How to deal with one of my best friends going after a FWB of mine?

Guillz · 2016-02-21T22:31:57+00:00

Stop being a bitch.

Is she your plate? if so, laugh it off, keep yourself a superior alpha and she probably wont fuck him

If shes not interested in you, she can and should do whatever the fuck she wants, and your only word about it should be: NEXT

seeeeba · 2016-02-21T23:46:07+00:00

Bests friends ask you for permission before going after your plate. Fuck the girl shes not important. Try reevaluating what a best friend is and how he should act. Knowing and setting boundaries on who you consider a best freind actually matters, one girl(out of 3.5bill) doesn't mean shit.

stickfiguresk · 2016-02-21T22:30:31+00:00

You can't control the people in your life, only whos allowed to be a part of your life. There isn't a good, easy answer past that.

machimus · 2016-02-22T05:59:14+00:00

It's not disrespectful at all. She's not yours, do you get it? I guess it would have been wise to ask if you've caught feelings at some point, but he doesn't owe you that.

My buddy and I passed girls back and forth a few times, and as long as you are honest and upfront with each other it's fine.

Rasalom72 · 2016-02-22T16:40:37+00:00

She's not yours, it's just your turn.

If she's into him, you could make fun of her TO HER FACE, and say that you noticed she was into him and you could A-Frame her if she wanted.... (this is a trap.. if she even HINTS at a yes, you insta-next her).

ChrisBenRoy · 2016-02-22T21:54:50+00:00

This exact situation happened to me, and I'll tell you how it went down.

Met this chick through mutual friends at a party. Got drunk, fucked her in her car.
Became FWB's for a few months, fucked her probably once or twice a week.
All of a sudden, she's posting pictures of herself on social media being all kissy and cuddly w/ a friend of mine. My young inexperienced beta self realized I may be losing my stream of pussy so I instantly put a stop to it and said I wanted us to be exclusive.
Date for 6 months, starts going south after I get sick for a week and can't see her, once I'm better, everything was different. No more sex, suddenly she's busy a lot, new "friends".
Break up. Guess who comes crawling back and starting hanging w/ her again? She eventually begins to date some trashy dude she works with .

TL:DR Keep fucking if you want, but do not promote her any higher than plate at this point. See what happens, if she entertains your buddy, then there's your answer.

Title	How to deal with one of my best friends going after a FWB of mine?
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Date	February 21, 2016 10:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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