comfort enough.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:18 AM
1

Kino, touch her, body language is the king.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:17 AM
1

Not every woman is a slut, I am not talking about the US here.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:17 AM
1

Ask her out. If she comes on a date, great. If she doesn't, give it another shot a week or two later. If she comes, escalate, kino. If she doesn't forget her amd move on.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:16 AM
0

Man, I came to your post to answer your post but its a wall of text. Why don't you break this into paragraphs?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:14 AM
2

I mean if she wanted you badly, she would have found a way to connect with you. What's the best way to arouse interest in a woman whom you have had sex with but who seems to be on the fence? No contact, not until she initiates one. And she will, in some time.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:12 AM
2

Look its just one woman. One woman is not interested in you. Doesn't mean others will not be. Happens with everyone, even with the alphas. No big deal man. Go out on date with other women.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 08:09 AM
1

Look, if she's willing to hang out with you, it's good. Texting should anyway lead to meet-ups. If she does not text but is willing to meet you, its all good. 'That's why I like talking with this girl' Yeah, but she should also want to speak with you. Communication is a 2 way street. ' I dont have any work until mid january.' Alright. so it's a temporary situation. Also, friends come and go. Happens with everyone, no big deal. This too shall pass.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:55 AM
3

If she is not responding to your text messages, she is not as much into you as you think she is. When girls are in love with a man they do not let go any chance to get in touch with him. What can you do? Text her only to arrange meet-ups. Don't text for casual chit-chat. 'Would just saying that I don't tolerate her disrespectful behavior at all be the best course of action?' No. Saying that is weak behavior. She would justify why she does not reply to your texts. It will give you nothing. Limit …
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:37 AM
1

I had gone down this route. Sex with escorts is not all that great considering there is a lurking fear of contracting stds, plus sex with them is not very exciting. On the other hand it surely helps in getting pussy off the pedastal, so if you have oneitis, it helps in toning it down.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:25 AM
2

Yup, this too.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:21 PM
25

That nobody cares about you. The only thing they care about is the value you bring to the table.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:07 AM
1

I have not had statements work for me, not over texts at least, not with girls who aren't already invested with me. But every chick that I have been in a relationship with has said that I am dominant and they like it . Dominant texts or statements when the girl is still not completely sold on you does sound a little forced and inorganic to them. TRP says that it should work but my experience does not support it. I would like to hear the opinion of some other TRPers on this.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:38 AM
1

Indian?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:42 AM
-1

LDRs don't work. Also, LDRs don't work. Moreover, LDRs don't work. Additionally, LDRs don't work. To sum up, LDRs don't work, you are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:48 AM
8

'Yes, not through my fault, my LTR's always seem to see me 5x a week minimum' That's way too much. You are not a challenge for women once you are in a relationship with them. They feel that they have conquered you, there is nothing new to unravel and that's why they lose interest in you. Next time, when you get into a new relationship, avoid the tendency to spend all your time with your girlfriend. Sometimes you have to say no to their proposed meetings. Your problem is behavioral, correct it, y…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:26 AM
2

Set up dates with her, you aren't doing that enough
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:36 AM
10

Why do your gfs start contacting their exes? Do you spend too much time with your gfs thereby destroying any sense of mystery? Do you share too much information about yourself? You are an 8, you lift. You will get other women. Retaining women is however harder than just attracting women Think about the couple of points I raised. As of the next 3 weeks, focus on your final exams, girls can wait.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:28 AM
1

Hmmm...so she does not have a replacement. At the very least, you breaking up with her has raised your value in her eyes. She is trying to catch your attention and make you reach out to her. Your actions are bothering her. Don't initiate contact. She will reach out to you in a few days.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:56 PM
2

Ha ha.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:15 PM
1

To each his own. You do what you think is right for you.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 01:35 AM
2

Most people are hypocrites, they like calling others out on it but do not own up their own hypocrisy. Most people who are powerful in the corporate world are massive hypocrites, they say random shit that sounds great but which they themselves don't practice. OP is showing us a mirror, he says most of us are hypocrites anyway , so instead of feeling sad about being one, embrace the fact. It doesn't change what you do but it changes the way you feel about yourself, so why not.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 07:06 PM
0

Preferably, you should not have written that. Your reply is better than replying with a 'k' or rambling on about why she broke up but it's not the best reply. The best reply would have been silence. Understand, when it comes to seducing women, silence is a very powerful tool that a man can use for maximum effect. This situation was ripe for giving her what she deserved - radio silence. That being said, she wasn't your gf, it's not a big loss. Chalk it up as a lesson and move on with life.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:54 PM
1

It changes absolutely nothing. If you want to tap her one more time you should not reply. That would make her hamster spin. You would possibly get to fuck her a couple more times. The other option is to reply with a non-needy stoic text like the one I mentioned above. But it would give her a closure. And in this case, it would be highly unlikely that you get anything from her in the near future. Either way, the thing is that this woman is not LTR worthy, she herself has stated that clearly, she …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:25 PM
2

No, but what broke the camel's back? How exactly did she make you uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:41 PM
2

Did she cheat on you?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:18 PM
1

No response, she has her clearly told you that she is not interested.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:16 PM
1

Now, go and interact with other women.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:26 PM
2

What you are feeling is absolutely normal. Hundreds of people on this sub have felt similar emotions. The only solution is to have other women. That will help you move on faster.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:23 PM
0

No PiV keeps her count low.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:21 PM
8

It's okay, man. First time is not the best or the easiest.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:18 PM
2

Give it a day or two, if she doesn't have a replacement lined up she will flood you with texts and calls. If she does have a vastly superior replacement, she will behave like a cold hearted bitch and not initiate any conversation. BTW, how old are you two?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:14 PM
3

From the next woman onwards, don't brush off the first few. What was her reaction, after you told her that it was over?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:10 PM
4

Look, for one I think she has been respectful about breaking up. Her texts do not show a lack of respect for you. My guess is that she is in a relationship with someone else and she is feeling guilty about cheating on him. Now, You need to know what you want. If you want to end this on a good note, text her , 'Its ok, I understand', if you want to mind-fuck her and possibly fuck her at least one more time, don't reply.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:07 PM
3

Yup, you did right, looks like your woman is attractive and has beta men agreeing with her all the time. If anything dumping her is going to make her respect you more. In the case of women respect begets attraction.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:00 PM
1

No, don't.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:50 AM
2

Having other women in hand of course gives you the abundance mentality. My question was whether women cheat on alphas too and the answer to that is yes. You may be a good looking guy with good game, money and social life but all that still may not be enough to prevent her from cheating.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:36 AM
9

What you did was right. Anyway, no woman breaks up with a man because he suggests that lewd comments do not equal harassment. A woman who is really attracted to her man will not tell him 'I need time' for something as simple as that. Either she wanted to break up with you so she manufactured a reason or she wanted to gain hand in the relationship. Either way, the only right thing for you was to do what you already did. You don't want to be in a relation with someone who makes you walk on eggshel…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:33 AM
2

My last ex actually did that. She went back to her ex. And then she told me that we never dated. In her words, 'Going out a few times' is not dating. We did not only go out a few times. We did a lot more. She also said that 'I always maintained my distance with you.' I was like what the fuck is she talking about, she had earlier said that she wanted to be my wife. Women do rewrite history as per their own convenience and they convince themselves that its true. They believe in their own bullshit.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 08:54 AM
7

Medical issue, possibly. Thyroid etc.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:32 AM
3

Yup this is very true. An average looking woman has as many options as a top 20% guy. There isn't any doubt about it. An average looking guy on the other hand...
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:40 AM
2

Yes, it does. But i don't know man, meaningless sex is not very fulfilling, either.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:39 AM
52

She wanted to break up with you, she wanted an excuse, she manufactured one.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:23 AM
1

Nope, none that I know of.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:54 AM
1

But she can have other men if she wanted to. I am not even working presently.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:53 AM
1

Cant find that post. Can you link it for the benefit of all.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:14 AM
1

Its definitely not easy. Most of my friends are from college. Work friends are not really friends, just because you have lunch together does not mean that you are friends. Given the slightest conflict of interest, most of these 'friends' would not think twice before stabbing you in the back. If you do choose to hang out with work friends be careful to not contribute to bitching about people. A lot of people in 30s are married so they don't have the bandwidth to hang out all the time. Its definit…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:11 AM
2

My understanding is very simple, improve yourself all the time, better yourself, be stoic, attractive, don't be needy. But understand, she may leave you even if you are all of these. Don't beat yourself too much about it. You may be a good company to work with but if a better job offer comes along she wouldn't think twice before joining the other company, she would not be conflicted or anything. She will move on without too much fucks given. And that may not necessarily mean that you are a snive…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:45 AM
1

She is very likely to fuck one of her roomies.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:09 AM
1

You are only 20, I had my first girlfriend at 32. Did I kill myself? No.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:08 AM
2

I have no doubt that I will find a better looking girl but I have not met a girl so solid of character as this girl is.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:40 PM
3

Nothing is lost. Engage her after a week or two. That gives her some time to forget your beta mistakes.To be honest, I don't even think that you were too beta.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:32 PM
3

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:44 PM
1

Good to hear that things worked out well for you. I am not the kind of person to stomp on someone's heart. There is not reason, not one that she has given me to break up with her, besides her looks of course. Had she been a bitch, I would have ended things without giving so much of thought but I don't want to scar this female.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:55 AM
1

I know.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:43 AM
1

There is no desperation from my side. I have been with much better looking woman before. If I dump her I will get a better looking woman again but I will not get a woman as loyal to ne as she is. She is also an okay conversationalist. I don't mind spending time with her. Her face is not bad, her body is. Breaking up is okay but i want to break up without damaging her too much.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:43 AM
1

Yup, but how do i do that without damaging her ego?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:37 AM
1

Possibly but she does have other options. She does not have a bad face, so its not that she does not have any suitors.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:35 AM
1

I am sure she has some options. I am not a great looker but I am charismatic as fuck. She has had some better looking options but she has not paid attention to them. I am sure that I will not find another girl as loyal to me.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:33 AM
1

Yup, how do I break it to her. I dont have the heart to tell her that I want to break up because she is not attractive.its difficult to manufacture any other reason. She cooks for me even though I have a cook, she cleans my house immaculately even though I have a lady to clean my house, she buys stuff for me and that when I am not working, she is working. How on earth do I break the heart if someone like that? How on earth do I marry her when of all the times zI have had sex with her I have cumm…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 02:27 AM
1

She wants to marry me.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:39 PM
1

Maybe but I have been with other girls but they have been tight
/r/askTRP04/10/16 06:39 PM
2

Yup, on the one hand we talk about women and their hypergamy, how they leave betas for alphas, on the other hand I want to do exactly the same. It bugs me that I need to break the heart of a girl who has been nothing but good to me. I have dumped prettier girls before, but they had given me behavioral reasons to dump them, this one has not.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:16 PM
6

Do you fuck her good?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:43 PM
1

I don't have oneitis at all. I have dumped prettier girls than this one. I don't love this girl either. But the fact that she has been with me through thick and thin is what makes me uncomfortable dumping her.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:32 PM
1

She is working on losing weight, its not her weight its her pussy which is the problem. She has big tits but very big areolas too, her tits are saggy as well. We have sex once every ten days, she is 5 feet 7 inches tall, I guess tall girls have looser pussies, though I know its not a causation but probably there is some corelation.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:42 PM
8

Its not about porn man, she is objectively not attractive.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:37 PM
1

Mate, I quit my corporate job 7 months back because of some issues with my boss. She has been with me all these months, never even thought of leaving me for other men. But sex with her is bad, her pussy is loose, I cant cum. I am not very sure wouldn't dumping her kill her from inside. At the same time, if I were to marry her, I would definitely not have my sexual needs met with her.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:35 PM
6

Her pussy is loose
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:31 PM
8

Yup that's what I am thinking to. I have another option and that girl is prettier. Can you elaborate about your situation and the girl in question a little more? I am trying to find my answer by discussing with people who have been in similar situations?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:30 PM
2

Her body. Her pussy is loose, but she was probably a virgin before I met her. There is very little friction when we have sex, I am unable to cum most of the time, she has a neck which is very thick. She is overweight but she is working on losing weight.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:28 PM
4

Which means what?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:25 PM
1

I don't think that she is necessarily looking to branch swing to that guy, nope.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:12 AM
2

Dude, you ask the same question every other week. A few posters already answered your last question. Getting rejected is no big deal. Why don't you actually go out and approach instead instead of asking the same question over and over again. It's not helping you, mate.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:57 PM
1

8? No, 5-6 is what she is.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:48 PM
3

Its definitely not a red flag, at the very least.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:19 AM
4

No.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:16 AM
1

Find some other girl. This one will land you in trouble.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 03:46 AM
1

Alright. The first rule of relationships is that Long Distance Relationships mean nothing. They are not relationships at all.unless and until a couple see each other regularly in flesh and blood, either or both the partners will be inclined to cheat. You are fantasizing about a girl you have not even met. Its silly. Lets take some concrete steps. Tell her that you are in Delhi for a day or two and that you guys should meet for coffee. We will take it forward from there.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 01:36 AM
1

