To preface this post, I was drawn to theredpill after a few dates with, at the time, a very pretty girl. Shortly after this I found the redpill and realized the folly of my very needy/insecure ways. I utilized the pain of this situation to motivate myself to better my life. I've worked out hard, and ate well for the past 12 months. Got a raise at work, began socializing much more often, and started playing hockey and basketball several times a week. My previous oneitis is now beneath me and I find it funny to imagine how I could possibly be as infatuated with her as I was. Now, here's the issue, I am the exact same situation I was in before, except this time with a new league of women. I seem to be attracted to women that are always out of my league, and even through bettering myself, relativity places me exactly where I was before. With every plateau I reach, I constantly want more and seemingly, it feels as though I will never be happy with myself or my life. Has anyone experienced this issue? All I keep telling myself is to keep pushing forward, but I find this journey very lonely.