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When they told me they've lost count of how many guys they've slept with.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:24 PM
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You're your own self fulfilling prophecy. If you don't escalate with girls they're gonna hurt you so they don't feel that you hurt them. And you hurt them by just talking and not making them feel attractive through escalation (of course escalation only when they're receptive).
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:23 PM
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Look at it as if you two have already broken up. You'll always have a harder time with her since you set the expectation that you were BP when you started dating. Start dating other girls and if she reaches back to you plate her. Know that if you ever upgrade her she'll do the same thing to you. And I already see you trying to hamster that you love her but she doesn't love you if she's gonna pull the "2 week no contact" aka fade out. Plus you said you would break up with her if she didn't swallo…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:19 PM
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Don't say anything until you read the sidebar. You're mentality right now is putting woman on a pedestal. Whatever you say to her will either be you putting her on a pedestal or you saying some RP line she will know isn't genuine from you. Either way you lose until you read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:14 PM
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You alpha widowed her and she misses you. She wants to have sex with you again and hopes that a weekend of being with her and the afterglow of sex will be enough for her to convince you to be in a relationship again with her.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:43 PM
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She looks at you as her meal ticket. You're grades aren't good so she's becoming doubtful that you'll actually be able to provide for her. That thought is making her angry at you for not getting good grades and ensuring she'll be supported for. The solution: Ignore her, don't give her anything when she's being bitchy and fade away until she decides to be nicer. And work on your grades, stop comparing yourself to her. Just because she doesn't have good grades doesn't give you an excuse to have ba…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:45 PM
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I'm not complaining, though to me shit testing doesn't really matter because to any RPM they shouldn't be phased by them. What I am saying is RPW has good and their are also things to watch out for (like stopping shit testing fully could reduce OPs attraction level to her man, heck it might even bore him never being shit tested). It seems to me your looking at RPW as something that people must either agree with fully or hate fully. Life is not binary and neither should someone's opinion on thing…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:14 PM
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No, a lot of what they do helps woman what I am referring to is some unintended side affects RPW can bring. I forgot the post but someone in TRP talked about how their wife was a RPW and that it has unintended side affects like them purposely not shit testing, so they lose a way to build attraction and other reasons. If I find the post I'll link it.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:02 PM
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Why are you trying to escalate over text? That's your first problem you need to use text more for logistics (at least until you've known her longer and even then be careful).
/r/askTRP07/07/16 10:24 PM
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Join some clubs for things you like to do you'll naturally meet guys and over time if you all get along you'll become friends.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:37 PM
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What's wrong with finding new friends? What you just said is the equivalent of saying "If I leave my annoying girlfriend I'll be alone." what your forgetting is theirs more guys out there than just your friends. Finding a new group will give you the opportunity to get better friends who wont hurt your social standing. And with your presumably new knowledge of TRP you'll be able to better pick out who you want to hang out with. Edit: I highly recommend being comfortable being on yourself (be inde…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:26 PM
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And remember OP if you thought the sex was great then just remember what food makes a woman loose her sex drive faster than anything, a wedding cake. Especially for a woman who already has kids so she wouldn't even need you to fulfill her desire to have kids.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:20 PM
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Something everyone forgets though is you can't just up and leave after sex. You need to cuddle after (especially if she hasn't had sex before) or just talk/comfort a little bit. Better for her to lose attraction then her to feel like a piece of meat and say you raped her.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:17 PM
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When she says that she's shit testing you to be a beta bitch so she can reframe the relationship. She wants to see if you'll bend over and say "Lets take things slow" that way she doesn't have to put out and won't want to because you'll have just made her as dry as a desert. She's also trying to push blame off herself that what she did was okay.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:14 PM
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The only thing wrong with this post is you're leaving condoms in your car. Common OP do you want children? The heat will destroy the effectiveness of your condoms. Throw them out and buy some new ones you keep at your place and keep one in your wallet that you exchange every so often (though you should be using it).
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:07 PM
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OP go to /r/RedPillWomen but just be careful when your there. I can tell you upfront guys don't care that much about your iq, or your intelligence (some may even be turned off by a supersmart girls others the opposite) but one thing to keep in mind is take everything with a grain of salt. RPW (RedPillWomen) will tell you not to shit test your man among other things which some sound good on paper but it will reduce your attractiveness for your man. Give him some shit tests (you'll naturally do it…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:04 PM
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What your really asking is can I get this girl into a LTR. Why would you want to get a single mother of two kids as a LTR? Why? Please OP read the sidebar, read something. You have oneitis for this girl and you need to see other woman and stop thinking about her.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 07:00 PM
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I'd recommend one of two paths. Cut contact with him. I know your parents are super close friends but he's dragging your life down in the process. Just because his and your parents are friends doesn't mean you need to be. If they ask why you don't hangout with him anymore just say "We don't have much in common." or just be blunt to your parents and say "I dont like the disrespectful tone he gave to my girlfriend and the way he treats me and my friends." When around him pay him very little attent…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:57 PM
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Ehh all the advice here sounds like people reading off a script. First off if you fuck a girl spend a little bit of time for "aftercare" so she doesn't feel like a piece of meat and then end up regretting it afterwards (regret rape). Second if you just want to go just be honest about it like "I have work" and throw some sarcasm in every once in a while sure. But the best thing to do is just for plates at least fuck them max 1-2 times a week, then they'll be happy just to see you.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 12:24 AM
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Listen to her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:49 AM
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For every hot girl theirs someone tired of fucking her. Yes it happens even when I've had FWB I'd still turn down a booty call from them for a 50/50 chance at a lay with a new girl.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:48 AM
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Did you flake on her as in promise to come over and then later decide not to, to go work out at the gym? Because if so you showed her you're unreliable and that's why she's shit testing you. At this point just go radio silent and see if she messaged you back. If you respond to her you're playing into her hand. Also don't try too hard to game a woman over text.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:34 AM
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Most woman are horrible at blow jobs. Find a chubby woman and she'll suck you off like your dicks made of gold.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 04:19 PM
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The incentive he's got is paying child support and losing access to his child. If he's red pill aware he's most likely not going to get married, that just makes a bad deal worse for him. What you can do to cement him and keep your security blanket is be the best darn girlfriend you can to him. Treat him well and make him feel special, do things 90% of the woman out there wouldn't (whether that be in bed, cooking etc). Because harsh reality at this point is your SMV is lowered because you have a …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/16 06:25 PM
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LongLive re-read again lurking is being sarcastic.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:19 PM
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Just remember the joke. "What food diminishes a woman's sex drive by 90%? Wedding Cake" she's putting the effort in to try and lock you down. The second you become a thing with her she might keep it up for maybe a couple more months until she has the next talk of a wedding and after that it's all over. Best case she finds her Beta Bucks and keeps sleeping with you on the side.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:23 PM
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Act like it never happened. You still have feelings for her and oneitis so you'll probably end up blurting something about dating her and she'll get turned off and that will be the last night you ever sleep with her again. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:47 PM
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If she wants to get hit on by drunk guys she's gonna do it no matter what you try to do. Your job is to make her not want to be hit on. Instill dread in her and make sure she knows you'll drop her like a hot bag of potatoes if she cheats on you. And whatever she does from there is out of your control.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:45 PM
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Make sure not to look butt hurt though. If you make things awkward your friend group will stop inviting one of you to hang around and chances are it'll be you.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:43 PM
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I'd assume the way you acted towards her before was by acknowledging her existence and not giving her special attention. Let me rephrase that, acknowledge her existence, maintain your relationship with her like you do all your other friends (not giving her more attention). You shouldn't be giving her all the attention you like, just enough to not make it awkward for you two to be in the same friend circle.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:41 PM
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The same way you acted towards her before you stuck your dick in her.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 10:56 PM
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Are you joking? This girls been testing your boundaries and you've been letting her walk all over you. I thought she was a FWB reading your post the first time and thought wow she's disrespectful but the fact your in a relationship? Move on you've failed her shit tests too much and at this point she has no respect for you.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:14 PM
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Curious how did you come up with that assumption.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 03:43 PM
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You're being a bit spoiled expecting a man to pay. I'll say for me it depends. I usually go for coffee and a walk with a woman on the first date (if we met online) and we each pay our drinks individually. The problem with dating (especially online) is their are woman who just want a free meal heck I know some woman personally who have told me they'll go on dates with guys just to get a free meal. My question is why do you expect the man to pay, why aren't you capable yourself? What I recommend i…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 11:23 PM
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Depends on what season, he get's some blue pill in him through some episodes.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:45 AM
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It's called them projecting. If a woman has to say they're independent it means they're either a) trying to follow the trend of all the independent woman or b) trying to weed out the beta's upfront aka men who message her saying "I love a strong independent woman" just failed her shit test, what she really wants is someone to tease her about it. Either way remember it's all about woman's actions not what they say. Same reason why woman who say they're not looking for sex are looking for exactly …
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:39 AM
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Because by your mid 40s those woman aren't getting tons of messages (and if they are it's mostly for sex) and the men in their 40s can still score woman in their late 20s. In essence the tables turn which causes a balancing out.