The two of you are in Raipur? Difficult to lay but surely you can kiss and make out. But for all that to happen, your approach has to be right. Yours isn't.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:52 PM
1

Delhi, Mumbai, Pune, Bengaluru, Kolkata, Hyderabad....jaipur, Indore, Ahmedabad.....its easier in all these cities. In towns. of course, its a lot more difficult.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:32 PM
1

Why, just why? Why did you do this to yourself?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:30 PM
4

I am from India too. I am older than you. I fuck women. And none of the shit you are doing will work. And all girls open their legs, there is only one caveat - they do it for the guy they find attractive, Indian girls living in India too, even those who appear all chaste.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 11:56 AM
1

If you are not an outlier, fucking them would almost always require flirting with them first. Flirting is the stepping stone to fucking. Of course, you can just flirt with them and not fuck them. Its pretty much your choice. So, there you go.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:03 AM
1

Yup, dude.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:57 AM
8

Every man gets rejected most of the time, unless of-course the man is a celebrity or a 9.5 on 10 in looks. But people with a face which is 6.5 on 10 get laid too. How? They approach. A man who is a 6 to 7 on the looks scale is unlikely to be approached first but he would get laid if he approaches women. Would all women accept him? No. But, if he approaches enough women with a semi decent game, would one or a few them sleep with him? Absolutely, yes. So, go out and approach. And remember 90% of m…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:38 AM
1

You are stupid as fuck. Dread game is not about explicitly telling your woman that she is ugly. Its about subtly showing them that you have options, that other women are attracted towards you and that you would not have too much of difficulty in dropping her if she acted in a bitchy way. All this is shown through actions, not by words. Calling a person, male or female as ugly is just being a stupid cunt. Sorry, man you need to understand what 'dread' is in the context of The Red Pill. You have n…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 03:43 PM
1

Tinder, okc.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 03:52 PM
4

I had asked exactly the same question around 8 months back, when I had been dumped. After that I got a girlfriend and another chick who madly wanted to marry me. What worked in getting these women is cocky funny humor, some feigned disinterest and constant physical escalation. Constantly escalating is the one biggest factor that enables or hinders a man in getting a lay. Do these 3 things and you would get more women. I had to create abundance to feel abundance.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:56 PM
1

Dude, I remember interacting with you a few weeks back on your last submission. I will address a few points: Assumption: You 'think' you cannot live without her, right? Wrong. You have lived without her before you met her, didn't you, you can live your life without her after she is gone, too. Assumption: This pain for her will never subside. Wrong. The yearning for her will lessen with time and one day you would not even give a fuck about her. 3.Assumption: It has happened only with you. Wrong. …
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:14 PM
3

You don't out-alpha your boss, he will fuck you over. Read 'The 48 laws of power'. Law 1 - ' Never outshine the master.' The only time it is acceptable is when he is already on his way out.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 12:18 PM
9

she dumped you, now she wants closure, you know why? Because she is unable to comprehend how you have moved on so easily, why you didn't beg her to stay back and help her in confirming that you were a beta whose ass she had rightly decided to dump. Instead you moved on and started doing your own thing. Maybe, maybe you aren't that beta after all. She is reassessing your value. Whether you choose to meet her or not is up to you. If you do meet her and you sound sad, whiny or still into her, her d…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 10:44 AM
0

Writing poems is very beta, if you are doing it to attract a woman. If you have lived with her for years and she is as much or more into you as you are into her, then its okay.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 08:04 AM
1

Would you ever kiss a known asymptotic carrier?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:24 PM
1

thanks
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:23 PM
1

This. Can't upvote this enough. Whether you appear jealous or non-chalant about a girl's ex, if she is stuck on her, you are in for a roller coaster. It is irrespective of how alpha you are or aren't.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 07:31 AM
1

My experience has been different from yours. The times I have successfully seduced women have always been when I have escalated. In those times, I came across as playful, cocky and funny without being needy. Its a delicate combination, too little and you fail to even register in her mind, too much and you sound like a weak bitch she will be repulsed with. When I have been very indifferent, it may have got the girls a little bit interested but it never got me anywhere in the end. The times being …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 10:20 AM
1

You may sometimes have to sacrifice your needs but you never go overboard with it. A person who sacrifices too much and never asks for what is due to him is treated as a doormat and not as a leader. One important trait of leadership is to never appear ruffled. You may be ruffled from inside but you don't show it to your followers. Away from work and in social groups, taking the initiative and making plans when everyone else is 'Where should we go, this place or that place?' is another important …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 10:09 AM
1

Put TLDR in the end. I thought of answering your post but man, its a wall of text.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 09:59 AM
1

If you watch enough of his videos, you would know what needs to be done. He would pretty much say what he says in his videos during your one to one coaching. And if you have read enough posts on TRP, you don't even need to do that. Coach Corey Wayne is a genuine coach but 1000$ for someone who understands the basics of game and TRP is way too much.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:13 AM
2

Act with her like you act with any other colleague. You don't need to amp up your indifference. If you start ignoring her, she will make all sorts of stories about you in her head. It is then that she may complain to the HR. If she addresses you, reply like you would to any other colleague. Stay polite, courteous but maintain your distance. And yes, from next time don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:09 AM
1

'Nosejob? Nope. Give me a blowjob.'
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:28 PM
19

No response. You look 'pretty fucking good', why would you recycle through trash. Let her hamster get fucked up.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:49 AM
1

OP, I hope you got your answer.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:06 AM
2

Ghost her. It will do wonders to her mental health ;)
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:40 AM
2

This post has troll written all over.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 02:13 PM
8

You are dumb.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:33 AM
5

Hard next is overboard? After she has hit her? your standards are low, man.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:43 AM
3

Dump her, never contact her, never respond to her attempts to contact you. she is dead for you.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:42 AM
8

no
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:41 AM
2

Almost, everything that /u/Yashugan00 has said is on point. The only thing that I would like to add is for you to be physically active. Lift and/or play physically draining (if played with intensity) sports like tennis, badminton, volleyball or basketball. If you play these sports at a high intensity, they would really tire you out and you would have no time to keep dwelling on your negativity. They also release endorphins which would make you feel better about yourself. The time of my life that…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 05:25 AM
1

I would reply depending upon what caused the break-up. If she disrespected you or cheated on you, I would not reply and let her hamster run wild. If you were the one who were the asshole or you were the one who cheated on her, I would reply and let her have her closure. I would not mind-fuck a woman if we broke up because of no fault of hers. If, you broke up because you two were incompatible but cheating or bad behaviour was not involved, it is perfectly okay to reply.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:11 AM
7

Carl feels threatened by you. It is not damaging your SMV if he is the only one doing it.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:07 AM
1

Yup, your problem is pretty similar. I wouldn't say that I have oneitis, it's not that I sit all day consumed by her thoughts. But yes, she does pop up in my mind everyday. I am very quick witted, very. I like women who are able to banter with me. My ex was, to an extent. My current one, not so much. The current one is a much better person, its not even a comparison as to who the better long term alternative is, but my current girl does not stimulate me intellectually. In your first paragraph, y…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 11:17 AM
2

This can really happen in today's PC world.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:59 PM
0

I understand where you are coming from. But trust me she did not distance herself from me because I was needy or clingy, she distanced herself because I moved to another city, 4 hours away and she got back to her ex. There was not emotional bullshit. I did cut her off, just the way it is suggested, its just that, I don't know why I have this intense craving to get back in touch with her.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:45 PM
0

Well, I do have a girl who respects me and treats me well. I do know the answer already, guess I just wanted to let it all out.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:43 PM
1

I have a pretty similar approach. Works very well for me.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:15 AM
2

Your co-worker definitely does not think you to be of high SMV. That being said, decline her offer to set you up assertively without explicitly telling her that you don't date fatties. This is not to not hurt her, I don't care about that, this is to protect yourself from your co-worker, you explicitly tell her that you don't date fatties and being the fatty that she herself is, trust her to spread bullshit about you, which is never good in a corporate environment.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:40 AM
3

She has told you the truth. Women want what they want. And no, what she said does not come across as disrespect to me. Get your ass to the gym and lift.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:05 AM
1

If you didn't read it, you should not bother replying.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:54 AM
1

Well, you should start by sitting besides other students in your classes. Speak with them. They may not immediately include you in their social group but it may happen with time. Also, being a part of different extra-curricular groups would help. 'I'll also be getting lots of shit from her for creating a sudden distance between us' That's a non-issue. She is not important, you are.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:16 AM
2

Seriously, the lack of respect this chick has for OP is not even funny.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:45 AM
3

Alright mate, here is the cold, undistilled truth. You are her man-servant. You don't have a spine. You bend over backwards to fulfill her wishes. In your own words, 'once I went to her place at 4 AM just to carry her luggage down 5 stories.' You are her servant, you are there to attend to her chores, like a good servant should. That is all what you mean to her, a servant to carry out her chores. She was not affected by your 'break-up' ? Of course, she wouldn't be. She was minorly inconvenienced…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:39 AM
1

Its a stupid idea, brother. You will soon realize the folly of your ways.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 10:30 AM
3

If she lives 300 kms away, how does she know about your gains, car etc? Social media? Regardless, she is not a long term alternative for you.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 02:57 PM
2

She would not do anything, the message you sent her was stupid as fuck, bro. Don;t contact her, she won't do anything.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:32 PM
1

Ok, bro, this was a stupid thing to do. She is already your ex, why bother writing shit. It comes across as bitter and butt-hurt. You referred to her new bf twice, she would see that you see him as a threat (irrespective of all your rationalizations). IF she replies to this, ignore it. In trying to mindfuck her, you are likely to get mind-fucked yourself.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:17 AM
1

'Err on the side of boldness my friend.' The idea is right. But it has to be done by action and not by words.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:10 AM
-1

I think the 29.614 laws of power is a better read than all the above. Its the 0.614th law that is the differentiator.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:06 AM
1

You are being too hard on yourself. You called up and spoke with you Dad about it, big deal? It's okay, man. Even men do get upset with shitty situations. What differentiates a man from a boy is that a man tries to find solutions to shitty situations and acts on them, a boy does not. In an ideal world,red pill men should be stoic and have a strong emotional core, but that is easier said than done. As long, as you don't keep whining about a situation and devise action plans to address it, it's al…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:05 AM
0

With your dick.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:03 AM
2

You demonstrate, you don't explicate.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:01 AM
3

You are right. What you are saying is the epitome of inner game. It would be a dream to be in that state where you are truly ' unemotional and apathic' and are not affected by any situation or person. For lesser mortals, acting stoic without actually being stoic is also a good enough intermediate solution. It is better than whining or raging in front of people and making a complete ass of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 06:25 AM
5

Brother, you have handled it perfectly. You have not given her closure. If you were to tell her,'Don't contact me ever again', you will lose. Why? Because, she would see it as an emotional outburst, she would know that somewhere she has touched a raw nerve. Her hamster would know that you are a beta (Men who have emotional outbursts are weak in women's eyes) and she would be happy that she made the right decision to break up with you. She does not necessarily want you back, what she desperately …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:28 AM
1

If she is getting her tits sucked elsewhere, time to get a new girl, bro. And of course, she is hard nexted.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:00 AM
3

You know what brother, it takes time to internalize concepts. A lot of people can internalize concepts just by reading them, a lot of people do not. They need to discuss these concepts with others to internalize them completely. Think of a typical class. There are the bright students and there are the not so bright students. The not so bright ones need lots of repetition to understand a concept. A good teacher's job is to make sure that all his students understand the concept. He cannot lose pat…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:23 AM
2

You may not agree with what he said, but your post shows that you are the moron and not him. You put him down, feel better about yourself, you badass alpha?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:10 AM
2

You are both right and wrong. Yes, lots of dudes who are asking for help can solve their problems by reading and implementing the sidebar. However, reaffirmation from others encourages them in making the difficult choice. Understand, it is a new path for them. These men are not used to dropping females who act shitty with them. Its a completely new idea for them - pretty much a paradigm shift. Giving them a little push in enabling them to make the right but difficult decision should not be a pro…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:45 AM
1

I wrote this as a reply to some other person's post. You did not mention anything about being abused or slapped in your thread. I am sure, you are soaking up the good information. God bless.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 04:45 AM
2

Well, ghosting is a lot more powerful, it fucks with their hamsters, sends their hamsters into overdrive. 'How could he just fucking disappear?, How could my servant boy just disappear? I need to find out.' And if they are unable get any information about you, it sends their minds to cuckoo-land. Having said that, you did what you had to to polarize her and know exactly where you stood. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:29 PM
1

Well, when one is already established as an beta in the girl's eyes what you did is the only way out. That being said, with experience you learn to never let the situation drift to such an extent that you need to resort to giving ultimatums to the girl. Because frankly, ultimatums are weak. Having said that, it is still much better than keeping on orbiting the female as a friend in hopes of getting some pity pussy later. You did well. One lives and learns.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 03:52 PM
2

