I give an asexual vibe around women. I don't escalate, and if things are going well I quickly sabotage it. What do?

noonzftf · 2015-05-21T22:29:13+00:00

Listen to manipulated man, I'm at 4 hours its great.

prodigy2throw · 2015-05-21T23:38:25+00:00

Read the ama by ChrisBale on seduction. He details what's going on in your head and how to change your frame and goals with women.

One main thing is reminding yourself that there's nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to someone and letting it be known explicitly.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-05-22T00:31:03+00:00

How do you become good at anything?

Do you read a maths book and then immediately go take the test? Do you learn pickup and then immediately go to fuck Paris Hilton? No.

You PRACTICE.

So practice. Approach girls and challenge yourself to hi5 them in the first 2 minutes. Repeat 10 times. Then challenge yourself to hug them, move on to holding their hand. Small steps are not glorious or anything, they are monotonous and repetitive but they guarantee success.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-05-22T04:05:52+00:00

You need to find a fat slut who has the patience to break you out of your shell. Seriously, I know it sounds bad, but no one has to know about it. You need to get comfortable touching and talking sexy with women. You're starting at - 9000, and you need to get over it. Just don't fall in love with her, or try to form some kind of serious relationship, make it clear from the beginning that's "just fun".

Title	I give an asexual vibe around women. I don't escalate, and if things are going well I quickly sabotage it. What do?
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Date	May 21, 2015 10:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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You PRACTICE.