The hottest girl I've been sleeping with of late initiates contact much less frequently than I do (3:1). Whilst I know better than to do so and risk appearing desperate - she almost always agrees to come over. 20 mins of small talk, sex, 30 mins chill, and she leaves. Any resistance (e.g.I'm busy) from her has been met with silence or mild jerkboy game, at which point she'll usually offer up a better time.

At this point, I'd like to keep it going but I cbf making every move so I'm gonna pull 1-2 mths monk - effectively a soft next. If she shows interest down the line I'll consider my position at the time.

My question is whether her lack of initiation is a lack of interest?

I'm currently of the mindset that (in general, not just w/ this girl) I'm on the cusp of moving from a 'decent' guy, to a 'desired' guy.

Maybe I've answered my own question, but love to hear some feedback nonetheless!