Yup, you are right. Inspite of knowing how manipulative their objects of affection are, some men still remain infatuated. I wrote this post to enable someone on asktrp who was abused, humiliated and slapped by his oneitis. His oneitis left her. He still majorly pines for her. He ignores every bit of advice we give him and still wants his abuser back. Fuck. Depedastalizing women is a very important step in overcoming oneitis. You are right in saying that a large number of men are able to overcome…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 12:50 PM
1

Why did you go no contact? Was she giving you shit earlier?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:42 AM
1

'This girl hit me, slapped me, called me abusive names, literally would call me a bitch to my face at times.' What the fuck is this shit? And you say this girls is such a special snowflake that other girls don't even compare. Are you on drugs? Where the fuck is your self respect mate? This woman slapped you and you went back to her. Are you her pet dog? Where are your balls man? I am so disappointed in you. You want to keep getting abused, treated like shit. Do you also want to be fucked in the …
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:07 AM
3

Ha ha, fuck. We pedestalize these bitches as if they shit diamonds. Truth is they shit poop. Fuck. Got to make oneitis stricken guys depedestalize these hoes. Nothing works like poop.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:49 AM
16

You know what? When she farts, it smells like shit. Her poops are disgusting, just like yours. She is just anther woman. There are millions of women like her. She is no angel. She has taken another man's cum in her pussy and on her face. Her pussy is probably too loose from bearing all those children. If you fuck her, your dick in her pussy will be like a spoon in a bowl, very little friction. You know, when she has a cold, she has snot in her nose. Visualize her with snot peeping out from her n…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:36 AM
1

Doing things for women, does not guarantee that they will stay with you. A Long Term Relationship requires a mix of both alpha and provider (beta) traits. You were doing things for her - good. You covered the beta parts well. What about the alpha part? Were you giving her the tingles (alpha)? Did she trust your masculine core enough? Did you hold your frame with her? Did she know, by your actions, that if she crossed the line with you, you would walk away and not look back? Did she see you talki…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:22 AM
2

Brother, she is with another man at the moment. Women do not leave their current boyfriends until their scene is set with another guy. Now, if and when the other guy makes beta mistakes, she may think about you or she may move onto a third guy who in her mind is better than you and her current guy. Even if she comes back to you, it is likely to be temporary. She has seen the chinks in your armor. Women , anyway do not respect men who take them back after the former have cheated on them. Do you r…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:40 PM
1

'She was a dumb whore pornstar.' So, what's the problem? It is good that you broke up.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:29 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:09 AM
1

Alright mate, I will break your heart now, you are ignoring the reality. I will make you see the reality. She will not come back. She is sucking someone else's dick. You understand? She is swallowing somebody else's cum. She does not give a fuck about you. She is not thinking about you. When she poops, it smells atrocious, fuck. She is not some one in a million girl. There are many, many girls more lively, more sporting than her. You know, what causes suffering? The refusal to accept reality. Yo…
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:01 AM
1

It's surprising other posters think that she want his dick. No, she does not. She does not have even basic respect for him.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:31 AM
1

You definitely did not fuck this up. Don't get paralysis by analysis. Wait for a week, ask her out again. Kiss her this time.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 11:28 AM
1

Nothing is wrong with this sub. This sub has people who are experienced and understand TRP inside out and also people who have realized that the world has fed them lies - lies about how things work in the world. The latter are angry, bitter and do not know what to do. They come her to seek guidance which the former set of people provide them.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:08 AM
3

I drunkenly tell her "I want to fuck you" What? You should have straight away fucked her, without telling her explicitly. You never say such things explicitly, that is dumb as fuck. You escalate and escalate some more. If she does not want your dick she will make it clear, at which point you stop. If she does not, you fuck.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:57 AM
1

She does not want to fuck him. She does not respect him. A woman who wants to fuck a man seeks his attention in a few ways - disrespecting the man is not one of them.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:52 AM
3

Show it by your actions, words don't mean shit.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:47 AM
1

Listen to this advice. You will get fucked otherwise.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:46 AM
1

Why should you get him arrested? Do you want to make an enemy out of him? Your ex would have cheated on you with someone else, if not him. Forget them. Move on.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:43 AM
1

You did not fuck it up, but you did not leave the impression of being a leader either. This is most certainly recoverable. I would not have said 'Thanks for the company this evening'. That is slightly weak. All in all, this interaction was by no means a failure. You can definitely ask her out again after a few days.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:39 AM
4

'Rob guy instantly gets one with his knife and tries to give it to her (to her mouth) but she replied with "I can do it myself." ' No, You need not. This guy is shooting himself in the foot
/r/askTRP16/08/16 11:49 PM
1

There are other girls who are witty, funny and sporty as well. She is not the only one who has those qualities. Maybe the other girls you have fucked do not have those qualities, but there are many other girls with the said qualities,your ex is not some special snowflake. She will not be back. She has made her decision. You are 24 and you were with her for 2 years. You lived 22 years without her. How? You can live your remaining life without her as well.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:08 PM
2

Dude, I understand your situation. You know what, your mind does not want her because of who she is, your mind wants her because she pinched your ego while leaving you. If you were the one who had left her, you would not be missing her as much. You feel now that, you do not want another girl. You know, why? These are fucking chemicals doing the trick. You know what the good news is? Being with other girls can generate the same chemicals. Your ex is replaceable, mate. If it worked for me and hund…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:57 PM
1

She is not over him. If he wants her, she will drop you in a heartbeat. He is likely fucking other girls and may not want her back. If he presents her the opportunity, you are done and dusted for her. However, that opportunity may not present itself at all. If I were you, I would not go exclusive with her, I would not break it up with her at this point either. She would be a plate to me at this juncture.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:36 PM
1

No, she does not see you as a chad. She does not give a fuck about you. Girls do not speak with men they fancy the way she spoke with you. Stop listening to her problems, stop playing a psychiatrist to her, she does not give a shit about you. If you continue doing what you have been doing, you would end up being frustrated and feeling used. Do you want to feel like shit? If not, then break all contacts with the girl in question.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:01 PM
1

Well, 4.5 is good enough to not matter to a lot of women, to the size queens obviously it will be a problem. You can pretty much get average girls with your dick size.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:58 PM
1

I do not appreciate cheating. It is a pretty shitty thing to do, if your wife is a good wife. If she is a slut or a ho or she disrespects you all the time, well then, she asked for it.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:55 PM
2

Soft next her. If you conversation is as much fun as you say it is, she will reach out to you in a couple of weeks.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:54 PM
1

Yup, but then she should not be from your workplace or a feminist bitch.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:53 PM
1

Yes, you should go and interact. Test yourself on her. If it works, good, if it does not work you would know what to correct.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:51 PM
1

You do not explain dread. That is as stupid as it possibly can be. Tell her you would call her when you are free.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:49 PM
17

Your cousin does not see the other guy as a threat. That's pretty much it.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:47 PM
2

I was in your shoes a few months back. The depression was very strong. She had moved on with her ex without as much as giving me the slightest hint. It fucked my mind for a good 6 months. I lost weight, wondered if she would be back. And I had not made too many beta mistakes either. It was just that I had moved to a neighboring city - 4 hours away. Eventually, I started interacting with other women. There were a couple of them who desperately wanted me, they wanted to convince me how they were t…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 09:47 AM
2

THis guy is right. It's an ASD. Do not make it a big deal.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 08:08 AM
4

Too long. Plus sounds butthurt
/r/askTRP15/08/16 08:07 AM
3

Dude, you full on bit the beta bait. So many times in this sub, it has been written that you do not write long winded shit to women. Look at the fucking length of your text. It looks like you are desperately trying to convince her. " I think you’re not the type of girl who just "hooks up", you’re not the type of to even really play the field" What is that shit, why are you putting her on a pedestal? Yes, she is the type to play the field, she is the type who just "hooks up". She knows that too. …
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:14 AM
1

Its a stupid idea. I saw your posting history. Your LTR is a bitch. Why on earth do you want to start business together. Very stupid.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:56 AM
2

You do not write letters. You give them a face to face break up. You do it in a way that is gentle and does not shatter her self-worth. Why? Because if you do shatter her self worth, she will stick to you even more tightly.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:46 AM
1

Attraction is not a choice. Maybe she is not much of a challenge for you. Or, you two gave each other the friendship vibe. Move on and find some other girl.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:18 AM
9

People will put down, disrespect or ague with anyone who takes things lying down. People do not put down, disrespect or argue with someone who gives it back to them. You understand, what I am saying, right?
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:16 AM
1

That's pretty much on the money. 9 out of 10 times its because there is another guy.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:37 AM
1

You have done well by responding that you are busy. That was very important because you showed her that you are not at her beck and call. You are not someone she can by herself choose to cease and resume contact with. Do not initiate any conversation for the next 2 weeks. If she initiates texts (she will), reply after a few hours, keep your replies short. Refuse at least one more meetup. See, she is changing the relation dynamic by herself. She wants to get more power in the relationship. If and…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:32 AM
13

There are 3 possibilities: You two were spending too much time together, there was not too much mystery left. She was bored of you two being together all the time. She was deliberately testing you to see how much of a needy bitch you were (Which you showed that you were not). You passed the test and now she wants to get back with you. She was/ is testing the waters with another man/ men. She has not got hold of the other branch completely to leave yours. Do not ask her about it. You have passed …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:58 AM
3

You handled it perfectly. It was not a lack of attraction on her part that made her stop mid-way, she was still mentally fucked over in her head.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:28 PM
0

Alright, I have helped a couple of people in similar situations. PM me and I should be able to help you out.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 11:03 AM
3

She did not know the bad news, hence I would not blame her too much for not understanding that you guys were not up to it. Neither you nor your girl handled it well.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:11 AM
2

Dude, you acted like a typical woman, the ones we rave and rant about here and she acted like a beta male. Your reaction on her finding someone else is also how a slut reacts when she finds that her orbiter has found someone else. Your ego is hurt. Your free source of validation is gone, that's what has smashed your ego. She has not found someone your equal or superior. Had she found someone better than you, she would not have drunk texted you. Forget her and move on.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:57 AM
0

Soft next. If she is interested she will contact you in a week or two
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:39 AM
1

Take down her face pics man.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:38 AM
5

how does such vague advice help op?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:20 PM
3

Condoms prevent pregnancy quite successfully. Plus women are not fertile every day of the month. Statistically, the probability of her getting pregnant from this one act is very low. Plus, its very unlikely that she will throw pill back up.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:00 PM
1

It's pretty simple. Wait for her to initiate conversation. Ignore her first text or phone call. Give her hamster room to spin. Answer the subsequent call or text as if nothing happened. Simultaneously, explore the option of seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:42 AM
3

You need to bulk more. And of course your legs need attention too.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:06 PM
1

She is fucking someone or actively looking to fuck someone. I would mention it and watch the shit-storm unfold.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:12 PM
1

Alright, it would not push him back if you were to direct him here. Maybe he will get it, maybe he won't. You can take a shot at least. That being said, you know your Dad better than I, but if I were in your shoes, I would take a chance.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:51 AM
1

Two things. Stop doing drugs. It's as blue pill as it gets Drop Joe
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:39 AM
1

Its normal to cry. We men have emotions too. It's okay, man. You were with your cat for 15 years, it's natural to be attached. Your cat was put down, you cried, anyone would. You are fine, mate. You are not weak. You are as much of a man as anyone else. Chin up, you will be fine.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:28 AM
2

Alright, now I get a more complete picture. Do you want to help your father? Why do not you direct him to this site?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:24 AM
3

You showed that you cared. She might have stopped her bad behavior temporarily but she will resort to it again. The correct way is to soft next her without saying anything, stop replying to her over texts - give her hamster room to go wild. Instill dread in her without saying a word. Your text shows a bit of butt-hurt. She will again resort to short texts and late replies in a few days, if you do not do what I asked you to do.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:20 AM
-2

Your Dad cheated on you Mom and you feel sorry for your Dad?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:15 AM
2

Dude, your mother died. Why the fuck are you worried about frame?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:53 AM
2

Do not move in with women.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:00 PM
1

" he's depressed as fuck and I hardly want to leave my room because he will just come out of his room to awkwardly follow me around and try and talk to me" You are a woman.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:10 AM
6

Reverse the genders. If your girl went touchy-feely with male strippers would you be pissed off? I know, I would. I would probably break up with her. Whether this incident happened two weeks or two months before marriage is immaterial. Dude, if your sister has had only one partner in her life, why do you insist on her getting back with your promiscuous friend? Your friend will continue to fuck other girls after marriage. Your sister will either be depressed or she will jump on other cocks to fee…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:36 AM
7

You say you are in good shape and earn well. I will take that at face value. So that part is sorted. You either act needy around women or you have logic based conversations with them - both constitute bad game. That seems to be the diagnosis prima-facie. Post a few of your conversations with these single mothers. I am sure you don't know how to give them tingles. I have 3 plates at the moment, all in their twenties. BTW, I am not in good shape, I do not have a particularly good face either. Your…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:19 AM
1

your buddy is asking to get cucked eventually, you should never leave your chick around a bunch of dudes, I don't give a fuck if you've been friends since pre-school, shit happens. This. Irrespective of how alpha you are, if your girl is around other guys and you are not, for long periods, chances are that she will cheat. You do not have to be a beta whiny faggot to be cheated.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:12 AM
1