/r/seduction14/02/16 05:53 PM
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I'd just respond. Na I'm good Or you could just ask nicely who cares really.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 06:30 PM
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Just remember skype well until about this week used to allow people to get your ip which they could then use to track what city etc you're in.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 07:50 AM
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You already have self doubts. Before you even posted (red flag one) I had run out of red flags on your LTR. You don't have abundance mentality because if you did you wouldn't be trying to turn a hoe into a housewive. She may send you all these lovey dovey stuff but honestly it means nothing. And to your "I got back together with her because a part of me felt like people can't just write that shit with no feelings." come on now do you know the definition of crocodile tears? Also just saw your pos…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:37 PM
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Unfortunately sometimes you have to do things in life you don't want to. Most education systems suck but it's a necessary evil to achieve your goals in life. If you quit at the first sign of hardship you'll never make it anywhere in life. The way to make it through is to game the system and make it work as best for you as possible. Become friends with classmates, professors. Understand the system and you can utilize it to it's maximum.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:32 PM
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I'd recommend posting on /r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:31 PM
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It's possible to recover. Show her through your actions just tell her to come over or to hang out and don't mention the previous bp moment (it will only make you look weak).
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:29 PM
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Consult a lawyer, don't post online. And doesn't matter that you were in a state of utter retardation you are responsible for your actions. California has some pretty fed up laws.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:26 PM
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You have to throw beta in too otherwise she'll comfort test you and you'll fail (like you just did too). Just don't throw too much in.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:34 PM
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Fat guys can still get skinny woman. One because woman will look at a guys social status. A hot girl will date an ugly guy if he's on the football team for example because that gives her status. For a woman its all about status and what the guy can provide as well as how he makes her feel. For a guy we really only care how a woman looks. Woman insist they have more pressure on them when it comes to locking a guy down. They have to be sexy for most of us (non-betas aka the ones they care about) t…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:12 PM
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It doesn't really matter how you respond to it, sounds like you're over investing in this girl. Just go on the date tomorrow and be on your A game, make a slight remark to it on the date tomorrow but honestly she probably sent it to get validation.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:20 AM
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If you're white you'll be fine. The Arabs since they are considered lower class won't get as much (outside of people who want to rebel against their parents etc). And as you see more Arab men not getting it they'll become frustrated and the percentage of rapes by Arab men will increase (kind of like how it is in the news right now). At least that's my guess.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:11 AM
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Post some shirtless and you'll be fine. I also recommend never using that Reddit account again and removing the pictures of yourself. Redpill is a hunting grown for some sjws and white knights and you don't want to open the whole of them threatening/doxxing you etc.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:09 AM
1

Well if you have the money to do it go for it.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:28 AM
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Well if you don't know what you want to study studying now is a waste of your time. Now in terms of "finding yourself" that's a cliche I personally only here from woman who want a reason to take nice long trips on someone else's dime. Maybe people do find themselves though who knows.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:41 AM
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If it delays you going to university I wouldn't take it. Though the question I have is what are you majoring in, because if it's something with little career outlook your hurting yourself already. The management position is a good opportunity and it over you going on vacation I would say is worth it but only you know your priorities.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:07 AM
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She's not playing hard to get she's using you for validation. Move on.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:04 AM
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Abundance mentality is one thing but even still it's a characteristic you need to consciously work on. You need to start taking the steps to fix it even if their not the right ones at least you'll be going somewhere. Because the alternative is staying still and doing nothing. And one thing to think about is why do you care if she's with someone else? Better she cheat on someone else than you.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:03 AM
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If she's a stereotypical tumblr girl like you said she don't need no man /s In all seriousness though you know you need to dump her you're just making excuses for yourself. Your post in itself had more red flags then I can count. Get out now, and she'll be fine don't you worry she'll hook some beta chump who will be just happy to have a girl even talk to him - though I think you're a bit scared of her actually moving on and being okay with out her.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:37 AM
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You can try subtly (covertly) mentioning rp truths and see how they respond. But really the battle is there's to fight you can only hope they come to their senses.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:01 AM
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In that case yeah they're straight up testing your frame.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:59 AM
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I'd recommend something that won't give you concussions and ruining your future.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:45 AM
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Two things. If your 18 or over your parents don't owe you anything, though they should want to help you out. Their obviously testing you somewhat you should try teasing them back like "Why do I even come in here" while laughing. But the fact their supporting you you should be willing to help around the house a little bit not to the extent of a slave of course. If you have time to help just help. If you're doing homework and they ask just say you can't now since you're studying or ask them to. No…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:41 AM
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Yeah sounds fine to me op.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:02 AM
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Yep just remember AWALT. And of course when you get the urge to sleep with other woman and get busy at work she'll get lonely. And presuming you have colleagues with high net worths/power she may just "fall on their dick" as they give her attention and the tingles etc. Just some things to think about and remember if you want a real friend get a dog or guy friends (just be smart about it). Best of luck.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:57 AM
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Hiring someone to take care of your kids is cheaper than potential divorce. If I were in your shoes I'd keep dating the 20-30 year olds until your in your mid to late 50s and at that point you can find some 40 year old woman who's probably divorced once or just isn't looking to get married and have her be your longer term companionship and what not. Either way id recommend putting a bit of money in a trust for your kids so their supported for incase she takes everything. Just remember marriage i…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:37 AM
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While I agree flying for short term visits is dumb if she already got tickets then she probably won't get all her money back. So chances are she never got the tickets and made up a story involving every girls favorite oppressor their mother.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 12:45 AM
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Curious question you won't have more kids and your well off so why do you want/need to marry her. The only two reasons I can ever think are tax benefits and to have kids. Her SMV will only ever decrease and your putting yourself in a tight spot. Plus the fact your a high earner statistically means you'll probably cheat on her therefore voiding any prenup (even if it's explicitly in the prenup it can be overturned). Be her sugar daddy if you want but I don't see any return on investment for you i…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 12:41 AM
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She's not going to care if you breakup with her. All she wants is the wedding, the vacation etc. Heck by you divorcing her she can have another wedding. Don't worry though she won't let herself get caught until she gets knocked up and has you for 18 years. Your delusional if you think it'll end out well. You need tough love see the thing is even if you improve your smv you'll always be under in her eyes what a new guy would be because she'll remember what you used to be like. It's like taking a …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:33 AM
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Good job analyzing yourself. You bringing chocolates had her slotting you in a provider category (aka if I have sex with him I'll be giving up my trump card).
