How to deal with a date who looks at other women?

[deleted] · 2015-05-31T21:19:27+00:00

All men have wandering eyes, we simply love looking at beautiful women.

However, no man is retarded enough not to know this is extremely disrespectul to do on a date. If your date is blatently doing this, then he's either a complete and utter moron or he simply doesn't give a fuck about giving you any respect.

Regardless of the reason, I would suggest nexting him, with an explanation such behaviour is simply unacceptable (just in case he's actually that fucking stupid).

RemyPrice · 2015-05-31T22:11:43+00:00

I've dated women who didn't give a shit, as long as I was honest.
I've dated women who thought it was inappropriate to do.
I've dated bi-sexual girls who checked out women with me.

Decide which one you are, and lay down your ground rules.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-05-31T23:31:37+00:00

Undo your top button.

Say something interesting.

stickfiguresk · 2015-05-31T20:48:39+00:00

It's up to you. It depends on how much you like him. Another option would be to wear a lower cut shirt, or a higher skirt on your next date. It is summer, after all.

AlphaAccountant · 2015-05-31T20:57:10+00:00

TLDR: What's the best way to deal with a guy with a ~~wondering eye~~ male?

If this if me, he's probably soft dreading you. Are you interested in him? If so, he's making it clear that he is has other options. Proof of it being you're on here asking wtf to do.

If you're 29 and still looking for your partner, well good luck. Cut out the bullshit and stop trying to seem uninterested. The fact that he spent any time with you, more than likely over the weekend (aka when free time is most valuable), means that he has decent interest and you should stop acting like a bitch about it.

[deleted] · 2015-05-31T22:54:15+00:00

My recent ex was always fine with me looking at other girls. She understood that I could look at them without it detracting from how attractive I found her.

There isn't a fixed pie, him admiring other women doesn't take anything from you

[deleted] · 2015-06-01T00:38:19+00:00

I highly recommend Red Pill Women for this type of question. I'm always impressed by their responses.

nummas · 2015-06-01T00:44:26+00:00

Lots of good points in the comments. I have been with bi-sexual girl, we both point out and comment on women. Been with girl that doesn't mind me looking, and in turn I'm cool with her checking out other guys. Also was with a girl that threw something at my head while I was driving because looked at another girl, instant next there. There is a fine line when on a date like this. If it was me, I'd be expected to be allowed to look but, not make it blatantly obvious, and put a majority of my time and energy into paying attention to the girl I'm on a date with. As long as you don't go to the date thinking that it's all 100% about you, as it's a date, not a committed relationship, you should be fine.

KingoftheAssholes · 2015-05-31T21:01:51+00:00

We're guys if a attractive woman is walking past us we're going to look. Also you're 29 years old your beauty probably starting to fade. Here's an analogy to make it simple. Your Kim Kardashin who men at one time found very hot but not that much anymore but now the same men want to fuck your younger sisters Kendell and kylie. So you can next this guy and next guy that does something you don't like but your dating pool is about to get much smaller. Plus if this guy has a wondering eye he's probably not going to call you again so problem solve.

hibloodstevia · 2015-05-31T20:48:40+00:00

Sounds like he may be nexting you. But this doesn't sound like a good match either way.

Title	How to deal with a date who looks at other women?
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Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	May 31, 2015 8:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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