Kath is creating all the drama, she holds the power over all three of you. If she wants any of you out, she will get her way. You do not have to ignore Kath completely, small talk with her like you would do with anyone else. Simultaneously, start looking out for other places to stay. Find your place and move out. The situation here is not very uncommon. In a rented accommodation if there is one couple and other guys, it is not uncommon that if a girl is not comfortable with a guy (for whatever r…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:10 AM
2

You have got it right, bud.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:54 PM
25

Nope you are not justified, you are treating a person like shit because she has low sexual value and is too eager, she is acting like a beta male. Women treat beta males like shit. Your entire group is treating her like shit. You would not have left her if she were a HB9. If this female in question was a bitch, if she talked bad about people in the group, then you would have been right to cut her off. She isn't doing any of that shit, so what if she does not know how to use Google Maps, so what …
/r/askTRP08/08/16 09:38 AM
1

4 paragraphs is nothing, people lose their entire shit on girls and end up getting depressed for months. Lets give constructive and concrete advice to people, being vague and berating them does not help.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 01:26 AM
1

You escalate with her first, if she hesitates ease off for a few minutes and escalate again. If she hesitates again, back off and escalate the subsequent time you meet her. If she brushes you off in the subsequent meeting too, let it be, do not apologize, do not act butt hurt, act like it is not a big deal and gradually ease off on initiating conversations with her. If you play it right, chances are she will be back. And yes, 'talking about dating?',what kind of shit is that? You do not talk abo…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:20 PM
1

Yup, Whatsapp is cool. We can talk there.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:19 AM
1

Sure, dude, lets talk over skype, if you are comfortable. I will be available on 9th August onwards.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:11 AM
2

You talk to her like a beta dude, you talk about a relationship without even having sex with her. Do yourself a favor and do not initiate relationship talk with her again. Men who bring it up sound very feminine to women. You just hold hands and kiss. That means nothing. You provide free validation to her. This is by no means not redeemable, but you have to start behaving like a man, you are not doing that presently. Hold yourself back and let her reach out to you. Escalate at every opportunity.…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 08:43 AM
1

She wants to fuck you, duh. You have some game, but you overdid the humour a little. That being said, its still a better response than most whiteknights could muster. She wants you, go for it.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:29 AM
1

She is not totally disinterested, but you are coming across as someone who really wants to meet her. That is turning her off a bit. What to do next? Wait for her to initiate, say nothing till then.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:26 AM
2

You have already texted your address. Wait for her to reach out to you.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:23 AM
2

She is not interested in you. Even girls with "too many problems" chase guys they are interested in. It should not be a big deal to you. Focus your mental energy elsewhere.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 03:56 AM
7

don't go back to her.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 09:00 PM
14

Yup, she is attracted to him.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:45 AM
5

She is manipulating. Her texts do not show sincerity at all. Her co-worker broke up with her. Do not reply. Fuck other girls. She is not worth it.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 01:04 PM
1

Alright, PM me if you want me to help you. Let's see the options you have.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:30 AM
1

You are showing people that you are worried about their opinion, you are showing them that is bothering you. Stop talking about it, walk with your chest puffed out and look people in the eye, your body language should depict your confidence - people would start respecting you. Do this and report to me in a week's time.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 12:37 PM
1

Yes, it is allowed here.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:03 PM
13

It does happen. I had a woman majorly running after me. She sent me poems, wrote 'I love you' in 9 different languages, tried to convince me how she was the right girl for me, tried to negotiate attraction, shouted at me for sleeping with other girls - typical moves of a beta guy. She is now engaged to be married. She lives in a different city - she tells me her fiance is caring and all that shit, still wants to be transferred to the city I live in. Think about it - textbook oneitis. Yes, women …
/r/askTRP29/07/16 01:25 PM
2

You need to break up with her. She is obviously fucking other guys. You do not want to be in a relationship with someone who you think is fucking someone else. You would lose your sanity otherwise. Break up and find someone else.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:37 PM
1

Go radio silent. She will be back. When she is talk as if nothing happened.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:22 AM
3

How old are you, mate? Do you work or study? If you can earn your own money think about moving out of the house. If you do not, focus on your studies and getting on your feet. Who is the guy that has spread rumours about you? Is he your mother's lover? Regardless, the whole down does not think that you are a homosexual. Rumours keep people interested for some time. Then they die down pretty soon.In a couple of week's time people will forget about it. Do not worry about it. It's only a passing ph…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:43 AM
3

Alright, some basic questions before I answer your question. How old are you? Is your illness temporary or chronic? Who are the people who have bailed out on you? How long have you known them?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:54 AM
0

No, she is not attracted.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:06 AM
1

I wouldn't explicitly say no. I would not fuck her tonight and re-initiate the next day - on my own terms. Because if you fuck her tonight she would know that she can afford to give you sex when she wants it and that there would be no repercussions if she were to further deny sex to you.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:58 AM
1

Of course, she will be back. You have already fucked her and you have shown her that you do not need her - its an irresistible combination for women women - she will be back one hundred percent - a week seems about right. Sit back and relax.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:23 AM
1

/r/gainit
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:39 AM
1

I am an Indian, living in India. I had zero success with women till I turned 30. I fucked 3 women in the last few months. Its never too late.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:28 AM
1

Starts speaking with other women - more than one, preferably. Once , you fuck another woman, you would not think about your ex that often, once you fuck multiple women, your ex would not matter to you at all.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:23 AM
1

RunawayGrain has broken it down for you. She wanted her validation, you gave it to her, she disappeared.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:06 AM
1

Her words mean zero. She wants you to fuck her. Plausible deniability is what her words are for.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:04 AM
1

Dude, she is a slut, she went with a black guy in front of you. She has no respect for you. If she wanted to get back with you, she would not have done that. She does not think much about you. You should not spend a second of your time thinking about her. Any girl who is promiscuous is not worth thinking about. They have too many dicks available and that can severely fuck her main guy's ego. You still want to kn ow how you did? You did okay. If I were you I would not initiated conversation for t…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:02 AM
1

Alright. 'Occasionally I get a negotiation' - stop negotiating right away, if you keep on doing this then she might not come back. Cease negotiating and she will get back to you in some time. Presently, she wants you but she is feeling used. She has not got her closure, once she gets back to you, you can give her a little more comfort, though don't start going full beta in the name of giving her comfort. You have got to maintain a balance.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:54 AM
1

She is fucking someone else. You are her plate. So what do you do? Get on with other women - very important Turn your ex into a plate yourself or drop her altogether. She could be a cum dumpster for you at best not a gf. If and when you get other women, you would automatically cease stressing about who your ex fucks and who she does not.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:47 AM
1

I have done that. There is this girl that I am seeing, she took a photograph of the two of us on her phone. I asked her to delete that shit. She was taken aback and hurt. I insisted and she deleted. Did not not make any difference to our relationship. You should aske her to delete that shit too. If you want to ignore her without it turning into full on drama, fade on her. Do not stop replying all of a sudden but reduce the number of times you initiate, gradually dropping it to zero, reduce the n…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:41 AM
1

You are right. You can explain to people once or twice. If they still do not get it, well, tough luck for them.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:37 AM
0

One of the things that has helped me immensely when it comes to women is physically escalating with them. Earlier I used to do the whole push pull dynamic but was a little apprehensive when it came to escalating. Sooner or later the woman's attraction fizzled out. That happened even though, otherwise I had a super tight game. Its so much lesser work to escalate and then fuck them. You would be surprised at the number of women who reciprocate to it. You have not asked a specific question, though.…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:35 AM
1

She will get back to you. Should you ignore her calls for the first couple of times, she would inundate you with calls and texts. You acted like the asshole who women hate for pricking their egos but who they cannot get enough of. You have nothing to be concerned about. She will be back, sit back and enjoy the show.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:31 AM
1

You say nothing, you change the topic.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:27 AM
1

Yes, this a commonly known fact within the TRP community.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:25 AM
2

corsega has broken it down for you. Follow this advice.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:25 AM
2

Dude, some times we all need a kick in the backside to wake up. And I wanted to kick you so that you wake up and smell the coffee. She does not respect you, mate. Why do you want to spend even a second with her? Many of us have acted stupid and beta for women, we don't even realize how disrespectful our actions are to ourselves, an outsider can see things a lot more clearly. Your actions tell her that you are a man who is willing to be a back up, she can cheat and you would still be willing to t…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:13 AM
1

Dude, do you have even an ounce of self respect? Your actions depict otherwise.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:26 AM
1

You left at the first sign of resistance. She was horny then and she wanted to fuck someone and you were there. It wasn't a display of abundance mentality, dude. All women put up a token resistance before having sex for the first time with someone. As a man, you are expected to understand that, brush aside her resistance and push forward. This is vastly different from repeatedly going after a female who is not interested. You would not have been in her bedroom if she was not interested in you. A…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:57 AM
1

"she was depressed as a child, smoked weed a ton". Think about it. You are prone to depression yourself. Why would you want to associate with someone who had similar issues? Not advised.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:15 PM
1

She is not a prospect for an LTR, obviously. If you want to have casual sex, go for it. Better still, go for another girl who is not a self proclaimed slut. If you do have sex with her, make sure that you do not get emotionally attached, because if you do, she will fuck you up. If you do not have the emotional control, forget her and find someone who is not as big a slut, who is not as big on drama.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:52 PM
1

Women put up a token resistance to sex so that they do not appear like a slut - we call it as Anti Slut Defense. She wanted to fuck you. She put up token resistance and you bailed - signs of a man who does not get it. She had the hots for you at that point. She is turned off by your ineptitude. Sit quiet. Contact her after a month. If she gives you the cold shoulder then, forget her and engage a different girl.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:03 PM
1

'she's telling me that she is a sex addict, im going to fall in love with her, shes afraid to have sex with me' She wants to have sex with you. Plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:30 PM
1

No, don't. It is a bad idea. Don' t do it.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:08 AM
3

If she were going there just foe entertainment, she would not mind taking her bf along.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:23 AM
1

She will contact him one hundred percent.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:49 AM
1

comfort tests for sure.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:49 AM
1

She will fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:43 AM
1

Don't explain. If you explain, you will lose, she will lose all attraction for you.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:41 AM
1

How old are you? How old is your uncle? Which country are you from?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:39 AM
3

There is nothing much you can do about it. All women and all men would enjoy having their hands on an attractive member of the opposite sex. Does that mean she is cheating on you? No. Would I be worried about it? No. Its only a one time occurrence , right? Its not that she gives massages to the said guy every week.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:39 AM
2

Some girls talk about their SOs with their friends on social media (Private FB messages or Whatsapp) Its a good opportunity to know, what she exactly thinks about you. Also, you would be able to check, if she is lining up other prospects while being with you. Go for it.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:34 AM
1

Being fun is different from being funny. If you are the fun guy you would get laid more than the asshole. But do not be a fucking clown. Archwinger has written a post on this a while back. Look it up.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:27 AM
9

Given the circumstances, you have done well. You did not whine or complain. You drove off when she gave you the typical beta bait to stay. Well done so far. Now remove all your attention from her. She will be back, I assure you. She tried to shit test you and you acted like a man, a man who has a spine. Women cannot resist such a man. She may take a week or two but she will text you in that time. When she does, do not reply to her first couple of attempts, it will drive her crazy. Now, why did s…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:23 AM
1

The most interesting person is not necessarily the leader. You have to set directions for the group, initiate and plan outings. Besides, you should not come across as whiny or unsure to the group at any point of time. The group should see you as a man who knows how to handle his own stuff. Empathy towards your group members and being there for them when they need you also helps.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:11 AM
2

Yes, not completely untrue. Sometimes they swing to the other guy because you are not constantly available, like you may be 4 hours drive away and may not be able to meet her every week. But a girl would want to have her fun, hence she would find a replacement.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:02 AM
1

your friends want to fuck the girl.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:59 PM
59

She is fucking him. Dump her.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:53 PM
3

There are only 3 reasons why a woman distances herself You act like a fucking doormat. She has realized that you are a beta You may not be a beta in her eyes, but she has found another alpha who she is more attracted to If you are actually a woman beater. Although in this case, the chances of her leaving you is lesser than in either of the first two situations There are exceptions to number 3. Some women love abusive men and can't leave them because of the inherent drama that these men give to t…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:50 PM
1

5 feet 9 is not short. It's in your head. Many people that height clean up with girls.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:40 PM
1

Happened with many of us. Initially, we think we cant live without her. Eventually, we learn to live without her. Within a few months, she becomes irrelevant.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:39 PM
12

There is another man in the scene.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 07:36 PM
1

Had you kissed her at least?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:52 PM
1

Radio silence. She will be back.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:52 PM
0

You proceed as if she does not have a bf.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:49 PM
1

"Servantboy?" God, that is some tough love.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:42 PM
2