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:09 AM
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Theirs no proper opener to use. Just say to a woman what you're feeling (at least when it comes to random approaching). When it comes to a girl eye fucking you just introduce yourself, she's just looking for you to make the move and show interest she's not going to care about the exact words you say (unless you make yourself sound disingenuous, creepy or betaish).
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:07 AM
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"Okay". Nothing you can do when they're not attracted to you, move on.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:03 AM
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So let me get this right. You weren't dating this girl but you were still only fucking her. And to top it off she lives 8 hours away so you only get to have sex with her every once in a while. She may have one-itis but so do you.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:06 AM
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Also she's crying about some movie thing? Well... She got a little bit of the crazy flag going on my mind. Hint to handle her message - she's in a very emotional spot right now looking for something to anchor her (while being compassionate).
/r/askTRP23/12/15 08:15 AM
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It's beta to lay that out with her. If your in a relationship she should already know the rules. Now what will make her chest is your insecurity and your insecurity is being scared she's going to cheat so you need to cut that cyclical cycle off. You haven't fully absorbed the red pill if you don't realize she can cheat at any moment, any word or promise or rules you set down won't mean shit. You need to set rules/the condition by your actions. Yes part of that is being verbal about what you want…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 08:12 AM
2

Gaming woman online is 10x harder than in person even if your hot. Why? Because when you approach a woman in person they gain respect that you have the balls to (most guys don't). Also if you meet a woman while you're with friends you have pre-selection and that helps immensely. Woman would rather have a 8/10 that they know is in their social group or who has tons of friends/is very social than a 10/10 recluse (and they assume all guys online are recluses, which is why people always say to post …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:08 AM
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Woman want you to take the lead. Straight talk doesn't always work with them (it may or may not by you being blunt). if you say "damn, if you want to hang out, just fucking say so" it's a 50% chance it works and she says so and a 50% chance she gets her ego bruised and makes you into the enemy hurting her feelings. Like jaynort said just tell them what you want them to do. If you want a submissive woman you have to be ready to take the lead (near all the time) may get tiring but that's what you …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:04 AM
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He's not orbiting her. She's trying to make him jealous (for some reason woman assume making a guy jealous will make them settle into a relationship with them) as she want's his commitment. The reason she's sending the stuff over text message is 1. She's afraid to confront you with the question in person (red flag). 2. When she's alone she's given time to feel insecure and probably has her friends asking if she's got a boyfriend yet etc.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:01 AM
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I have to say it's magical how much woman I've been there "third". Hint magazines like Cosmo tell them to always say they've slept with 3 guys.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 06:49 PM
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Add a little more beta is my recommendation. They tend to get more emotional and take things seriously (so if you're sarcastic cut down on it). Imagine having a headache and her just joking the whole time - not that good. But do keep alpha tendencies of course.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:43 PM
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Closure from her? Come on now. What kind of closure do you think she'll give you. 1 - She will lie to you, just to make you feel better or 2 - she will give you false information she believes to be true (never ask a fish how to fish). The fact you want closure means you've got oneitis for her. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:37 PM
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Be careful in general around her. She sounds like she's got a screw or two loose (heck she's a cougar so that's already a red flag) but accusing you of lying and then telling you to never message her again shows she's got some crazy in her. A normal response wouldn't be to call you out on lying and even if it was she could have much more gracefully said its over.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 05:23 AM
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If she messaged you because she found out you were seeing other chicks definitely just say. "Just have your sister come instead." it'll make her hamster go to overdrive and now she'll subconsciously be jealous of her sister taking you. Though she's already shown she's not too serious with the sister comment so don't waste much time on her (she's a timeho).
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:53 AM
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One problem I see with Polish's plan is it requires flaking and you don't want to flake with woman. And if he was in the beta box before and doesn't make his intention that it's not okay to bring the sister along she'll just slot him back in the beta box.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:50 AM
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You know yourself better than anyone else. So that advice certainly sounds better if you've got an attachment still.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:46 AM
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Well you fucked that up a bit (but at least you understand your mistake for the future). She was shit testing you and you failed. Should have not responded to her (she was trying to invoke you to be defensive, break your frame). Waited for her to respond back to say something like "Sorry for calling you a liar" after all she wants you to respond. And you would respond "You can make it up to me with drinks at x, and I'll make sure I'm covered at work." This way you show her she can't just accuse …
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:44 AM
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If a girl says "Never ask a girl for her partner count its offensive" then she's already convincing herself that her high partner count is okay or she's embarrassed by it. Or she plans on fucking the whole football team and doesn't want to think about it. It's the same reason woman say "Dont ask a woman her age" (which of course only applies if shes 28+) because they don't want to be reminded they've hit the wall.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:39 AM
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If you have to ask you already know the answer. Block all her friends on snapchat, she'll probably try to get back in communication with you. If she does pretty much instantiate you're only looking for sex.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:36 AM
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If their isn't teasing involved and her sending you sexy pictures then she's just trying to reel you in (and even then you don't know hence why long distance is a bad idea). Her saying "it feels like we haven't talked in so long" sounds like hey Jaxx hasn't messaged me in a while, I'm not feeling validated let me go message him for validation. Then she does, you respond, she feels validated, her friend invites her out to a club, she fucks some guy and her validation meter is full for a while so …
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:34 AM
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A common mistake many guys make is to not "lube the conversation". You're not messaging her for a week and then straight out asking her for dinner. You need to prime the conversation by making her feel emotions (tease her sexually). For example ask how her mom is when she responds say we need a nice massage to get your mind off it (mind you you're not saying her but both of you). Then she'll probably say that sounds great right about now. Then you respond saying Of course it does, let's get drin…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:20 AM
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If you have to ask...
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:14 AM
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Every time someone says "practice" my bs meter goes off. If you want to practice, practice with woman you can actually get. A girl a long distance away knows she can rope you in with seductive pics. Heck she knows she doesn't even have to have sex with you to keep you around because well you can't (you're too far away). So by definition you're already her beta orbiter. And Kabylewolf's response is too long and don't use emojis...
