I went to a party Monday night. Some girl's 21st at her beach house, more of a kickback than a party, but still new and fun. Flirted with almost every girl there, some too drunk/high to care though. There was one girl though, she kept flirting back the whole night. She confused me with someone else (despite meeting me multiple times before) and was genuinely shocked when she found out I was not the guy she confused me with. She apologized profusely, yet I teased her and said she'd have to make it up to me. She seemed to like that idea.

Another hour or so and the party ends. She walks my friend and I outside (I was DD for him), and she apologizes again while giggling. I tell her to remember me next time, give her a hug and leave. We get in my car, but I then imagine Bill O'Reilly's voice in my head: "Fuck it! We'll do it live! Fuck it!". I drive back around and stop in front of the house, and tell my friend to wait in the car. I knocked on the door. Another person answered, told me she was in the kitchen. Went to the kitchen, she turned around, and I kissed her. Stopped a second, looked at each other, then she kissed me back. Finished, told her "you better remember me now" with a smirk on my face. I left, all I heard was her continued giggling.

She texted my friend afterward, told him that she "won't forget me this time", that "he's upfront about what he wants" and that "if I was ever interested in hitting her up it's cool". Also, my favorite: "He's always been quite kind and tonight was another level... So yea I dug it."

Take that chance and make known what you want. Don't pass up an opportunity, especially if a girl you find attractive is flirting with you. Who knows if I'll hook up with this chick again. I'm just happy I said "fuck it" and acted in the moment.