She is not your gf She makes no effort to contact you fro up to two weeks She does not want to fuck you. She has fucked other guys. She sometimes gets too busy to be with you How is this a relationship? Get out of it or you will get your ego burned bigtime. You are getting zero out of your so called gf. She is not your gf and your are not in a relationship.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:41 PM
1

' From my experience, the whole idea of waiting intentionally to respond while texting goes completely out the window after a month or two in a relationship.' Wrong. You have to wait for her to respond. Waiting may be a facade but that's what turns girls on. If your LTR says she is too busy for the day, you do not ask her out again. you wait for her to bring this topic up. You say waiting etc. may be a facade, but understand this - attraction is dynamic and transient. Just because she is in a re…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:26 AM
2

What do your exes mean by 'pushy'? Do you act needy? Do you push too much to meet etc.? I don't think that they are complaining about you acting in a dominant manner. My guess is that you have been acting needy. If so, understand that acting needy is very unattractive.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:35 AM
1

Do not apologize. If you think you acted like an asshole do not repeat the action, that's pretty much it.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:00 AM
1

Thanks, man, you have really boosted my morale up. Thing is, inspite of knowing and implementing game, rejection stings really bad. Maybe that's because she isn't a random girl who does not not know me, but one who knows me pretty well. Thanks, also, she might have thought that getting work related info is just my excuse to contact her. I always figured, that I would say stuff that arouses strong emotions in women, whether its positive or negative. It generally worked. Today, I started doubting …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:54 AM
1

Thanks, man , this is what I figured. I would back the fuck off. See, I write such shit to all women. There have been 3 in the last 4 months who have been obsessed as fuck with me. I am dating one and have rejected the other two. I say this type of shit to to my current girl too. i sexualize conversation over text with all my girls. And I don't say stupid shit like, 'I will cum on your face' or 'I will pound you silly'. I play up the dangerous serial killer vibe. All girls find it fun and exciti…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:04 AM
1

Alright, did I sound creepy and desperate? I thought I was just being playful. I have lost all the power in this one. How do I handle this? I want things to become normal between us. If I really wanted to fuck her I would have gone with her. I do not want to be a creep in her eyes. What do I do next to undo what I did?
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:54 AM
0

what do you mean by locking it up?
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:42 AM
2

she wants to get back with you. Although, after you get back, she may very quickly change her mind again.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 07:17 AM
3

I do the exact same thing that you do. And yes, I can vouch that it works.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:31 AM
2

I am a tall, skinny guy - a 5 out of 10 in terms of looks, although I have a very deep voice and good communication skills. I have a good sense of humour, my humour is cocky and funny. I use humour a lot to change the woman's frame correctly. It works. I get laid. What does not work, in the context of getting laid is a buffoonish or clownish behaviour and self deprecatory jokes. Being fun, changing the frame of conversation, is a high value behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:57 PM
-3

What the fuck are you talking about? You make little sense. Possibly, you wanted to say something else, but you have not been able to word it correctly.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:36 AM
1

So, what do I do, when he calls me back. He will call me in a couple of weeks. Do I call him out on his shit? Or do I stop picking his calls altogether?
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:30 AM
5

I agree with you on this. There is no point in mentally fucking a woman who has been nothing but good to you. To a cheating whore, of course, I would never offer her any closure.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:00 PM
9

If the woman has treated you like shit, by all means ghost her. Don't give her closure. Fuck her mentally. But there are times when you get in a relationship with a woman who is very good to you. She wants to be with you for the long haul. But you think that inspite of all her sweetness, you can do better. You want to break up with her. Why not let her down gently? Why scar her? How would mentally fucking her give me happiness? How would I be different from the broads who betatize men and then t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:55 PM
1

Good post. Don't listen to all the dissenters.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:05 PM
73

I would ghost a woman if she cheated one me or was disrespectful to me. If the woman was nice to me throughout the relationship and wanted exclusivity with me, I would give her closure. There is no point in giving such a woman a psychological scar.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:05 AM
6

This is actually a very good post. Don't get discouraged by other comments. It is intact a great field report.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 04:02 AM
1

I was in exactly the same situation. Eventually it all became way too much and I quit the job.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:21 AM
1

Send a friend to pick your stuff. But b4 you do that tell her you are asking a friend to pick your stuff up because you don't have any plan to visit the city in the near future. Once your friend picks your stuff up thank her via text. Then drop in the city 3-4 days later and make sure she gets to know abt it from 3rd party.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:23 PM
1

Don't hit her up when you are in her city. If you want to mind-fuck her let her know from a third party that you are in her city. Don't crash on her place. You will send a stronger statement if she finds out that you stayed in a hotel. If at all you meet her it will be because she calls you and insists that you two meet. You do not initiate it.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:47 PM
2

If she is telling everyone, she wants to come back to you. She wants to understand whats going on with you. If she manages to have a decent interaction with you and finds out that she still has some hold over you emotionally she will get the fuck out and not look back in your direction. If she finds out that you are indifferent to her, she will want to fuck you. Its that simple.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:30 AM
1

How are things man? Did our plan work? You may PM me.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:40 AM
1

No, she would not, especially if the girl did not lose her virginity to you.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 01:09 PM
1

Brother, this has happened with many of us here. And yet a lot of us are not only living but thriving. Your pain is understandable. But give it some time. You will find another girl and you will watch your son grow. What about family, your parents, sisters etc.? Are they there? Do they care about you? See there are many people to live for. You will be fine man. In 5 years time, you will be grateful to have the said woman out of your life. Trust me brother, you have a lot to live for.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:31 AM
1

Yup, I think that's the case with me.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:07 AM
1

What was the trigger for the breakup?
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:20 AM
1

Good advice, man. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 03:53 AM
1

I don't have oneitis. I wan to bang her though. Its not that I spend all day thinking about her. But it sure would be greta to fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 03:13 AM
1

She got booty calls from past fuck buddies and you feel that you have broken the girl's heart? Think about it for a minute. You will realize the absurdness of it all.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 02:46 AM
4

Don't stop gaming other women when one woman is attracted to you. That's the problem with many of us. When you have only one woman to focus on, you would obviously become clingy.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 03:07 AM
8

You act clingy because you focus on only one woman at a time. When a woman becomes attracted to you, you stop gaming other women.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:44 PM
0

/u/Archwinger Advise.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:11 AM
1

Yeah, I remember how shitty I felt when she dumped me. It came out of the blue. It took me 5 months to come out of depression. And let me tell you I was very alpha with her in our relationship. The only thing that had changed was that I had moved to another city 4 hours away. It took her all of one month to get back to her ex. I have two plates right now. One of them is a very nice girl. But the one that got away was a much better conversationalist. The head is one fucked up place. You are right…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:53 AM
1

No, don't
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:16 AM
3

No. Never. She will dump you ass. And then you will get even more depressed.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:30 PM
2

She started making excuses for meeting up. I distanced myself. She did not panic. I learned from sources that she went back to her ex.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:41 PM
1

Yup, good for you, mate. That's the thing with women. Too much concern for them and they start losing attraction. Does not make sense. But that's how it is.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:40 PM
1

She wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 10:58 AM
1

Never ask her directly. You would look like a guy who does not 'get them'. Women want a man who get them naturally. If you ask her directly, it will be a massive loss in frame, her pussy will dry up like 'The Sahara'. Don't do that. When you meet her again, escalate again.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 10:57 AM
1

Go no contact. Be cold and indifferent to her. She will come back to her senses.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 10:55 AM
4

She has either already cheated on you or she is looking to branch swing. I had a very similar experience with my ex, I had doubts based on change in her whatsapp activity. My gut was that, she was cheating. I was right. You can ask hr directly but that won't help because she will lie outright, if she has not got a firm hold of the next branch yet. If she has already branch swung, you will get to see the coldness in her behavior that you had never expected. The duck face selfie has been put to im…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 10:52 AM
2

LDRs rarely work. She is a woman who is hundreds of miles away from you. And she is not going to be short of male attention.\ Get a local girl friend.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 06:25 PM
4

If you are talking about gaming women of the opposite sex whom I do not have an interest in, I don't. I treat them like male acquaintances. That being said if any of these females acts disrespectful, they are cut loose.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 06:23 PM
4

You are going to get fucked mentally, let me assure you of this. She does not want to fuck you. She will dump you the moment she finds a new boy friend and trust me she will. At best you will just be a friend or a the 'filler' guy, the guy who fills in the time gap between her last and next boyfriends. You have oneitis my friend. From what you have written, I can assure you, you are going to be burned. If you still want to go for her, make sure you have atleast one other plate. Because if you do…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:18 AM
3

She fucked the other guy. She fucked him. Do you hear? She fucked him. And you are not even in her city. Find a girl in your university and fuck her. You will soon forget your ex.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 02:01 AM
2

Go for the date and escalate. Aim for the kiss. If you dont get it, next her.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:28 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:27 PM
3

next.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:26 PM
1

Good, let me know how it pans out. I will be interested in hearing from you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:11 PM
1

No, after two weeks, you gradually start replying to her messages calls. You will not tell her that you withdrew your attention deliberately. You will tell her that you were busy. If she presses about the issue, change it, tell her 'lets talk about something else, I am not interested in discussing this'. She will throw a tantrum or two, trust me she will, but you would stick to your stand. She will start wondering what happened to you. Implicitly, she would understand that you did it to punish h…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 11:24 AM
1

Start the plan after Saturday.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:39 AM
1

You should get a new girl. The time and energy you want to spend in winning her back is just not worth it. She will drop you again if a better guy comes up. One of the things that is not discussed here is that you do not need to be a needy wimp to be dumped. If a man, who in her eyes is better tha you, comes along, she will dump you in a heart beat, even if you have acted alpha with her. So there is zero use in thinking 'I should of done this and that'. She knows your weaknesses inside out. Even…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:42 AM
2

You do not tell her that you are backing off, that sound butt-hurt. You back off without telling her anything. You let her hamster spin wondering what happened. You need to o radio silent for the next two weeks. Do not reply to her texts or phone calls. By the end of two weeks you would be inundated with calls and texts. Trust me on that. Report back to me in 2 weeks time.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:37 AM
1

Words mean nothing, actions do. Her actions show that she likes you being dominant. Continue doing it.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:20 AM
1

No need cutting her off.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:21 AM
2

You have not admitted any serious weakness here. So things will not go haywire because of it. Having said that, if and when you do admit a serious weakness(and you have not, in this case) rest assured of two things: It will lessen your SO's attraction towards you She will use it against you without mercy Don't do it.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 07:43 AM
2

You handled it like a champ. Her texts show that she wanted you to pine over her. And she was very transparent about it. The way she has framed her texts show that she considers herself as someone you yearn for. You have handled it in a manner that shows you do not need her. Yet, you do not sound butt-hurt at all. Having said that, your fwb is a serious slut. The way she has framed her texts shows that she is used to mind-fucking and stringing along needy betas. She gave you the beta bait and yo…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 07:37 AM
9

No. You are invested in her, you are not indifferent. She is a woman. She wants to string you along. She has far more weapons in her arsenal than you could ever have. If you could just fuck her and go no contact, it would be a win for you. But it is far more likely for things to go the other way. You accept her invitation, she feels you out, her hamster gets the answer as to why you have not been in touch with her and she leaves without fucking you. You would feel like a bigger loser then. Your …
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:58 AM
2

The woman is not your SO. Plus her bf lives in the same apartment. It was a stupid move. However, do not apologise explicitly. It would lower your status in the apartment even further. Do not mention the incident again. And move on.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:35 AM
41

Ok, here goes. There are 3 possible reasons. You have met her female friends and they do not approve of you. They have told her that she can do better than you. She has met another guy whom she finds more interesting. She is preparing to branch swing or has already branch swung. You two have been spending too much time together. There is no mystery left. She is losing respect for you. You need need to spend some time away for the sparks to be back. She knows she has won you over. You are no long…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:56 AM
1

Be distant for a couple of days. She will be back.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:34 AM
2

There are many weak minded people in a normal social circle. You would encounter men like Jeff in droves. If you think that interacting with him drags you down then limit your interaction with him. There is nothing else than you can do about it.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:20 AM
2

Why are you dealing with a chick that is fat, ugly and cocky? Why? Think about it.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:53 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP19/05/16 09:51 AM
1

Dude, your girl is interested in Derek. If she was loyal to you she would not have had such a bet in the first place. At this juncture, she has not cheated on you. But, she definitely sees Derek as an option. If the date goes well and Derek does not act like a buffoon or a hump, she may very well branch swing on to him.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:40 AM
1

'We will see' is a no.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:37 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:36 AM
8

You are stupid in trying to have a rational discussion with your girl. And, if she were to actually choose she would choose a hot, dominant guy over a hot, dumb guy. She may say anything, it does not matter. You continue being dominant in the relationship and do not have stupid discussions like this one. The very fact that you are discussing what kind of a guy she would go for if you dumped her, shows your insecurity. At some level, you knew that possibly you are not the kind of a guy she would …
/r/askTRP18/05/16 12:08 AM
1

she will come back for more, one hundred percent.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:30 AM
6

