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Thanks, I've assessed this risk and the are some unique things about my organisation and our respective departments that mean this is of a very limited risk.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:57 PM
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Its a large organisation, the shit will be far enough away
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:56 PM
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Go back to the founders of NLP, Bandler and Grinder. They wrote this book https://www.amazon.co.uk/Reframing-Neuro-Linguistic-Programming-Transformation-published/dp/B00E6T8O3G/ref=sr_1_cc_2?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1464083662&sr=1-2-catcorr&keywords=reframing+grinder Full disclosure, I've got this book but not read it yet. There is so much to learn on NLP that it is a real project to master it.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:57 AM
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You only live once. Don't listen to me though, I'm biased. I also want to take things further with someone at work and I don't like being told not to do things.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:08 AM
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I'm not really sure what you were hoping to achieve and if that is an appropriate way to speak to a housemate who also has a boyfriend who also lives with you. I think you aren't applying the right approaches to the right circumstances and this is clearly not your natural personality (the only way perhaps this would be appropriate - but then you would just continue being you and not knocked out of acting that way).
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:16 AM
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Sounds like a great transformation. Well done for all the hard work.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:54 AM
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I hope you are joking. You aren't going to meet good quality women with that attitude. You have probably been reading for months how women want confident men so you know exactly what you need to do. Exercise, meeting people, working on your career, getting new clothes. These are all things you need to be doing and not wasting time feeling sorry for yourself. Go on a date and it doesn't work out.... that is far better than sitting at home not going on a date. Rejection is better than regret. As y…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:40 AM
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Diet (as in clean foods and low carb/paleo or whatever program you are following - diet causes fat loss Gym - focus on lifting - lifting causes muscles Sleep - get enough Work hard - focus on your career - women love money Dress as well as you can for your salary and body type Meet people - clubs, gyms, music festivals, nightclubs - whatever your niche is - just be mindful of sleep and a healthy diet if regularly visiting nighclubs TV/Internet/Facebook/Twitter/Reddit/Computer Games - Turn it off…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:59 PM
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I think it is normal to have feelings for someone that you invested a lot of time with - and probably had a lot of good times with. However, if you are out there and meeting lots of new women and they are responding well to you then you get over the main issue which is fear that you will never meet anyone, that she was the only one and fear of dying alone.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:55 PM
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My marriage was failing, got 2 kids, saw a counsellor.. nothing was really working and we were looking at going our separate ways. Then I started working out, dressing better, focusing on myself, meditating, acting more confident, feeling more confident, handling conflict in a more confident way (not aggressive - just confident - basically not taking tantrums and female emotion personally) getting busy with friends, taking co-workers for lunch or dinner/drinks on a 1-2-1 basis (my office is lite…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:48 PM
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Which something terrible; 1) she is after your money - false rape accusation 2) she gets pregnant by getting the condom out of the trash 3) her father shoots you Unless you have some reason to suspect the above, I'd keep it up. Well done for your success.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:40 PM
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Getting them to sign a contract or film it is the only real protection. Don't be an idiot and leak the videos on the internet. If you keep it only to avoid prison and don't show your friends, the small penalty for doing that will be minimal compared to the 10-life stretch depending on your country.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:48 AM
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Talk to them and find out. I'm not good at establishing interest either but just assume they are. But don't wait until next week and say "I saw you were staring at me last week" That will kill anything they do feel. It sounds like you really need to read up a bit and get lots more practical experience.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:44 AM
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I agree. In reality, stoicism. You don't care if you can't have it because you know that having it or not makes no difference to you, your life, your character and your happiness. But politically there may be times when you need to appear to hate it. The 48 Laws of Power is telling you how to act, not telling you how to feel inside.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:42 AM
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As someone who has been there, trust me, hookers do not help your self esteem. You will not feel good thinking the only women interested in your are women you pay... and that one special ex. 1) cut of all contact 2) speak to as many women as possible, build your confidence, game and sleep with as many as you can, but don't beat yourself up if you are just starting and it is going to be a little scary/exciting but well worth the adventure.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:38 AM
