"Don't want to ruin our friendship" are you kidding me??

skyscan1 · 2015-09-26T20:48:10+00:00

He is scared of being rejected and blames your Friendship on his lack of initiative.

exilesoul · 2015-09-26T20:34:16+00:00

There's someone else. He's using you so word gets back to one he wants. Its just something people do sorry

loups-garoux · 2015-09-26T21:00:52+00:00

Hmm. You and he hooked up once; there's been no hookups since but a hug or kiss here and there. You're friends, or "friends".

He's got a GF already.
He tried you out for sex and he wasn't all that attracted to you because you're either (a) not hot enough for him; or (b) the sex wasn't all that great; or (c) he feels guilty about leading you on and is keeping you in his life because of his guilt.

I think 2(a) or (b) are most likely. If it's 2(c), he's an indecisive beta.

Title	"Don't want to ruin our friendship" are you kidding me??
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	September 26, 2015 8:24 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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