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:13 AM
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My current plan is to get married to a woman who is young and is "good" (hint no such thing you'll always have to keep frame). I'm also going to make them sign a pre-nup minimum 1 year before marriage and make sure its iron-clad. If she doesn't want one well then she won't be the one I marry. Also gotta be careful for common-law marriages (if you live with someone long enough). Just understand she'll always put herself and the kid(s) before you. And accept it.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:09 AM
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So let me get this right. She fucked with you 5 years ago, presumably making you depressed/hurt. Then rode the cock carousel for 5 years, fucking other guys as her looks faded away. And now as her ovaries are beginning to dry up she comes back to the guy she hurt and tells him she wants commitment... Have you read the side bar? This girl is trying to make you into her betabucks. Keep fucking her if you want but dam get some abundance mentality. If she fucked with you in the past why are you even…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:06 AM
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Just replying to say blackwidonsfw has the best responde. Hunter-S-Rabbit' response will cause a lul in the conversation, and Oftowerbroleaning's doesn't have an actual response. You need to acknowledge just slightly what she said (or she'll hamster that you want a relationship and stop contacting you).
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:02 AM
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I always make sure to do two things minimum. 1. Ask her if I should get a condom/finger/tease her until she tells me to get one. 2. Afterwards I text her saying I had a good time (after which she responds back saying she did as well).
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:58 AM
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It sounds like you're texting her too much. Texting a plate is all fine and good but I would keep the messages to two or three messages a day or every other day. If communication is dropping just stop messaging her as much (if at all) and see what she does. If she's interested in you she'll make an effort to get your attention if not you're wasting your time anyways.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:56 AM
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Go up to people and talk to them. If you're enjoying yourself people will want to be with you. If it's got a dance floor just dance your ass off and have fun. Woman will notice and when they eye you pull them in and start dancing like crazy.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:53 AM
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Let's be honest she doesn't know what she meant by it. She's working off feelings and spur of the moment.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:57 PM
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She also wasn't that interested in him at the beginning, she never offered another day.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:25 AM
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The don't shit where you eat really only applies to long term jobs or jobs where the employee can't risk losing it. If you're working at a pizza joint and others are dating and your boss doesn't care then go for it. Worst comes to worse you find another part time job.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 06:47 PM
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You handled it well, though I would have shut her down for playing that. She wanted you to break frame and you didn't. It's on her to apologize now and if she doesn't oh well. I'd soft next her and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 09:45 PM
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Yes she was trying to make you her orbiter. She tried to ask if you can still be friends at the end which you passed by saying No. However earlier on you should have flipped the script on her. When she said it won't be anything serious you should have joked around and made it seem like the other guys the beta bitch and she's gonna be your plate.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 05:05 AM
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I've had this happen before and the girl usually comes back in a week wanting to meet up. Aka she hamsters away the bad thoughts in her head.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:38 PM
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It's possible he's too alpha. For relationships you need a mix of alpha and beta qualities.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:58 AM
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Woman want some form of emotional attachment. If you're a cold fish and a good lay it will only last you so long. I've had FWB relationships that lasted 1.5 years and could have been longer but I went silent and the trick I found is to have pillow talk after (get to know them) and it prevents them from feeling like a piece of meat and you getting rape accusations. I would just spout whatever shit I wanted and she loved talking about it (news, business etc - she didn't care what it was, heck she …
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:47 AM
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Treat them like you treat woman (with amused mastery and strong frame). If they are linked to your future success (business etc.) then tread carefully and just be quiet around them. After all making relationships with them will do little good as they won't get far with their beta attitudes.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:37 AM
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Theirs a lot of helpful resources on /r/personalfinance
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:34 AM
1

Honestly I recommend just increasing your social value by having guy friends, going to "high school parties" and expanding your circle of friends that way because you'll then meet girls and you'll have the social proof of your friends. Which will increase your SMV to your girlfriend because you have social proof, and you'll be able to use the dread from the girls you meet in your social circle.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:33 AM
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Woman will make time if you're really important. But one caviot is this is the midterms time and I wouldn't make any time for a good 7 day period for anyone (no matter how hot) because I make school my top priority, though if you're talking like lunch or something thats another thing. She may be doing the same depending on how many tests/important school is. But to play both sides I know woman who would come over the night before a test just because they missed me. I would normally say tell her …
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:27 AM
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That's called them hamstering. Aka they are trying to put their bad decisions on you. Making you the "bad guy". What it probably means though is you might be too full on alpha which is good for lays but won't always result in long term FWB's.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:22 AM
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It seems like you triggered something inside of her. Aka she just showed you one of her red flags (hint she's probably had a gangbang with a bunch of guys). So when you called the scantily white girl a slut she associated it with you calling her a slut (because she's done the same). So she instantly rebuddled by not saying anything logical but just being full on emotional towards you. A woman who would degrade you is not LTR material imo. The fact she would even say that means you're not holding…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:18 AM
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Well the one thing that will screw you over most is overthinking things . You haven't truly internalized RP which is why your having issues now that you've run out of the "script". If you start valuing yourself and look at yourself as the prize she will too. Most people say "hit the gym, do what you want etc". If you do that you won't be focusing on her and she'll come to you for the attention instead of the other way around. Now of course you can't be a full on "cold fish" otherwise she'll pull…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:23 AM
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TRP is valuing yourself and making yourself the prize. When you do she'll know she has to always work her hardest to keep you because you are the prize. Theirs no one true answer to your question though.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:17 AM
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The fact in number 1 she said she has some "mental barriers" to get past is instant red flag to me. If you're already exclusive whats the difference between that and a girlfriend? Also why would you offer the opportunity to ask her. Your the prize. Remember men are the gatekeepers of relationships, woman are the gatekeepers of sex you just straight up opened your gate and made you unattractive in the process. Could be she's a bit shy but also means she isn't feeling the full force of the endorph…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 11:09 PM
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One of the biggest issues I see in LDR is the woman can be more content because she's getting the social interaction which is a lot more important aka the skyping where it doesn't really help the guy as much. And something I've noticed is making plans when from a distance is a lot harder on the woman's side, tends to be delayed etc. Which makes the guy get resentful and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 04:10 AM
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To add to this. Guys use dread on girls by saying woman are hitting on them. When a woman uses dread on an alpha guy it has the opposite effect. I've had a woman tell me how she use to talk promiscuously with a guy and it just came off as her being slutty to me, after all guys approach and tease woman all the time. When a guy gets hit on though it's a lot harder since woman tend to be more closeted with their feelings. Not always approaching.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 04:07 AM
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Come on now you know the answer to this. Oneitis and time lost fallacy. Move on, she's not LTR worthy and you know it but you don't value yourself enough. Always value yourself above.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 10:42 PM
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Well you can wait 2 years till his wife divorces him and takes everything in the process. And of course is magically back in shape. Then maybe he will have learned a lesson. But he seems pretty far gone and very very beta.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 10:39 PM
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It's important to note that a guy will wait if he genuinely enjoys spending time with a woman. I personally will push boundaries as far as I can, which almost always ends up in the woman sleeping with me within the first two dates. But a woman who is able to control herself longer is one I can respect. Because it means at least slightly the woman has some self control - or she doesn't consider you Chad Thundercock. In any case as long as their is foreplay and open communication it's not too hard…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 12:53 AM
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You can neg every once in a while but you probably want lighter negs. For example you don't want to overdo it and make them just see you as an outlet of making them sad. It needs to be sprinkled in. If you find a woman who responds well to tons of negs chances are she has very low self worth. Woman like them on occasion because they get overly complimented by most. So yes it's a balancing act.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 04:11 PM
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Do you use a lot of self-deprecating humor? That seems to be the case. You can be funny but don't bring yourself down or people won't respect you (since you don't even respect yourself).