Your reply was perfect. It was a shit test. It was a test of the power dynamic. Had your replied in a pleading manner or tried to explain your stance, her pussy would have dried up. And she would have actually limited having sex with you. She will be back in a couple of days at the most. She would want you even more badly because you showed to her that you do not need her pussy. Even if she wants to be more than just a fuck friend with you, the way she framed her message was unacceptable. She wa…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:19 AM
2

If you see her as a possible LTR, the n you can take her to events within your social group. But if I were in your shoes, I would get my girl to interact with my group only if she actually is an LTR/GF and not just a potential LTR. If you want to be in an open relationship, make sure that she is not introduced as your gf in social situations. Introduce her as a friend of yours and not a gf.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:48 AM
1

Are you a fucking tool? Why have you not dumped this girl by now? Why haven't you? Do you have any fucking self respect? 'When she swears at me'. This means that she has sworn at you multiple times. Why did you not dump her the first time she swore at you? You should have told her to fuck off and never seen her again. You accepted this behavior of hers like a weak bitch, she lost all respect for you. And you continue being abused by her. She has zero respect for you because you cannot stand up f…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:18 AM
1

Look, she is a plate, right, you know she is not GF material. When you start going out for social events in your circle with her, she would get the idea that maybe there is more to it than just sex. Men do not introduce plates to their social circles, gfs, yes. There is a chance that she will catch feelings. The other point is that you would dump this chick for sure, knowing very feel that she is not suitable for an LTR. If and when you do this, depending on how crazy the chick is, she may damag…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:12 AM
3

Don't do it.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:00 AM
7

Gut feelings are usually right. She is not your unicorn. She is capable of cheating. She is definitely testing the waters with other men. She may not have cheated on you now, but she is exploring the possibility of being with men other than you. If and when she gets a man of a higher value than you, she will dump your sorry ass.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 04:12 AM
1

Brother, that chick was not with you when you had a heart infection, think about it. She bolted when lost your job. That's the time you needed her the most. She was fucking somebody else soon after. You can not trust her when things go south in your life. You were with her for 9 years. The longing is normal. Focus on more important things first. Have you found another job? Do you have good male friends. Start socializing? Start exercising. Go out of your house in the evenings. That would help. S…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:33 AM
1

Complete silence is not butthurt. If and when she initiates again and trust me she will (within a couple of weeks) you reply normally. Your silence will send her hamster racing - 'Is he hurt?, 'Is he angry?', 'Did he actually read the message?', 'Why is he not replying?', 'Is another girl in the picture?' , 'Is she hotter than me?' She is very likely to contact you to get her answers. And then you reply in an absolute non-nonchalant way - and build attraction again.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 10:17 AM
0

I would go for complete silence.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 06:36 AM
1

You should not discuss about your ex with your current girl.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:36 AM
1

Nothing
/r/askTRP25/04/16 07:19 AM
1

I think you responded perfectly. You agreed and amplified and its fun to read. You definitely did not get rejected because of that.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 01:36 AM
1

We all live and learn, brother. I had multiple fuck ups with multiple women before I learned. Tell me about your case and I will see if we can identify where you ducked up.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 01:33 AM
1

How old is she? Men don't need to prove their commitment, women do. The woman's pussy thinks, why is he yearning to commit himself? And that too to someone as shitty as me? Must be because he does not have options. No options equals upset upset death. Pussy dries up and the woman loses interest and she does not even consciously know why. She just says she has lost the feelings and she is unable to explain it. Men are to women what jobs are to men. If Google kept on offering jobs to people and it…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 01:26 AM
1

Its been a humbling experience for all of us, brother. Women are attracted to men who have a purpose in life. Their pussy wants them to be a small part of your life, that's when the pussy is happy. Rationally, however she would want to be your entire life, she would want to cut you off from you friends and family so that she can spend more time with her new alpha, that is you. But is she manages to separate you from your friends and family, suddenly she will not find you alpha. Because, her puss…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 07:28 PM
1

Are you an Indian living in India? Or you are in some other country?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 03:00 PM
6

Alright, brother, time for some wisdom. Look, the kind of relationship,you want can only come with a woman who has been in zero or one relationship. Once a woman has experienced multiple dicks, once she has been in multiple relationships, she is experienced enough to manipulate men. You can mold a woman, who has does not have too much of experience with men. You can be her alpha. But, even with these chicks, you have to be on your game all the time. I have actually experienced that, the more I f…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 01:52 PM
2

Dump her, man. What are you waiting for?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 01:15 PM
1

I am an Indian, 33 years of age. Ask me what you want to.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:30 PM
8

You will stop loving them when you get your heart torn again and again. It's not something you will learn from people telling you. It's something that you will have to experience. When, you hear a woman saying that she can't live without you, and a week later you see her becoming distant, when you try to figure out and fix what's wrong, when you learn that she is acting the way she is because she already sucking some other guy's dick, that's when you learn the true nature of women. You learn tha…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:28 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about, mate? If you want us to help you out, be clear in the way you express yourself.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:22 PM
2

Ask her out, do kino, kiss her on first date and take it from there.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:00 PM
20

You are possessive because you think you cannot attract girls equal to or better than her. Think about it. What should you do to ensure that you are able to attract equal or better quality girls? Think about it. And do that. All answers are right here on this sub.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 11:35 AM
1

I am banging someone I don't find attractive. And yes, it has helped me in getting over my oneitis, majorly. You need to fuck a woman to get out of the rut. And no, not hookers. Once you bang a 4 or a 5, then you will get some confidence to run game on 6s and 7s. It does sound stupid, but I can vouch for the fact that it will help you, given that your mind is obsessing over a woman you broke up with 3 years ago. You do need to fuck a woman, even if you are not attracted to you. This will help yo…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 09:34 AM
1

I would have said, 'Good luck.'
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:08 AM
1

Very good analogy. I am very well aware of what game is and employ it my routine life. However, the analogy that you have given would be very easy for a newbie to understand. You have expressed well. Good job!
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 10:32 AM
1

Not replying and 'good luck' are both good options. If you don't want to text anything it's perfectly acceptable
/r/askTRP21/04/16 02:30 AM
1

'Good luck'. That's what u text her. Its dismissive. It shows that whatever she said does not affect u. It also shows that you are not butt hurt and have no problems in moving on.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:14 PM
2

She met another guy there. That's why she ditched you.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:11 PM
2

Drop her
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:20 AM
1

The game is not lost yet. Abdada and uceman have both given good responses. You were cocky so while she sounded upset this is recoverable. It would have been difficult had you gone beta.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:31 PM
3

You initiate, but you give her attention in short bursts. You give her attention for sometime then you withdraw it for a longer time, then give her attention for a short time again. What it does is that, it tells her while you want her, you are not pining for her, you are not some beta fantasising about her day in and day out. It shows that while you do like her, you have not stopped living your life for her. This can pique her curiosity and attraction.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:27 PM
11

She still has feelings for him. If he acts indifferent, she will fuck him to get his validation.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:14 AM
1

Its only been a month for you here. With time you will open up more, it's a natural process. If I were you, I would not worry too much about it.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:31 AM
3

I also disagree with texting for logistics only advice. Texting can be used to create attraction. I have done it, many times.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 02:43 AM
8

You do not respect yourself. That's what your actions tell her. No wonder, she treats you like shit.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 03:50 PM
2

Dude, intellectual conversations are a turn off for women. So not have them. Tease them, neg them, sext with them but don't have intellectual conversations with women. It is stupid if your goal is to fuck her. I don't believe in texting for logistics only. I believe that you can attract women over text but not in the manner you are doing.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 07:00 AM
1

Yes, absolutely. You can be cheated on even if you are an alpha.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:09 AM
1

Take her out and kino, kino, kino!
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:11 PM
6

You have a pretty good physique. You are being silly, to be honest.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:10 PM
1

No, you don't have to be honest about it. Why did you tell the women in your workplace that you had invited the female to spend the night in a hotel? You don't want to be seen as the office clown. If they ask you how the date went, tell them it went well. Yes, you will have to lie. Why? Because, if the women in your office get to know that the chick flaked on you, they will designate you as an omega. They will also make fun of you relentlessly. Women are extremely cruel with omegas. So, don't te…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:08 PM
1

Man, you really fucked up. You did well with sexting. But telling her about booking a hotel room raised her anti slut defense. Saying that you were nervous shows that you are inexperienced. When she said no to the hotel room proposal you should have said 'ok' and moved on. Instead you kept on pushing it, showing your neediness. You dont have to tell anything to your female coworkers about the date. Why do you need to announce to people in your office that you are going on a date? You are 31 not …
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:31 PM
1

No, ask on Asktrp. People do answer all sorts of personal questions related to TRP in that forum.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:56 PM
1

If she disrespects you, she loses you. Simple.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:55 PM
1

Why don't you ask your questions here? There are some pretty good posters here Archwinger, IllimatableMan and others. You would get answers to most of your questions here.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:53 PM
7

Avoid speaking with her. She could ruin your reputation in your organization.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:52 PM
1

No, you are doing it exactly right. Women want t fight for their man's attention.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:00 AM
2

Look, your acquaintances want to fuck those women, and you take all the attention from women. When you have fun, try including these so called acquaintances in your banter as well.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:18 AM
5

You are doing it perfectly.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:52 AM
2

Your plan sounds good to me. Don't initiate. When she initiates, be a little distant. Then after a couple of weeks ask her out again.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:51 AM
0

Sometimes people need tough love to set themselves right.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 03:43 AM
2

Escalate. Start with holding her hand, start caressing her hand and move on from there.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:56 AM
1

Are you a fucking girl? Why are you discussing other men with her? Do not shoot yourself in the foot.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:54 AM
1

Brother, I am one ugly guy. But I have very charismatic. I am tall but skinny. But I carry myself very confidently. And I have a few girls eating out of my hands. PM me your pics. Let me see if you really are ugly or it's all in your mind.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:50 AM
2

Radio silence. And she will come back to you,despite the fact that she has men after her. Why? Because it's a kick to their egoes to see men not running after them. At the same time, its also highly addictive. You can bet your money she will come back to you if you give her radio silence. Do it.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:49 AM
2

I will tell you what brother, I have been after women, put them on a pedestal and got nothing out of it. And I have treated women like the replaceable commodities they are and a couple of them have been obsessed with me. And I am not even good looking. All these women I have made out with out-rightly lie about never having had sex before. But in the bedroom, I can tell you they are more experienced than me. Women are meant to be trated like they are replaceable. That's the only waty they would b…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:45 AM
1

Why don't you spend your time with men? Do these women also talk about the men they lust after with you? Even, if you have platonic, ugly female friends, I would suggest that you game them. You get some free targets to run your game on.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:40 AM
-2

what were you fucking thinking? Why would you want to tell a woman that you were depressed? How many times have you read in this forum about women losing attraction for men when the former reveal their weaknesses? Now that you have done it, if she asks you about it, just tell her that you are fine and that she need not worry about it.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:37 AM
2

Whats a thin sexy body? The only sexy male physiques are either lean but muscular or buff.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:34 AM
1

If I were you, I would not have gone. Plates should associate you with sex. Also, you entered her frame when you agreed to her terms and conditions. Had you nit gone and not initiated contact for the next few days, she would have called you for sex. Having said that what you have done is by no means un-salvageable. Just do not repeat it the next time.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:32 AM
1

Sure its flattering to your ego initially. But I have had a couple of girls call me up at 5 in the morning because they were 'thinking about me'. It becomes extremely irritating very soon. And then the stupid questions start: 'what is it that you like/ don't like about me? Tell me I will change myself for you/I came here especially to met you' and such shit. It does not appear even slightly flattering then. Your chick is insecure. A girl who starts sending a bunch of texts one after the other wi…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 10:45 PM
1

I just say "yes, you do". Makes them conscious. They then try hard to win your approval. And I am serious.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:06 PM
1

Your friend will stay mindfucked for the next few months. He will beg, plead, go no contact - try every trick he knows to get her back. But she will not come back. He will go through the anger phase, say 'fuck that bitch' and snap out of it. If he has not been cheated on by other women before, this is a cycle he must go through to understand what you are saying. Many of us have been there, done that.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:00 PM
1

Are you a fucking cuckold? Why did you encourage her to duck other guys?
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:55 PM
1

This girl is clingy as fuck. I have one such girl in my life now and it is very annoying. I do not know if she is crazy but I would not want to be with a girl as clingy as her. You would get bored of her very soon.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:50 PM
10

You will get fucked if you continue with this behaviour.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:33 PM
10

You will get fucked if you continue with this behaviour.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 04:32 PM
3

I have been both sides of the fence. I have pursued women who were once attracted to me and who moved onto someone else and I have also had women chasing me. I did not realize how off-putting it is to have men chasing them whom they now have they interest in(It is immaterial if they were in a relationship with your or attracted to you in the past) I realize that now, when I have a couple of women relentlessly chasing me. I didn't have any attraction towards either of them from the beginning, but…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 03:43 PM
2