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The same reason so many "superstars" who have all the money, cars, boats, houses, women, drugs that they could ever possibly want aren't happy. It can get boring. Men are programmed to like a challenge and also like variety. I think if you are getting bored after 1 week you are meeting the wrong people. If you are bored after 6 months that might be more acceptable as there will be few surprises and things become more mundane.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:23 PM
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Work on all aspects of your life, health career, style. While taking every opportunity there is, and seeking opportunities to speak to women. Reading some of this stuff is pretty depressing but having everyone you walk past stare at the woman you are with is definitely not, especially when you start to really be divorced from the outcome of the date because you have several other's lined up or know you can find others (relatively) easily.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:19 PM
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Perhaps I misread this but are you saying you gained 30kg of muscle in 2 months? And you DL 130kg? If so I should probably be asking you for advice. Otherwise I always do my deadlifts last, because they are tiring. Do all your other lifts and pull-ups first. Depending on how you alternate you can also split the routine. When strapped for time I do my deadlifts and squats and the next day do everything else. After benches 24 hours rest is probably enough and you may need 48hrs-72hrs between DL an…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 10:29 AM
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Let me clear this up for you. Please don't get offended. I think colour matters much less, some women will only date white men, end of story. Just like some Indian women only date Indian men. I'm a white man and date almost exclusively Indian and Arabic women. Many of these women date mostly white men. You will find some women in Eastern Europe will see your looks as a massive plus, some won't. I've been to Prague with an Indian woman and she got started at and hit on constantly so I can only as…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 10:20 AM
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You say you are doing all this stuff but you don't mention trying to meet other women. I met an amazing woman last night for a drink, really really lovely person. I could be very happy in an LTR with her. But knowing there are so many other women out there means you really don't need to be too invested or upset about one of them. If a hair falls out, don't worry you've got a billion more. But if your dick fell off you'd worry about it, unless there were 3.7 billion dicks everywhere for the takin…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:55 AM
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You can't stay with someone you don't want to be with because it might upset them. What if you got married and then 10 years down the line you leave because you are richer, more successful and have the confidence to do it then. She will be far worse off in that situation. Basically for her own sake you are better leaving her now.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:38 AM
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You can do better and if you can't you need to work on yourself so you can. Don't settle for this.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 03:11 PM
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The best time to plant a tree is 30 years ago, the second best time is today. I'm 32 and while I'm ahead of a lot of people I'm way behind where I could be. You are starting this journey at 21 and not in your 30's. You will be 30 one day and then you'll be 40, then 50. 1) Get a professional therapist. I can see you are in the UK, how close to London are you? I can recommend someone. Best to PM me about that. 2) Read everything you can 3) Utilise what you can from what you read and practise speak…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:57 PM
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Get the best job you can, work really hard, work your way up Get lifting Speak to 20 women a day at lunch, in the street, hotel lobbies, elevators, clubs. Don't focus 100% on clubs, it will cost you more in both cash, time and the lifestyle will negatively impact your career and cashflow. You will probably need a fake ID to get in the clubs anyway but you can meet people in the restaurants before and afterwards without needing to drink loads. Also, don't start gambling. It's too dangerous a road…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:41 PM
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Perhaps you would be best off doing what you feel most comfortable with. If you think your grey hair is an issue then you will probably be more confident and comfortable if you hide it. What I would say though is do not settle for an LTR while your SMV is low or significantly below its potential. If your SMV increases you will then have a dilemma, stick with your LTR or move on to numerous alternative options now available to you. I made this mistake by getting married at 25. I've since quadrupl…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:05 PM
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What I would say: 1) lethargy is the least of the problems you have 2) are you masturbating a lot? I felt lethargic and angry in my youth when over-doing it - try and cut that out 3) stop wasting time trolling, if someone disagrees with you, you can just move on 4) you've got to find someone to talk to - a friend or paid professional 5) spend time constructively, exercising, weight lifting, watching educational youtube videos, reading useful books, hobbies, public speaking (toastmasters) 6) expe…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:55 PM