/r/askTRP10/05/15 05:55 AM
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If you need to add so much weight you can only get one rep up to get sore then you're doing it wrong. Just push what you're able to without injuring yourself. And don't forget to stretch.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 05:09 PM
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Remember woman think of things in the now. It doesn't much matter what you did in the past if you're not succeeding in the present.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 11:20 PM
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Woman perceive themselves as having a higher smv on things like tinder and dating site. Why? Because they get tons of messages from guys all the time. And on things like Tinder they can easily find a guy that's above them since well those guys just want to have sex. To add to that for a guy it's easy to message dozens of girls and they often used canned messages. While in person it's more time consuming and most guys don't approach a woman. Plus when you talk to a girl online she can flake. When…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 12:35 AM
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Tinder and online dating is going to make life a lot harder then just approaching in person.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 11:50 PM
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Practice if you want with her but I wouldn't ever consider her for a LTR with orbiters and hanging out with so many guys.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:41 AM
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Since when does TRP encourage guys to give woman a second chance? For anything most guys on here are quick to say next a girl.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:25 AM
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A girl who does that isn't emotionally stable. Aka she's not the kind of girl you want to plate (don't stick your dick in crazy). And even if she does post on Facebook or what not just ignore it. When it comes to FWB make your intentions known from the start. I've never had a FWB post anything about me if she's no longer a plate.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:23 AM
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That'll just confuse her at this point. OP needs to play some dread or pressure flip her. As others have said he needs to say if we won't have sex someone else will. Then he needs to withdraw from cuddling and validation and apply his time to working out, enjoying himself and applying dread. If she starts to give in then he can add back in the cuddling and lower the dread a bit.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 11:18 PM
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While redpill is amoral I will say going after a girl with a boyfriend can cause two problems. 1. If she gets caught she is more likely to use the "he raped me" to absolve her of guilt. 2. If you start to get feelings for her, or she has all the qualities you want you'll never fully feel trusted if you go a relationship route (if she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you).
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:40 PM
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It wouldn't have mattered what you said. She knew she was moving up with this guy.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 08:04 PM
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Once you have the proper mindset the games become a joke and the hoops become near nonexistent. When I take woman out on dates I go places that I enjoy, not somewhere just for the sake of it. It allows you to see if the girl enjoys going to places you do and makes spending money much less painful. And in terms of shit tests once you've been on enough dates you become witty to the responses and you get the second nature to handle them with ease. So shit tests become easy and heck I enjoy it, even…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:31 AM
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Whatever your decision is OP just remember nearly all woman heck I would say all will end up like your wife if you are beta. Honestly the only thing keeping her around is probably your future economic success. When you alpha up and hit the gym which you should always be working to improve especially when you feel comfortable (in a relationship) you will experience the same thing from woman. What you need to decide is do you want to be married to anyone?, do you want to bang younger woman or woul…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:39 PM
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What op is missing is he forgot to mix some comfort in. You can spin plates all you want but if you don't mix comfort in they will flake. Woman don't want to feel like a piece of meat and even those who are just in for the hookup need some comfort to rationalize everything.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:23 PM
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Because she's looking to see if he'll be a provider for her. I've never had a girl ask me that though. But if one does I assume she's a. A gold digger, b. Trying to see if I'll be her provider. Be careful though if you live a lavish lifestyle woman may try to take advantage of that (many woman try to get into a relationship once they see your lifestyle if it's one of luxury)
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:21 PM
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The how many question I would never ignore. It will make her hamster spin out of control. What you should say is something like "Enough to know what I want." She might ask again but you just need to end it by either joking or being pretty vague.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:17 PM
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Doesn't seem like any comfort test to me. When she tells you to wear another shirt I would ignore it/tell her no. Her trying to control something as small as the shirt you wear is just her seeing how much control she has. If she didn't like the shirt and you were a proper captain in her eyes she would say something like "You may want to wear this shirt, it makes you look even sexier." But when she's demanding things it's a big mistake to break frame and give in.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 12:55 AM
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The thing most people forget is even the hot woman may not be banging that many other guys. Their is a lack of alpha quality men in society now a days. So many of the woman who you're spinning as plates aren't having the equal luck finding guys they would want to be in a relationship with let alone even sleep with on a consistent basis (in the hope they'll start dating usually). And hotter woman are so use to guys coming up to them telling them how hot they are, doing everything for them they fi…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 10:57 PM
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If he yelled at his daughter it would certainly want her to break out. She's old enough to be able to do what she wants legally, mature wise theirs not more he can do then guide her. Even though I'm a guy I've found knowing I can talk with my parents about problems and even who I'm seeing and it being a comfortable environment is important. Her not telling them where she is when she's under their roof isn't smart. But if they tried to prevent her from going out for no reason outside of them not …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:26 PM
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Height only helps so much, you need to stop making it your crutch. This isn't poor me I'm not tall this is so I'm not tall but I know how to have fun and enjoy life and those things will attract like minded people.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 06:38 PM
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The biggest thing woman like is a confident guy. Woman will see your frustration they are pretty good at reading people. For every 6'4" buff guy theirs also shorter guys with hot girls. Best advice I can give is focus on yourself, what you enjoy. If you're only hope is to be buff and you feel emasculated by taller guys the women will notice that and be turned off by it. Check out the book Models.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 04:05 PM
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She's potentially close to the wall and has the sunk time fallacy in effect. Meaning her biological clock is ticking and she's not sure she will find anyone else. Though from the sound of her boyfriend she can only go up.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:28 PM
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Sounds like you wanted to fix him but are now realizing he can't be helped. Seems like he's not the brightest bulb in the box. Seeing as your finally getting sick of his drama I recommend breaking up and moving on. You can't help someone who won't help themselves. I suggest checking out /r/RedPillWomen and they'll probably tell you something along the lines of this. If your dating a guy and he can't take care of himself how will he be able to take care of you - aka how will a Captain who's drunk…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:27 PM
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I'll say it's good to have standards but don't put them too high. Aka make the same mistake woman do. Otherwise you'll be single forever which depending on your outlook may be desired.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:07 AM
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Instead of texting her should have called her late at night. Escalated it to a date time over the phone after she was off work so around 7 pm or whenever the place closed and then telling her shortly after you have to go once you close a date time. This would accomplish the following a) it's more personal she'll remember you over the 10 orbiters she has. B) you call her late at night so she'll remember you and build up some tension - especially since you did it more personally through calling. C…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:03 AM
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When I say mixing things up I mostly mean different places. Don't even bring the night you had again don't apologize and if she brings it up be stoic. Now one issue you have is your not outcome independent. You need more plates. By having just her your overthinking things way too much and you will eventually fail. This is my suggestion. Think of something you want to do, invite her along and have fun. When you take a woman out its to have her be a compliment to what your doing. Otherwise if a wo…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:15 PM
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Put on Netflix Iliza Shlesinger, Freezing Hot and tease her about all the stereotypes in it while she gets the tingles for you and you escalate.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:39 AM
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To add to that I remember someone on redpill cited some study that says woman lose more of some chemical when they have sex with new partners or something along those lines. In other words the more partners a woman has the more desensitized she becomes and harder it is for her to have a stable relationship compared to men who lose or have a much smaller effect from the chemical.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:35 AM
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It sounds like either she's use to getting her way or she was genuinely not feeling well. If I'm not feeling well and a girl tries to invite herself over I shut them down. Woman though can be much nicer aka they don't like confrontation so won't always outright say not to come over. And for woman when you say you'll make soup your saying it in a sarcastic way as in yeah I'll take care of you when she knows you just want sex and that's not always what they want - imagine after an exhausting day o…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:31 AM