No
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:42 PM
2

No, you should not. At best, she will stay in the relationship but respect you less. At worst, she will lose tingles for you and start looking for a manlier man. It's just the way it is.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:28 PM
1

She is a slut. Sorry to break that to you.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:17 PM
1

Look, playfully teasing her is absolutely fine. Ignoring her shit test is also correct. Girls test you to check your frame. Amplifying what you earlier did is the way to go, Having said that, we do not know what your definition of playful teasing is. Give us a couple of examples so that we can tell you whether you were being rude or just playful.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:15 PM
1

Yup. She cockblocks you but gets all the cocks she wants!
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:11 PM
4

Dude, I am going to be hard on you. She is going to bang Chad, do you get this? She is going to suck his cock dry? Did reading that hurt? Good. I want to hurt you. She will not be your wife. Some other girl will be. Do you get this straight? Drill this into your head, she will not be your wife. Why? Because she is swallowing some other man's cum. She is getting rogered by another man. She is living her life. She does not give a fuck about you. You get it? She does NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU. And …
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:34 PM
1

You lasted only 10 seconds, but she is still crazy for you? That's surprising. BTW, when I boned for the first time, I did not last for more than 30 seconds either.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 11:54 AM
1

You want a girl's hamster to go in overdrive. You are doing it successfully. Never give a direct answer to questions about what is going on in your head. The moment the mystery is over things will start going downhill. Remember this was the very chick you went full beta with. I am a little surprised, how did you click her good considering that you were a virgin before? How long did you last?
/r/askTRP09/04/16 09:19 AM
1

Dominance and indifference
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:13 PM
1

Buy an inclined bench and some weights. Log into bodybuilding.com and see workout plans. Start working out at home.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 10:52 AM
2

A very similar thing happened with me last October. Dated an elder co-worker for a couple of months. Switched jobs and moved to a new city 3 hours away. Within a month's I could feel her getting distant. Eventually found out that she had moved to another man. It was devastating for my ego. Was in depression for 3 months. It was not that we were not seeing one another, it was that she had dumped me for another man that had really hurt my pride. Eventually I got super busy with work and now I don'…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 12:24 AM
1

She is drawing you into her frame. She wants you to entertain her with your texts. Solution: You don't. She will either reinitiate contact or she won't. If she doesn't you know she wasn't into you and continuing texting would not have changes the outcome. If she does, she would most likely be doing it for validation. In that case, keep your replies short and push for the meet once more. If she keeps bullshitting, bail out.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:41 AM
2

Then whats the problem? She has broken up with you but she is not seeing anyone? She will be back then or she will find someone else. Girls hate staying single. Stay alpha with her. Act as if you do not need her. She will come back, unless she finds someone better, which of course, you cannot control.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 01:28 AM
1

Like how? What do I tell her.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:05 PM
3

It will happen with time. Time is the best healer. We all want what we cant have. Did she move on to someone else?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 10:13 AM
1

Great points. I have 3 other girls on rotation. All of them are extremely needy. So much that its a turn off. I enjoy conversing with her. I am extremely sharp and witty. I love bantering with women. Most women are not able to banter with me. They become extremely attached after I spend some time with them. They do not stimulate me intellectually. This one does. She is able to banter with me. I don't know if I can fuck her but she and her bf frequently get into major fights. To be honest, I don'…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:07 AM
2

I think so too. I have 3 other plates. But they are all obsessed with me. There is no challenge. With this female, she is the one who dumped me after i moved to another city and got back with her ex. She has not been very enthusiastic to my meetup suggestion on 20th. I would say, a no looks more likely. Anyway, I would ask her and get this out of my system.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:32 AM
1

What did you change and how?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:04 PM
2

Awesome post, delves deep into female psychology.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:25 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:06 AM
2

The problem is that there are men who take care of their appearance, who work out. If your gf gets in touch with them and these men show interest in her, she will want to branch swing. Just because she loves you now is no guarantee that she will keep loving you.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:06 AM
3

He wants to know, how? Your advice is too vague.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:31 AM
1

read Heartiste especially the articles written till 2013. 16 commandments of Poon should be your first article.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:50 AM
1

Now, this makes sense.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:49 AM
1

Yes, but how does that help him? Isn't your advice, vague?
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:40 AM
5

What a brilliant advice! If he knew what he should do he would not have asked in the first place.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:52 AM
1

what is the length and girth?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 02:03 PM
1

whats is the size of your dick?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:14 PM
1

Hi billy,from your post history I see that this is the second woman that you have lost on the last few months.now understand, women come and go. Abundance mentality is not possible until you have multiple women in hand. That's why women almost always win.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:14 PM
1

Look I don't think you made too many mistakes. There are people who have been much bigger betas. Look I think she found someone. And its not necessarily because you acted weak. Every girl has multiple men that she can have at the snap of a finger. You may not have acted super alpha but I dont think you were too beta either.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:03 PM
1

I myself have fucked up recently. Went on a few dates with a colleague made out with her. The all of a sudden she went cold and distant. I started initiating more and more and made myself full beta. Heard she wnet cold because she was dating some other guy.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 12:45 PM
3

The best option would be to disappear for some time.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:28 AM
33

Dude, as a man you don't ask her of she misses you as a friend or lover. That's stupid.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:44 AM
1

See Me: So tuesday night at 7 at mines There you wait for her to reply. If she does not reply, you stop.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:26 PM
3

He has not been burnt by women yet. He will understand TRP only when he goes through that phase.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:32 AM
1

Many extroverts fake confidence. I do. And I was an introvert to begin with. Fake it, man. Have small talk with people. It really does build confidence.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:19 AM
2

How old are you? How big is your social circle? Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Let us know the answer to these questions and then we will discuss.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:16 PM
2

You don't fuck her. Don't stab your friend in the back.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 04:16 PM
1

She feels nobody loves her. Even completely sane people get completely mind-fucked after breakups. She is in that phase. Reassuring her that he loves her is not such a big deal. If she was a shitty mother to her before the divorce then he has a point. If she was not, then he needs to be there for her. That is what family is about.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:18 AM
1

She is your mother and she is stressed. She is looking towards you for support. She is going through a lot of emotions.Support her, man. If you were divorced from your wife, would you not seek support from your close ones? Hear her out man. What is the big deal. Supporting your loved ones in tough times is not against the red pill.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 06:45 AM
1

tattoo on ass....that's hilarious.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:26 PM
3

the important thing to note when you go contact is to fill your schedule with activities. If you don't you would spend your entire no contact thinking about her. I have just been dumped by a woman and I am going no contact as well.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:24 PM
1

Dude, you are an Indian. I don't think you would be able to refuse your parents. Let them live with you, but be assertive about your needs. A duplex would be a good idea.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:25 PM
1

Just joined gym after reading your post. Hopefully I will be there six months from now.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:56 AM
3

Motivation is like a woman. It comes and goes. Discipline is solid and grounded.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:53 AM
2

I contacted her 25 days after last meeting her.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:32 AM
2

makes sense. That's my plan too. I have a bench and weights at home and I exercise off and on. Problem is I stay alone in a new city. I am single and all my coworkers are married. I don't have any social circle here. I think I will join a gym and workout. At least, that way I would get to interact with a few people.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:39 AM
-1

I will not contact her anymore. But how do I gain some respect in her eyes? I respected like an absolute wimp and I had started the relationship as super alpha. I just want my respect back.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:09 AM
1

I am 32 and I live alone. I always prefer to stay near the workplace. Commuting 4 hours every day does not make sense. You can share your flat with someone. That way you would save money. You would also avoid the long commute. Be careful who you choose as your flatmate however. Which city are you in?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:07 AM
2

How did you lose your friends? Tell us what happened?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:47 AM
1

Escalate Do kino. The longer you wait the more the chance of you getting friendzoned.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:48 AM
1

PM me and we will work on your style.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:42 AM
1

This advice would work with a girl she has already gone out with. In fact, this is the best advice in such cases. However, she has not met this online chic. He should reply and set up a date. If he replies a week later he would not even hear from her. She has not met this guy personally so striking him off the prospect list would not be a big deal for him.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:38 AM
1

That was hard man. Are you separated? How are you coping now?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:22 AM
1

See, the texts did not build any attraction. Calling her would have been better. But again, that's hindsight.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:13 AM
1

Good job. The best way to get attention from someone is to stop giving them attention.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:29 AM
1

Whats the update on this?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:34 AM
1

What do you do for a living? And which country are you in?
/r/askTRP03/01/16 11:05 AM
1

I heard about this too. Can you elaborate on this?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:41 PM
1

How did you get closure? Being ghosted is a bigger problem than being cheated. I just keep on wondering, what the fuck happened?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:40 PM
1

Thanks for the detailed reply, man. You have really taken out some time to answer this. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:39 PM
1

I am not in college. I am 32 and working. The female is 36. I understand that out of sight is out of mind. Read that this happens very frequently. Yet my ego is stuck.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 03:34 PM
1

Ghosted means when somebody completely disappears from your lifwe without any explanation. Which country are you from? And how did you go "super Beta Bill"? Have you been in new relationships since then?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 01:22 PM
1

You are right. But this self improvement process is so fucking slow. I don't want her. but I have this need for closure. Thats what fucks me in the head.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:55 AM
1

I know. Whats the solution?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:59 AM
2

I know that. Hardly any female is interested in me. How the fuck do I practice abundance?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:43 AM
2

She is shit testing. You did well.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 09:59 AM
1

I did pretty much the same thing. Planned for up to 3 weeks in advance. Are you sure no other guy is in picture?
/r/askTRP31/12/15 08:27 AM
1

You are right to have gone radio silent. I was in LDR of 3 months. Started as super alpha and then went full beta. I am also in no contact. Avoid initiating any contact for a month. But exactly, what beta things did you do? If it was super beta then you would have to wait for her to initiate contact. If it was something minor, contact her after a month. And on how many dates have you been with her?
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:52 AM
1

I too like you have just been coming out of a break up. My gf dumped my ass without an explanation. I felt pathetic. Could not sleep at night lost weight. Talked to friends and family. Nothing helped. Then, I lifted one day. And felt fucking good. Did not lift the next few days, started feeling like shit. Lifted yesterday, felt good. I find a pattern, when I lift, her memories are in the background. When I don't I find the memories haunt me. Maybe, you should start lifting too.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:53 AM
1

You were too available.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:11 PM
1

His fiancee was the loser, not you.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:59 PM
1

A lot of us read this shit but never apply it. Results follow only when we start applying it.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:58 PM
1

How is that linked to TRP?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:57 PM
2

Tough lesson, man. Good to know you are happy now.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:55 PM
1

This is something that I have read very often. Rarely, if ever, do things get better with the ex.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:52 PM
1

You write like a man.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:27 AM
1

Chinese girls are westernized too?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:26 AM
1

I hope you are not a 'nice' person anymore.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:26 AM
1

What lie? Cheating?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:25 AM
1

Whats a pseudo virgin? I heard of virgins before.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:11 AM
1

ha ha
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:29 AM
3

Fuck, that had to hurt.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:29 AM
3

Yeah, this is one thing that befuddles us men the most. Their feelings are transient, they may say that they love you and the next day they may not feel a thing for you.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:28 AM
2

She is fucking other men
/r/askMRP21/12/15 05:47 PM
2

No article brother. You read all these examples and you see that TRP is almost like science. In almost all cases, the guy acts beta and the female cheats on him.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:37 PM
4

Ha ha
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:35 PM
2

good job man. What do you think has brought you success with Tinder gals? IDGAF attitude?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:34 PM
1

How is your marriage now?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:33 PM
4

Nice turn around man. 30 orbiters! It was only a matter of time.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:33 PM
2

So, is the wolf now slaying poon?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:36 PM
3

Hmm.....seriously man women can be so ruthless!
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:34 PM
1

So, after applying TRP did your marriage improve?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:32 PM
2

'Mothers?'
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:31 PM
1

Did you act too beta in the relationship?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:50 PM
6

Fuck , that was hard to read. Women cannot even make good friends!
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:49 PM
4