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Read the 48 laws of power. Either ignore it or make an appropriate comment based on his age and size. If he is clearly bigger than you I'd avoid being overly aggressive and be funny and throw him out of his frame. But if he is a small little boy I'd ask if if his parents know he is out on a school night, or say to your girl "aren't you lovely, helping this boy with his homework, we have grown up things to talk about now, off you go"
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:39 PM
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I've tried just for men and also left it alone. Now I leave it as it is and own it. I'm 32 but fair bit of grey (2 kids..?) I have a good job, (C-Suite), dress well, tanned, teeth decent (UK decent, not by US standards) and my grey probably makes me look like an older, distinguished, richer English Gentleman. If I had less of the pluses of age and experience then I would consider playing more to youth. From my experience I think women 26-28 won't have any issue with a 33 year old, they might be …
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:28 PM
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Thanks but I only talk aloud to myself when riding the subway.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:10 PM
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If she invited you to hers for a coffee - and you don't like coffee - would you say "but I don't like coffee, can I have a herbal tea" I would respond with either, depending on whether she looks like a nice or nasty girl: a) I'll cuddle you real good or b) Maybe I've been doing it wrong, come round Friday you can show me
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:27 PM
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I think you are the "financial analyst" who has posted before? For plates - the obvious places: Pret / lunch queues Staff at these places too - not great LTR (due to low career aspirations) but can be good plates Other women in the building but not your company (from the lift) Gym Clubs (running/meditation/public speaking) But in my experience the best way to get plates more easily is the internet. Using an app you can connect with 20-50 women a day who are looking to meet up. You just need to g…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:15 PM
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One girl might think you are awkward but another you might really click with. Also, don't use Sarah as a go-between. Try and plate Natalie directly using her direct contact details. Lastly by showing Sarah or Natalie you care this much about their opinions you are seriously giving off some very unmasculine, needy signals. I'm not saying don't care, I would care in your situation but you can't show you care. If you have 5 other women lined up you really will care a lot less. Well done for the pro…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:04 PM
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If you stay with her you will regret it for the rest of your relationship and if you marry or have children with her you will regret it for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 03:08 PM
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Is she attractive? Does this have anything to do with wanting to work there? I've had a few female bosses, I generally much prefer men. The worst were those who had never managed before. One boss I had was so shy she went bright red in any meeting she had to speak at and she didn't appreciate me coming along and not going red myself. Definitely keep a log of each interaction, times and dates. This is one situation when being totally alpha/dominant could be counter-productive. I would just try an…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:46 PM
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I hope its normal. I'm white and I'm pretty much attracted to all races except white. 1) Indian 2) Arabic 3) Spanish/Italian 4) Black 5) Thai 6) Malaysian/Indonesian 7) White 8) Chinese/Japanese
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:36 PM
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Great advice!
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:16 PM
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There are usually 6-8 people in the office. Then some of the shareholders get involved from time to time from their yachts. I hope to double my salary over the next 5 years. Might not happen but that is my plan and comparable with previous long standing C-roles.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:40 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate the appreciation!
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:17 AM
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1) Because I'm still overcoming my beta pussiness 2) Because it creates excitement for her and then I can then kiss her much more full on later - kissing in a restaurant is a bit restrained. I am British at the end of the day...
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:16 AM
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In London thankfully giving women chips is generally a good thing and not rape (yet). Also in London not much driving on dates, mostly public transport based. You can walk her to the tube station/taxi but if you live in different areas IMO you have so much more chance of going home with her if you have kissed her already and not just giving her a goodbye kiss at the station.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:44 PM
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You are right, as I said this is only good for certain situations, such as when you haven't kissed and yet you aren't complete strangers/just met. The slight difference with this is it is tailored to directly gauge her interest in whether she is open to kissing you or not, with limited downside. I like your other ideas. My constraint is that I use this on some women I take for dinner met via work so that makes pool harder (not many firing ranges in the UK).