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Don't listen to what a woman says listen to her actions. I suggest even with plates avoiding the pattern of doing the same thing all the time. She probably associates dancing with always going to have sex after. In any case though it was mostly her just trying to find a reason to start a fight and when you didn't break frame she gave in. Best advice is not to focus on it and keep the abundance mentality. Now for why she might be trying to start a fight it could be a multitude of things, many of …
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:13 AM
1

Quite honestly dating anyone on Tinder I consider a red flag. Girls who are on tinder want validation. The whole premise of the app is focused on looks. It's slowly changing but any girl on tinder has her ego inflated far beyond what it should be.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:37 AM
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Just use tinder messaging to be funny, break the tension and escalate to meeting up. Get her number or move her off tinder as soon as you can. And go radio silent until the day of the date. Your going to get a decent bit of flakes but it's just the situation. Girls get message overload on tinder so you need to differentiate yourself from others. Try to make plans for as soon as you can and don't play the waiting game to message them back too much. If you wait hours between messages she'll be in …
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:25 AM
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Though if their not attractive the chance of them flaking decreases.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:55 AM
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Biggest suggestion I have is take small steps. If you try to drastically change things all at once it's going to be hard to commit. It's why cutting things cold turkey doesn't always work well and why people who decide come January to workout all the time end up stopping. Take gradual steps and you will barely notice the pain of change.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 02:13 AM
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You having options is just one factor, the biggest thing that stood out as I said was you coming off as butt hurt. Quite possibly she was being passive aggressive at you because you were flirting but you came off butt hurt which made her validate being mad at you. If you tease her slightly instead she will end up realizing she's being dumb and that you can't be phased. You need to be her rock, an immovable object she can use to ground her emotions. When your not she'll find someone who is.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 06:17 AM
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"We should be friends" Let me fix that for you, "You should be my beta orbiter so I can use you for validation when hot guys turn me down. I'll throw you some bread crumbs every once in a while until you starve to death."
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:38 AM
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You can have him be your wingman. Outside of that when he rejects woman they might go to you or use you as a stepping stone to get to him. So certainly possible it's beneficial.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:35 AM
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A couple things. First fraternities can be hard I had a friend who failed out because of depression and his frat took so much time away from class. This is what I recommend doing. Don't text the GF unless she texts you back, consider her your x now. Focus on school above all else, fraternity brothers are cool and all but you need to focus on you - note it's important to have friends but focus on school above everything. You have your whole life to make friends and with depression and being busy …
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:29 AM
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She doesn't have respect for you and you broke frame by being butt hurt. After she gave shit like not letting you in I would have made other plans and ignored her for a bit. Then texting her back maybe the next day pretending nothing happen. Also the woman thing you pulled is sort of a nuclear shit test you did not fully but it sounds a little butt hurt once again. And honestly if your going to use something like that you have to use it jokingly not when she's not doing something you want. Edit:…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:12 AM
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Yeah already have, what I'm guessing the actual reason she did though is she asked earlier what we were going to be doing and I didn't respond to that part - hindsight should have given her a joking response.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:02 AM
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Pretty much, I just responded saying nearly alright again.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 04:45 AM
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It's possible she's scared of your girth, no joke. Though she should still be willing to try it out and just stop if it's painful.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 03:49 AM
1

Very true, just had to be careful because we frequent the same social circles.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 03:25 AM
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Thanks for the input. I have a replacement but was actually looking for an intellectual conversation, something my plates who aren't busy tonight don't provide.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 01:39 AM
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Good point, probably went too far extreme other way
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 10:07 PM
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If only that was true with stocks.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:47 PM
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Aka she'll make herself feel better by framing it as if you made her do those things because she's not a slut.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:04 PM
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Great advice. To add to that if you can tell a woman is fighting herself over knowing she can't be long term but still wanting to be with you it's best to just let her go. I've had a couple plates who I told upfront would never turn into a relationship (of course they take this as a challenge). And once they start getting lots of feelings and realize they won't be able to change you, they will try to take some time to let their feelings subside. Of course at this point their very vulnerable so i…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:00 PM
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Yep, and just a note make sure he's the one to discover your out of food. He needs to be the one to go looking for the food, if you go grocery shopping before he realizes I wouldn't bring it up unless he realizes the bills a bit more. And in that case just say you had to get more of x because it went bad.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 03:31 AM
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Everyone has their quirks at some point I would say, I'm a guy and I use to do things similar but once you see how it impacts other - without them arguing with you - then its much easier to change. After all by nagging your putting the other person in defensive mode which means everything will go through one ear and out the other.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 03:27 AM
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Instead of being passive aggressive just let something stay out and when he wants it say "Sorry babe I had to throw it out because I found it left out and it started to smell." Once you do that enough (varying a bit) he'll be conditioned every time he gets food to put it away so he doesn't get hungry or that's the hope. Edit: This way your not directly blaming him, he doesn't see your upset instead he realizes he's going to be hungry now. And you can add "I'll go get you some more from the store…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 12:49 AM
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The only real time you want to go beta is to get rid of crazy girls. Aka make them lose attraction for you so they don't do something crazy when you break up/reject them.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 03:58 AM
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In terms of friends you should try to be around people you enjoy, those who you can share common interests. Because obviously you'll then do events with them you like. Work the same thing if possible try to be around people you share some commonalities with. If it's not possible then try and find some shred of similarities maybe talk about their favorite restaurants, any nice deals something more general in life terms. In terms of partners that's up to you, you can try and feign interest but mos…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:08 PM
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Well understand your going to make mistakes, just don't get hung up on them during the date when you do. Use kino when you feel is right, of course your going to be rusty so it will be hard. Be outcome independent, use this as a learning experience because chances are its going to be pretty rusty. Try and isolate her as much as you can, make the environment as intimate as possible. Don't sit too far away from her, be in touching range (like at the bar). Have her talk about herself, she'll think …
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:51 PM
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Seems you know what you need to do. When it comes to seeing the doctor for a medical issue it can come off as bluepill but your in a relationship so you need to mix that in there every once in a while. So sit her down and tell her your making a doctors appointment for her (your being the captain) because you don't want her to be in pain anymore. Ask her what days are good for her and take care of the planning and then there you go.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:43 PM
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Depends how hot she is OP http://ortegaian.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/dating.jpg But seriously, yeah she sounds a bit crazy. And it was a shit test by a crazy person simple as that. I've noticed crazy girls tend to fantasize about relationships a whole lot more (probably because most people don't have one with them since they realize their crazy). So she was probably hurt by the response, her brain took it seriously, and it ruined her image of you.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:35 PM
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May want to go, this way her friends won't tease her as much/make her feel like a slut when she sees you. I would as thowitallaway said see them real fast, tell them you have to get the gym (say your meeting up with a friend etc if that's the case). Shows your busy/in-demand, will reduce the shit the girl gets from her friends in the future, but it will also possibly lead her to look at you as more relationship material.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:32 PM
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Don't ever give in to shit tests. If you want her as LTR you need to have some betaness but when a girl asks me if I like her I make her work for it. Aka "Depends on how good of a cook you are." or better if your trying to close the deal "Depends how good of a cuddler you are" something along these lines that diverts it back to her to make her work to get an answer.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:27 PM