How are you doing now? What principles do you now apply in your relationships with women?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:48 PM
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Did your marriage change for the better? Specifically what parts of TRP did you apply to your marriage?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:47 PM
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Yup custody battles are the real eye openers. You see how women just do not want to get away from their husbands They want to destroy the person completely. Do you lift? If you do has it changed your outlook?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:46 PM
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Yeah, that's pretty much the standard story for most of us here. Do you ever feel the need to show the improved you to the said girl, or have you become completely indifferent towards her?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:44 PM
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How has your life changed after TRP? Are you married now? How on earth does one maintain mystery with one's wife when she is there 24/7? How old were you when you found the red pill?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:43 PM
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I think, you would still make mistakes with women, despite having the RP lens. But you would be able to analyze where you went wrong much fast than someone who does not have RP knowledge. And you would see how RP concepts are very close to science.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:06 PM
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That had to ht hard man. How did that affect your relationship with women?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:02 PM
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Wow, that's a new one. I hope you all accusations went unfounded.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 11:26 AM
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Yes, in retrospect you are right. I wanted to polarize and kill all my hopes. Hope is the biggest enemy of the beta and I acted like a fucking chump. I am not going to text her or call her again. Not on 9th, not on any other date. Yes, I acted like a total loser. I admit that. But, never again.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 04:12 PM
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Yes brother, I got my ego back. From my post above, I am pretty sure you would have got the impression that I am a whimpering Omega. I am not. I actually carry myself pretty well. I am seen as someone who is a no nonsense person. Also, brother, I will not confirm the date with her. I asked her because I wanted to polarize. I wanted to gauge her interest level. Her agreeing to the date was just a polite way of saying no. She might not even reply to my text. And I do not want to bruise my ego agai…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 03:49 PM
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This made sense...a lot of sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:50 PM
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How do I work on abundance mentality when I do not have abundance in reality?
/r/askTRP19/12/15 01:29 PM
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How do I work on abundance mentality when I do not have abundance in reality?
/r/askTRP19/12/15 01:28 PM
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Update on this: Day before yesterday, I went to my previous office where she works. I met all my colleagues and also her. I expected her to act disgusted. But she was acting normally. My ex-colleagues and ex-boss all were very happy to see me. She saw all of that. I acted cheerful and happy. She saw that people were giving me attention. I stayed there for 2 hours. Against all of your advice, I asked her if we could go out and have coffee on 2nd of January (First and third Saturdays are off for m…
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:17 AM
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I have some game but I do fuck up after 3 to 4 dates. Reason being I have never had more than one prospect at the same time. My body does a zero job of attracting women. I have seen better looking people with lesser game than me be more successful. I have a good personality outside of my physique but its not at a level where it could overcome my skinniness, if that's a word.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 02:04 PM
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The entire reddit is about anonymous people exchanging ideas. But its okay if you don't require that. Protein shakes with milk help. 750 ml to one litre of milk a day. 4-6 eggs and or/ meat plus regular meals. And this site: a former skinny guy tells his story about how he got buff http://regevelya.com/building-muscle-for-skinny-guys/
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:53 AM
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I have a friend who is 5' 11' and weighed 65. He went up from 65 to 75 in a year. The difference is huge. He had a break up and stopped lifting. He went down to 68 and started looking like shit. Now, he is back to 75. I am looking to go up to 75 as well. I was 70 till a couple of months back. I have a bench and weights at home. Type for some gains. Why don't we have a dedicated thread where skinny guys like ourselves set monthly targets and exchange notes with one another? Some food for thought.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:45 AM
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Wow, you and I are on the same boat. I am 6 feet too and 66 kgs. Which country are your from and how old are you? Also whats your workout regime?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:25 AM
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170 at 5'11 is not skinny in my opinion. How big are your chest and biceps? Yeah, I am angry at myself too for being so inconsistent with lifting. I hope this anger channels us into something productive.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:12 AM
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I do not have alcohol at all. Yup got a bench and weights at home. Planning to workout regularly. Trouble with home workouts is that I do not feel very confident about dead-lifting without having someone experienced around. My game is okay, not too bad, I always start out strong and then somewhere I fuck up. Lack of abundance, maybe. The few chicks who have been attracted to me have been attracted because of the way I carry myself. My looks have had zero contribution, I am pretty average looking…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:08 AM
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How much time did it take for the physical transformation? What was your workout regime?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:03 AM
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Thanks, man some of us are self motivated, some others need a bit of reinforcing thoughts from others. If I am not mistaken, I read one of your posts that said you were in monk mode for 6 months. Could you elaborate on that a bit? What exactly did you do and how did your life change after that? Also, how easy or difficult is it to get back to a normal social life after coming out of the monk mode?
/r/askTRP18/12/15 03:03 AM
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Good point, man. Actually, I do incorporate cheekiness at times. Maybe a little more of it is required to get her hooked.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 01:46 AM
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Thanks asshole
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:58 PM
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Thanks, this is the kind of analysis I wanted. I did have a vague idea that I use too many exclamation marks. Humor can not be properly conveyed through texts without smileys. Whats the way around this?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:51 PM
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I get that. But its the first time we had spoken in years.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:31 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. Blocked the numbers. That was pretty lame of me.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:30 PM
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You guys are right. I acted like a complete doofus. Trouble is I have never had multiple women at the same time. I know about abundance mentality and stuff but how do you demonstrate abundance mentality when your reality is scarce? I know the theory, but struggle in real life to apply it. The thing is I do not act beta around women in general, although, given what I have written in my previous posts, you would be hard pressed to believe it. Any average looking guys here who have had multiple pla…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 12:08 PM
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Why, how can this possible go wrong?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:15 AM
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Thanks for the detailed reply man. Thanks for highlighting where I went wrong. But if I go her office (My previous office) and speak with others and ignore her, what possibly can go wrong? Can you enlighten me on that?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:15 AM
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Thanks for the advise, but how the fuck do I get my self respect back. I sabotaged my self respect man. I dont want to get her back but I want her to actively ignore her. How the fuck do I do that?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:12 AM
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No, don't buy her present.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:49 AM
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This. You have your reply right here.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:47 AM
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Physical activity helps a great deal in getting rid of anxiety. Do you play tennis, badminton or table tennis, Soccer, Hockey or Cricket? If not, try playing one of these sports everyday. You will meet people, interact and compete with them and also get exercise. Physical activity releases endorphins in your body, which are known to cause happiness. Or else, lift. Let me know if you want details.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:45 AM
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You are overthinking it.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 09:05 AM
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start with 'The 16 commandments of poon' on Heartiste. I don't know about Tom Leykis, never heard of him.. But Heartiste opened my eyes to a world that I never knew. Going out everyday is way better.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:31 PM
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Paragraphs, man. You think people are going to read this wall of text to advise a solution to YOUR problems?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:21 PM
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Don't do this. The guy will tell everyone and people will start avoidong you like the plague. As another poster said, everyone has a weakness. Look at the weaknesses of those guys and make a joke at their expense. Start with the weakest guy. Once you do that and others laught with you, you will be on your way.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:19 PM
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A friend of mine was a virgin till 28. He had severe oneitis with a girl. His first and only relationship lasted only 3 months. Now he is 30 and is swimming in pussy. How? He read Chateau Heartiste inside out and applied it in real life. Do that. If you need more specifics, ask me.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 03:15 PM
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Why are you going out with her if you find her unappealing?
/r/askTRP28/11/15 04:55 PM
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Brother, it is a phase. It has happened with all of us. We feel like it is almost impossible to live without her. Some of us get depressed. Some for a week, some for a month, some for 6 months. Eventually when we realize that she is not coming back or when we see that there is a distinct possibility of us getting another equally good or better girl, we forget the girl we were pining for. All of us wanted a partner whom we could confide in. Many of use here realize that it is not an easy proposit…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:24 AM
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It has happened with every one of us here. Every single one. You treat her with respect even when she does not respect you. That is because you do not have options. You feel like you would not get another woman if she were to go. You relationship with this girl will be dead pretty soon - whether you like it or not. When a woman does not respect a man, she does not love her either. Once you start seeing that getting other women is a possibility for you, you would not be so hung up on this girl. Y…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:20 AM
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You need to provide the context for us to give you any advice.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:14 AM
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She wants your validation. You said that you did not want anything serious. That has fired up her hamster. Now she wants your validation. Her statement about still being with her boyfriend reeks of butt-hurt. If she was so serious about her boy friend she would not have gone on dates with you. You are doing nothing to be her orbiter. Ask her out once and bang her.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:13 AM
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They do not value you enough. Or you are not fun enough for them. Coworkers not inviting is not unheard of. But 'good friends'? Nah. They may be friendly with you but you are not a part of their inner circle. Do not complain to them about not being invited. Try to be a part of a group where you are one of the core members.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 05:49 PM
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Do you think too much? Do you have the habit of over analyzing? Are you someone who doesn't say anything unless you have something 'significant' to contribute? Sometimes the best way is to just let go. In informal settings, just say what comes to your mind. I used to be like you too. Didn't have anything to say in a new group. I saw that doing so made me absolutely insignificant. Now, I make an effort to talk with everyone in a group. Over a period of time, people start considering me as a part …
/r/askTRP25/11/15 05:34 PM
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Alpha, all the way
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:21 PM
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Do not be arrogant. Be cocky and funny. Be supremely confident (or act like you are) in front of women but do not put them down unnecessarily. That does not mean you can not neg them playfully. You can and you should. But outright insults are a no-no.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:49 AM
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She wants you. Watch what she does not what she says. She would not have asked you to go back to her apartment otherwise.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:46 AM
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You know, a girl may be heads over heels in love with you. But when she gets interest from a guy who is superior to you, she may lose interest in you very quickly. And no, you do not necessarily need to act beta for her to lose interest in you. Your behavior may be alpha and she may still lose interest in you if she finds someone superior. And it can happen in a matter of days, not even weeks. It has happened with me. I was flummoxed then. How could a girl who was so head over heels into me lose…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:53 AM
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Slower than snail, baby.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:53 PM
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This is true. You may be an alpha to a girl. Yet, when a bigger alpha comes along, she would not give two hoots about leaving you. Happened with me.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:52 PM
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Yes, this happens more often than you think it does. A guy is happy in his life, doing stuff he likes to do, without caring too much about the opposite sex. This catches the attention of females and they want to be with him. The guy now wants to be with the female most of the time. He starts giving less time to his hobbies, his friends etc. He want to be around the chick most of the time. The chick finds this unattractive, starts pulling back. The guy chases her. She becomes even more disgusted.…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 03:49 PM
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I see that you are from India. I am from India too and a good decade older than you.feel free to send me a message if you need further inputs.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:59 PM
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Self deprecating jokes with men are fine. But they are not ok with women you want to attract. If you act the way you do, she will not hook up with you, unless you are very good looking; take this from me. You have got to start teasing her at least. Make fun of stupid shit she says. Also, practice cocky funny with her. Cocky funny is not being a clown. You would not lose respect. You think you have earned respect but the fact is that you bore her. If humor is not your cup of tea at all, then take…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:48 PM
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Cocky funny is very very effective, if done right. Yes, I would recommend it. It works and it works very well. It has worked like a charm for me. But I am very quick witted. And I have a very good sense of humour. That being said, don't crack jokes all the time. Humour should be interspersed with normal conversation. 10 years ago, in my 20s I was perceived to be a serious intellectual guy and got a grand total of 0 women. So, its your call.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:26 PM
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Do not go. She is doing it for herself, not for you. If you go and you look hassled, she will get a great ego boost. Her vagina will dry up even more. She will assuage herself of any guilt feelings whatsoever. At best, she will say that she hopes you guys can at least stay friends. If you accept it, you will lose further respect in her eyes and she would hardly have any incentive to contact you any further. If you don't go, you let her hamster spin. She will wonder what is up with you. How come …
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:13 PM
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Dude, being intellectually inclined in matters of philosophy, art and literature do not get you laid. I was that guy and I never got laid. Its only when I started treating women like the little children they are, did I start getting women interested in me. But, if you are really good looking, you would get women, whether you have an intellectual bent of mind or not. If you are not, you would need to maximize your looks in terms of the way you dress, your physique etc. Being playful with women wo…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:01 PM
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you do not show negative emotions to her. You do not show fear or indecisiveness to her. You do not show if something is bothering you. To sum up, you do not show weak emotions. But you do tease her. You stay playful, pull her leg, neg her. You lead conversations. You have playful banter with her. You also end conversations and not let it drag till the point you both have nothing interesting to say. Being emotionally stoic is not easy. Very few men are actually stoic. You may or may not be stoic…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 04:50 PM
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Hit her number after a week or 2. The date was okay, but kino should have happened. I have been on dates with no kino and dates with kino. I have not even got to second dates on the ones without kino. But again, people's experiences differ.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:49 PM
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Good point actually. I sounded upset, right? That's a definite tingle killer. Yeah, got to make her work. If she doesn't, she doesn't want it.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:23 AM
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ok, so I shouldnt contact her again? What if she does? Do i reply or let it be? Also, did I come across as too needy?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 03:05 AM
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I thought so too. I guess, once I sent her flowers, she thought that I was pedastalizing her, while the fact is that, I sent her flowers, because she was insisiting for some time that I send her some. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 05:52 AM
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I have already read up on scarcity and abundance mindsets and also on plate theory. I lift too . But it will take time before my SMV is at the desired level. And its not that I will stop interacting with women, until I reach there. That's why, I want to know where I went wrong. I do not want to come off as needy to any woman that I interact with. Help me out on this one, brothers, let me know the specific fuck ups.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:36 AM
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I need this right now. I need someone to knock me back to my senses and stop me from behaving like a fucking loser. I will wait for the specifics. And also, how would you have responded had you been in my shoes?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:33 AM
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Thanks, I don't mind being ripped apart. Why do you say that she does not even like me? If she did not, why did she kiss me. And, Jeff, I definitely did not behave like a loser when we went out on dates. Its only later that I fucked up. I don't mind you ripping me to shreds. But do let me know where I went wrong. Its not that I dont know, where I went beta, but I need a kick on my ass to bring me to my senses.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:20 AM
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