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:39 PM
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Won't work or too afraid to try it? Please tell me what you have done that does work?
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:30 PM
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What body have you studied with? I did CIMA. Also where are you meeting these people? Girls in their 20's in nightclubs might not think its cool but once they reach their 30's an accountant sounds a whole lot sexier. If you are in some kind of work setting or these are girls you will see again (gym, other hobby groups) then go with Financial Analyst. Otherwise in a nightclub use some poetic license, just say you work for the government and when pressed just say you can't really talk about it. Ho…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:28 PM
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Well I've only just got there so I'm at the bottom rung at £125k, but in USD its about $180k. The day I got the job it was £98.5k, the extra money followed a few months later. Most qualified accountants in London earn at least £50k / $72k by their mid 20's depending on when they started studying.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:20 PM
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I was an accountant, but I called myself a financial analyst. I'm now a CFO on over £100k and women are more drawn to me than ever before and as my confidence grows I notice more women looking at me. I know some really boring accountants, but all know some really cool accountants. My current department has 4 women and one other man. All the women are single and pretty cool. You gave your salary in £ so I'm guessing you are in the UK? I'm in London and 65%+ accountants are women. If you like Indi…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:22 PM
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Get an escort and practise first. I'm not sure that I'm joking, I think I might be giving serious advice. At least you will see its actually not the big deal you think it is.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:17 PM
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Is there a link? I can't see your face.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:38 PM
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Does what you are doing work at attracting women? It seems a bit mechanical. It sounds like you are really trying very hard and as though it isn't natural. Priority number 1 you need to enjoy life and that probably means being yourself. Using movies as an example, Ryan Gosling, Bradley Cooper, Leonardo Dicaprio, Tom Cruise, Daniel Craig, Hugh Grant, Colin Firth, Colin Farrell, Brad Pitt... they all play a lot of alpha roles that women love and yet each of them are different as are the characters…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:26 PM
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I studied as an accountant, now 32 and I'm a CFO on circa $200k. I'm not in to partying but I could every evening and weekend if I wanted to. Most of my friends who live that life are struggling to afford it and already having visible health issues. My life is completely sorted and I'm 100% financially secure. I've got a natural confidence that many of my friends don't have because they don't like someone they got better grades at school than earning 2-3x what they do. I feel like focusing on my…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:48 PM
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Focus on your work Focus on the women Don't threaten violence to anyone at work, especially if they have more contacts or are expensive to fire I would say you need to stand your ground and what you said above is actually quite good. You should try and get other people to overhear him threaten you and record it. Also consider making a formal complaint against him. He might get sacked or you might get an extra pay off when your contract ends.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:33 PM
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Having just got back from Italy (back to London) I can tell you that you are in for a great time. 1) Italian women will chat to you - much harder in London 2) Italian women are much better looking (in general) and better dressed 3) I found Italian women to be generally more confident than English girls and will have no issue playing with you 4) Isolation is the key. Italians talk. Once they know none of their friends are watching they can get incredible sexual.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:12 PM
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It doesn't matter. Just make the best of what face you have got, get to the gym, wear good clothes, be fun, confidence, work hard and earn lots of money etc..
/r/askTRP04/04/16 01:59 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Ralph Lauren and Calvin Klein are both classic brands. I do tend to wear conservative colour trousers with blue or white shirts. I think the quality and the fit can make a big difference, not all white shirts are created equal...
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:54 PM
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Thanks very much. I'm 32. Just checking you recommend leather for the bag, not the jacket... or trousers?? Thanks to weight lifting my legs will never come close to getting in skinny jeans but I will check out GQ and AlphaM to see what might work for me.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 06:11 PM
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The causes of what? What causes masturbation, or what causes the rise in T?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 03:20 PM
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Napoleon Hill wrote the book "Think and Grow Rich" and the "Laws of Success". One entire chapter/law was devoted to the power of sexual transmutation. Written in the 1920's it never explained exactly what that meant, but most people take it to mean don't waste all your energy masturbating, or constantly going after women. Use that drive to improve yourself/finances etc..