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Your being beta. Woman only care what car you drive if it's a BMW etc. If you have good enough frame they won't even mind. I actually avoid showing woman what I drive as long as possible (meeting at coffee shops in walking distance, going for walks) because having a nice car can make woman see you as dollar signs.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:23 PM
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It doesn't seem to be related to her being a virgin as in shes too tight. Because virgins can stretch (heck they have baby's at some point). It sounds like a medical condition forgot the exact term for it. Of course getting her sexually stimulated will make it hurt less but as I said earlier sounds a little bit medical. Edit: If you want to be a bit RP aka motivate her to get the surgery. Use some dread game, show her your wanted by others and she will be scared she'll lose you, especially since…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:17 PM
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Try to lead the conversation towards what interests the other person. When you get people to talk your ear off they will barely pay attention to you they'll be so concentrated on themselves. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours. Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:06 PM
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Makes sense I was going based off a reply on redpill I read that stated if she cancels more then 24 hours in advance may be because you didn't built rapport. Then again I've set dates week down the road (due to my schedule) with no texting.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:38 PM
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I understand to use it then but when talking logistics for meeting up let's say a week down the road you increase the flakiness chance by not building rapport. I know on the other hand you should always go for meeting up asap but that's not always possible.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:27 PM
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Tell her as someone posted in a different thread (sorry can't find exact thread) "I have enough friends" or something along those lines. It's possible she is shit testing but more likely she's trying to make you an orbiter or just using you as filler until she finds a real guy or as someone else said she wants you to breakup with her/she isn't tactful. Now in terms of the third date don't text her ahead of time the bloody dick thing, you don't want to have a girl turn on her anti slut shield so …
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:49 AM
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To add to that tattoos go in and out of favor every 10 or so years.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:55 AM
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In terms of clubs (ones where you only hear the music) yes it's mostly luck, knowing girls there already helps and being attractive. And of course having a friend be your wingman as most girls cluster up together so you need someone to help diffuse them.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:30 AM
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Heartless is on point, I did the same thing. Your time is valuable and if she's wasting it it's time to move on.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:27 AM
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Just as a note not all condoms contain spermicide but many do.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:10 AM
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You can be calm and collected and still carry a conversation. Make your presence known (have good posture) and start conversations. I use to be very observant and well I still am but you can learn a lot from body language.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:06 AM
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He wanted to have the perfect wedding when he was blue pill. He's now seen woman in a new light. If I were in his shoes I would think "well she's changed from all the bad stuff so I know she's capable of going back." Pretty much it's the past showing what's capable in the future. You're best bet is to remain red pill as others have said. DO NOT nag him about this, it will only turn him off more so (make him think your putting on a facade. As he notices the changes more and more he might change h…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:04 AM
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When your making out just lead your hands there. What I would do is kiss her neck and go for the breasts first, less resistance. Then start kissing down her stomach and work your way to her pants. You'll get resistance so maybe grind on her or tease her clit from the outside which can be a bit tough.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:48 AM
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Just remember once she goes to college she's going to most likely go crazy aka full cock carousel. She has a curfew so most likely she's been sheltered and felt caged though if her fathers RP she may be smart and no to conserve her sexuality. Anyways as above said I've done very similar. One thing that worked for me was to have her give me a handjob, well I had to show her and that made the tingles overpower her brain. Just tease her, when you see her biting her lip say, "Having a hard time figh…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:45 AM
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You're in a frat and have options don't worry about her. If you really want message her and tell her if she's going to keep requesting to see pictures of your abs she can come see it in purpose.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:36 AM
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I just had a similar concern once about getting a girl pregnant, well a couple times but just have to wait it out. One last note if she teases you before putting on a condom you can have pre-cum (pretty much cum that is used as lubrication) so if you want to really be careful if you ever put the condom on the wrong way, even the first time, just throw it away and use a new one. Also if you want to protect yourself from being sperm jacked, since we're on the subject. Don't leave condoms out somew…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:29 AM
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Don't block her number, if she ended up being pregnant you would want to convince her to get an abortion presumably. Plus I'm guessing you didn't use a throwaway number so she can track you and even then they could find a baby by DNA. BUT that's thinking WAY ahead. Look man take a couple deep breaths I've had the same worry before. Worrying won't change anything so try to move on. I'm not a doctor and I barely remember biology classes but I think the further after ovulation the more sperm die ge…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:20 AM
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To add to that she's nearing the wall so find some ways to remind her of that. Woman start panicking and try to please men especially when the biological clock ticks down and they see their beauty fading. I would make myself a lot less available and be a little mysterious every once in a while, where she sits at home wondering where you are. Know though it can be dangerous as she may start looking elsewhere (though if she's near the wall she'll realize theirs only betas abound.)
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:11 AM
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Forgot the exacts but semen can stay for a couple days (weeks?). But don't worry about it OP theirs nothing you can do now anyways. Also I've done the wrong side thing once before and it's best just to get another condom when that happens (practice in the dark if you need to). One other word to the wise, get baby wipes and use that after you cum. Don't go into round two until you've cleaned it up. Because the condom can disperse the semen on the shaft and when you put on another condom it can en…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:06 AM
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Just remember not to come off as butthurt OP. And not to attack her too much personally, the trick is to make her realize that her actions have consequences and she loses favor from you by being childish. If you ever verbally attack a woman for her actions aka become childish she will say to herself your in the wrong and look at you as a beta.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:00 AM
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Thanks I nearly always do that but every time I tried to escalate she diverted.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:56 AM
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If she asks which she shouldn't (she should know why). Is just say you were busy and change the conversation. Or you can use amused mastery. "Decided to hike Mount Everest, CHANGE SUBJECT"
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:53 AM
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Just focus on it before starting a conversation, eventually it will become second nature.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:25 AM
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May want to lookup divorce rape, just remember if you do it you're going to be risking a lot.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:20 AM
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You have to make sure you don't come off as frustrated or butt hurt when you do. Just used amused mastery on the guy.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:19 AM
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Time to use some dread game.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 03:03 AM
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As an update - after thinking any woman who wastes my time isn't worth it. Nexting her.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 02:50 AM
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Yeah she was checking your value. Never reference the boyfriend (I personally nope out of any girl that is in a relationship). But would avoid calling him a puppy because it makes her think about him and possibly regret her choice. By dismissing in a less direct way it's playing it a bit safer.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 07:16 AM
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Unless they're a crazy cat lady and then you have bigger problems.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:32 AM
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Every woman who's sent me a sexy selfie after we broke up or stopped talking I no longer pulled out (and it was usually deleted, granted I lose all but my important - family pictures usually every couple months). One thing to keep in mind is pictures are often backed up to the cloud without people noticing (iCloud for example) which recently had a hack exploit fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 06:29 AM
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Need more surrounding info but it's late and a friday night invite her over to your place.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:16 AM
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She's testing if you're a beta or not is my guess. Depending on if you want to close her I would say "And I like my steak medium well." aka say something that is fully irrelevant. If she asks what do you mean say "I thought we were talking about irrelevant things."
