I'm 19 in Uni, I met this older japanese girl in school, we've known each other for about 4-7 months now. I invited her to see a movies, we ended up eating out because she didn't have a valid ID for the R-movie. We talk and it goes good. I now tell her I like her and want to go some where else. Am I being a Beta? Am I desperate for affection? Am I trying to hard? I think I am.