So my LTR right now is about an 8-8.5 easy and at this point we have a great relationship. She adores me and thinks I am the best guy she ever met, like literally since meeting me she has gone from a high dosage antidepressant to being completely off of them in a matter of months. When I first met her she was pretty shy and innocent but in only a few months she has really blossomed into something wonderful. She's always doing nice things to make me happy and she confides Red Pill Truths in me all the time, like "I love all my male friends! They are amazing but I just could never date them, you know what I mean? The friendzone definitely exists" (literally no shit) or "I just love that I don't have to worry about anything with you. You are always in charge and you have a plan and that makes me trust you fully. It really feels great that I can open up and be myself around you (express all her feminine energy) since you make me feel so confident and happy" (because I completely exemplify male the energy. I believe a couple is always a balance between male and female energy and if the guy doesn't take the reigns and be the guy, then the girl has to which she hates) Plus I've turned her into my personal slut where literally everything I've ever asked for was met with enthusiasm and screams of pleasure.

However, I am one man against the world and as much as I do to keep her grounded, not treat her like a princess, and hold her accountable for her actions there are always betas surrounding her putting her on a pedestal. She's a young blonde co-ed with DDs so naturally guys hit on her everywhere. Just last Saturday I was at a concert so she went out with her friends and in one Saturday night I shit you not no less than 10 guys put her on a pedestal. First the owner of the Mexican restaurant they went to gave her and her friends a free bottle of tequila for no reason and then sat with them the rest of dinner and called her the Princess of Mexico the entire time. Then she goes to a party that night and gets hit on one after another by thirsty guys telling her she's beautiful even though they all know she's dating me. Also at this party she gets texts from three different drunk guys all spilling their purse about how in love with her they are and that they've wanted her forever. One, from their star basketball player (white guy at a D1 school mind you) was one of the saddest things I've ever read, and this happened 3 times in one night. If that's not enough, she was the DD so on the way home she drove through Jack in the Box for her friends and just because she was pretty she got the whole meal free and was called a 'beautiful princess.' I can't make this shit up.

My question is how do you deal with these kinds of things. I trust her fully and know she isn't gonna cheat on me, but it sucks when she tells me these stories with an inflated opinion of herself after I have tried hard to erase this mindset from her. Society is full of losers and they are giving her exactly what I have tried hard to remove from her life. She understands that they are just pedestalizing her but I've never met a girl who didn't let constant validation get to her head. Is this a serious issue or am I overreacting?

Edit: here is the text conversation: http://imgur.com/BKpBJ43 guy literally asks to jack off on her while she lays there

Edit 2: Okay trust her fully was the wrong vernacular. However she knows I have options because she always tells me when when other girls are checking me out, plus at this point I have to assume I am by far her best option. That being said she also knows that I don't take any bullshit and will drop her no questions asked if she's unloyal. The problem is she's too nice and she never flat out rejects anyone even in situations like this. Instead of phrasing it like "fuck you I have a boyfriend stop talking to me" which I would prefer its like "I'm so sorry but I have a boyfriend that I really care for and I would never do anything to hurt him. I'm not like that."