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:54 AM
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Just comment on their profile picture, and be sexually suggestive without directly being so (they hear that all the time).
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:53 AM
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Avoid the smileys OP ;), :) come off as feminine. I usually lead a girl to coming over (by being sexually suggestive and then recommending she come see a movie etc). Otherwise they may sometimes put up the anti-slut defense (of course as you build rappor you need less).
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:51 AM
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I feel like if anyone has to ask they already know the answer. Aka drop her, she's making you her orbiter.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:44 AM
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I would use amused mastery. Though when I was asked this question by a woman in the past I answered it honestly "I want a woman who compliments me." Then I changed the subject.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:41 AM
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As others have said you're looking for /r/RedPillWomen but it sounds like this guys is a bit beta and that turned you off. After seeing the girl flaked you possibly, subconsciously looked at him as lower value. After all many woman who are given the attention of high value men don't feel like a piece of meat because they are too blinded by trying to get him to settle down.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 05:39 AM
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My response would depend on her, is she nearing the wall aka looking to find a beta because she's sick of being pumped and dumped?
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:29 AM
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As long as you don't beta on her when you break it off you'll be fine. Heck being with sorority girls can be somewhat advantageous. Woman talk all the time and many like to stab each other in the back. So if you're girl tells her friends about how much of a "stud" you are they'll be hitting you up. Especially when they find out you two are no longer together.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:24 AM
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Wasn't their a post about this earlier today. If you're unsure if a girl is LTR material she isn't. Most likely she trickle truthed you or showed a fascad. Of course no woman is going to be perfect but if this is a turn off, then move on (soft next). Not sure how old you are but for the most part the closest you'll come to finding an almost unicorn is in high school and then college. A woman still single has most certainly ridden the CC. What happens is they are either single through college (go…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:18 AM
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If you snapchat occasionally and aren't able to escalate then she's just using you for validation. What I find works best is to say out of the blue, well good luck with everything and then fully withdraw my attention. They get a wtf moment and a week later their annoying me.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:10 AM
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First thing, don't focus on fucking it up, most girls on Tinder have extreme bitch shield unless you follows rule 1 and 2. Respond saying "Must have been from our "dance" session." Or something more cheeky Edit: saw she said see. Say "And you didn't offer to buy me a drink?"
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:06 AM
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Go to the club, snapchat her some pictures of you with some hot woman - or just pictures of you having fun with people. Important do it in a goofy way, send it out as a moment and in a joking way to friends (so it doesn't seem like your directing it at her). Then depending on how far gone she is she may act appropriately or you can ignore her responses for a bit as you build up the tension. Then issue her a command telling her to come over bring a movie or something like that. After that night p…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:03 AM
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Not sure how this is relevant to trp. But just make sure the place doesn't have rot or anything that would cost a pretty penny to fix (though this should be law be disclosed). Only thing to consider is things may break down on you over time (plumbing etc) then again some older houses were built better then modern ones. With decent furniture it will spruce it up and of course you can always renovate.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:58 AM
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Time to start using some dread, when she sees you have other options her New Years resolution will fall by the wayside faster then all the gym New Years resolutions. Also you may want to become emotionally unavailable. When she asks say if she wants to be sexually unavailable you're going to be emotionally unavailable. Make sure not to phrase it in a butt hurt way of course.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:53 AM
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Just to comment on this, most colleges do try to "suck people dry" but the bulk of funding for colleges comes from grants (research). And until recently government funding. Schools make a lot of the big bucks off alumni as well as ripping freshman off books. The main way you won't get your money's worth is to go to a private for-profit college ala ITT Tech or become an English or other dime a dozen major. Going to school in state and in a in demand field (engineering, STEM etc) has lots of schol…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:25 AM
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I'm a guy and I wouldn't care in the least. I actually would respect your decision, you only get one body in life so taking care of yourself is better then breaking your body down. I work with some men who are holding off on promotions because their health and enjoying life is more important and you should too. Also remember most guys don't care what your work is, excluding something's (prostitution etc). My advice is do what will best help you be happy because if your looking for a man and you …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 10:11 PM
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If she gave you her address to meetup she 99.99% wants the D. I would get some coffee with her and tell her you want to walk and talk (presuming its a nice day out say it's a nice day out let's walk). Then after you've chatted a short bit say something like "I'm a bit hungry lets go make something at my place" or "Let's go watch a movie at my place." Just find some reason. And then start making out etc. I wrote this pretty quick so just take the ideas from it and don't actually use the exacts. A…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 01:16 AM
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Where did you setup the location for the date. And as a side note remember if a girls on tinder they probably know it's a hookup app so don't be shy (don't go overboard of course either).
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:59 AM
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Definetely good suggestion and that will make her hamster go wild
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:42 AM
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Well from my personal standpoint remember not to put her on a pedestal or you'll let the blue pill creep back in. Now if you do want a relationship with her then its usually best to let the woman ask the question. One way I've noticed girls want sex is you'll see after sex for example she might be lost for words like she want's to say something. Remember though even girls who look like unicorns can become the very opposite. And the distance will not help. You will need to play extra strong game …
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:19 AM
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Did you set the time/place? Be a little playful. And don't think of it as impossible. If you do you're going to put your life into it as the failure of the date is the end of the world. This will result in her seeing your desperation and seeing you as bluepill. If she said you should hangout tomorrow give her a time and location (woman like when guys take the lead). And then like an hour before message her something teasing (not desperate) this is a good way to make sure she hasn't flaked. Tinde…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:14 AM
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Remember your abc's. Always be closing. It may be your just too scared of rejection so you need to work on that. Try making yourself approach people. And as you become more and more confident (doing what you enjoy etc) you'll care less and less about rejection.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:12 AM
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Since you want it to be a date just tease her about the reply. Like "I was in need of some arm candy, but a date works better." - That's a bad example but just do something playful.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:10 AM
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Theirs tons of apps out there fitness buddy etc. But you don't even need to worry about a regiment well strict one at the beginning. Just go to the gym and lift some weights (do lower body one day, biceps/back another, and triceps/front the next.) don't over exert yourself obviously but just do some cardio and you'll get a lot of energy from it after a while. It will give you something to do, and you'll eventually have girls in yoga pants and full makeup eyeing you and undressing you with their …
/r/askTRP27/09/14 04:24 AM
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