I need a reality check on this girl I've been interacting with over the past few months (~3 months?). About half of the time I was pre-RP and now I'm starting to realize the many mistakes I made. When I should have been AWALT & alpha, I went full beta.

HISTORY: To summarize the situation, she was the "I only have sex in serious relationships, blah blah blah" type and that was proven false on date #2. Since then we've been on and off with talking (she's not a plate), dates (not once have I paid her share) - but no sex since then. Last week she gave me the "I can't do a relationship, etc" line at her place and I told her I'm not interested in being friends and left.

PRESENT DAY: A week passes with no communication and I hit her up for lunch tomorrow. She responds in ~15 seconds, agrees to make the trek over to my neck of the woods AND suggests a secondary time when my first suggestion didn't work out. I'm reading these as IOIs, but I'm concerned that's my mind rationalizing the situation and hoping for the best.

PLAN: I've got several other dates lined up this week and next to keep my options open and maintain abundance. My plan is to only proceed with this girl if she comes over to my place and plays by my terms, else it's a soft next. Is this a good course of action?