Hey gents. An update to this post which, tl;dr involved a solid date that ended with a make out session despite the fact that I wanted things to go further.

Most people agreed that it was a good start, and so did I, until the next morning. She texts me when she wakes up saying she went out drinking at like one AM despite the fact that she refused me at like 10 PM to watch a movie because of 'laundry' and 'she'd be locked out'. I'm kind of pissed and go no-contact for a bit. Thursday is the big 'party night' on our campus and she does indeed go party (to a party I'm not able to get in because I'm not in a frat... Definitely rectifying that situation next semester) all night long.

I'm concerned about whether or not this chick is wasting my time and taking me along for some fucked up ride. I honestly think she is an alcoholic, drinking is ALL she fucking does. She freely admits that she gets drunk and stupid all the time and ends up throwing herself at guys. She must have told me about this ugly guy she hooked up with and really regrets at least 10 times, I've been giving off vibes of 'DGAF' and all but saying she's a slut who gets what she deserves. I've been making fun of her saying she's faking being drunk, etc.

Today I drove home for the weekend and decided to give her a shot to redeem her BS via text. Not sure how I handled this.

Me: What you doing today? Let's do something before I go home.

Her: I'm about to help [friend] with math. I work at 5 gotta leave at like 4:30.

Me: And how long is that going to take?

Her: I dunno depends on how much she has.

Me: Make time then.

[time passes, we continue to text. It's past 3:30, they've been doing math but definitely seem in no rush]

Me: I'm going home.

Her: I'm bout to get my car so I can put my stuff in it before work

Me: You're slow as fuck.

Her: Nah I don't have to leave until 4:30

Me: Not too slow for work. Too slow for me.

Her: Well I'm in no type of hurry today. Did too much last night for that.

Me: Mhmm. Last chance to persuade me to stay.

Her: You gotta see your family lol

Me: Smh such a waste of time. Later sexy.

I went NC for a while and she later asked what I meant by that and if "I meant her, then whatevs." Later on I straight up asked her if she was a waste of time and she says, "I mean I don't think anyone thinks of themselves as a waste of time. You may think different though idk"

Also got into a discussion about 'being nice', I made it clear that I wasn't nice and why should I be, anyways, and she responded with 'I like nice people.' I think I held frame by saying "I guess we can't talk then' and she changed the subject... Back to the ugly dude she slept with.

As I said not sure how to handle this. Definitely didn't see this slutty side of her when we went on a date and I definitely felt a little more compassion from her when we were making out then she's exhibiting here. I've made it clear to her that there are other women I'm persuing and that she's definitely not the prettiest girl I've been with (she saw some pictures of my 9/10 ex). What's your sage wisdom?