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:41 PM
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You don't come close to what I would call a slut. If you want to keep this guy for the long term and he does not read TRP, I would suggest not sleep with him too early. If he is looking for something more casual, he will get what he wants and have less incentive for a serious long term relationship. Most men on TRP want to have sex pretty early in the relationship and not necessarily commit. You need to do the opposite. You need to not sleep with him for as long as possible while he pursues you …
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:15 PM
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I'm in OK shape. I work out twice a week at the moment with the job and kids. Got a mini CrossFit box at the end of my Garden. I read/listen to books constantly, always on personal development, business etc.. I don't masturabate often, it's cyclical but average maybe 2-3x per month. I can also chat to strangers pretty well - when I'm in the mood. I read the Game 12 years ago, met my wife 10 years ago and I never stopped learning and improving although long ago I stopped practising anything speci…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:31 PM
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Thanks, you are right. This is much more constructive than "you're a fucking idiot" This is the long term solution. How long do you think such a transformation could take? 6 month? 2 years? The time is going to pass anyway so I may as well get better every day. I genuinely am interested to know how long you think a radical transformation might take. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 10:48 PM
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Again, such lawsuits just aren't common in the UK and she is not that kind of person anyway. Secondly, even if it turns out she isn't interested whatsoever and I took the conversation a little too far, which I will of course totally try not to do, I just don't see it getting that bad. The office in general does have the occasional inappropriate conversations in the office and at the Christmas party. If all is going well, I carry it on, make it more specific to her. If it gets awkward, I stop, tu…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 04:22 PM
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The trip does need to be made. I could go alone but she now does all the work I am going to discuss so it seems like the right time in her career. I obviously need to play it carefully, start small and escalate but be mindful to stop and go back. If we kissed I could take the rest from there at an appropriate pace once we came back to London. It's more the establishment of interest and whether there is a mutual feeling to pursue or not. A few drinks, fairly lighthearted conversation that I can r…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 04:17 PM
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Thanks for the good luck wishes. Life involves a lot of luck and sometimes we create our own luck, sometimes we totally fuck it up. But big bets can define us, win big or lose it all. I almost don't care but not sure it is right to not try.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:08 PM
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But you can't help who you fall in love with/list after/want to sleep with. I'm just trying to give it one shot. You are probably a smart guy, there must be a better solution than just not trying anything?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:06 PM
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Covert contract? I would prefer a simpler way. There are too many variables to go wrong.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:05 PM
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I like your comment because you give me your advice but respect that I can proceed at my own risk. I'm not some super alpha but I know that only a beta would concede and do what everyone else tells them. I'm fairly successful in life generally and I didn't get there by following conventional wisdom. I've always been somewhat of a maverick, a little unconventional.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:04 PM
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I like your invitation for the drink/coffee. I think that would work in many situations, but it misses a lot. So many people have relationships at work, open or in secret or affairs. I don't think most of them start that way.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:11 PM
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Thanks for the response. Just to make it clear, I'm not pressuring her for sex, just trying to gauge if she saw me sexually or not. I'm talking about meeting her in the bar, not having this conversation on the bed. Things can then progress at their own pace. If she doesn't respond well to my game then I can soon tone it down and go to damage control. Thankfully people in the UK don't sue all the time either. I thought it was a better idea than buying her perfume and telling her I love her, which…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:02 PM
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I agree with your analysis. You have quickly and correctly summed up what I am proposing. Regarding work, if it works out then I'm totally unconcerned about my job. It's a small company and if everyone found out I am sure they will deal with it. I'm pretty important to the company. I'd plead love, what can they do. It's the UK as well where there are no rules against it. I don't think I'd get sacked unless I did something totally stupid, which I have no intention of doing. There is a risk she mi…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:42 PM
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