Withholding sex from a girl for a month or so? Good/bad idea?

[deleted] · 2016-02-16T17:37:55+00:00

Seeming just generally not into it can be a power move that makes her desperate to please. Announcing it like that is just stupid.

red-triad · 2016-02-16T17:33:13+00:00

Law 36. DISDAIN THINGS YOU CANNOT HAVE: IGNORING THEM IS THE BEST REVENGE.

Just a fancy form of dread. Starts her hamster spinning 'why doesn't he want to have sex' ' is he fucking someone else' etc.

Edit: I would say this is a bad idea unless you plan on nexting her anyway. More often than not she is going to fuck around if you do not fuck her.

[deleted] · 2016-02-16T18:47:35+00:00

So... you don't like sex?

do it right, and she'll be riding you in a day or two.

TWYW · 2016-02-16T21:14:24+00:00

It depends. The way I see it, if I'm hanging out with a girl for a month and I'm not having sex, I'm wasting my time.

I guess for shorter periods of time and done properly it may work.

OregonBotanicals · 2016-02-16T21:26:06+00:00

I would say it's too long if she's into it. I think one of the best ways would to escalate things to where you are about to get down, then tell her nope and make her work, hard, for it.

Wolfwoodd · 2016-02-17T03:43:32+00:00

I have never found this to be a good idea. I mean, what's the point? If you are good at sex / foreplay (and not a dumbass in other areas), then a girl will fall hard for you. Withholding sex only means less sex for you.

In short, there are better ways to get the same results.

Title	Withholding sex from a girl for a month or so? Good/bad idea?
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Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	February 16, 2016 5:07 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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