Background info, me and my wife have been together two years and were married in January.

We met through work and started talking due to a mutual interest in BDSM. We have a Dom/sub Daddy/babygirl dynamic.

A little before out marriage I lost frame (pre redpill)badly and she started talking to a man from fetlife.com who lives on the other side of the USA. The conversation was of course about bdsm, scenes ect.

I broke things off and she openly cut contact blocked him ect. I ended up accepting her back....(mistake).

At this point we've been married since mid January and I started snooping when she was at work. Found out she added him on Skype after she "blocked" him on fetlife and their conversation continued, developing as an emotional affair (only because he's to far to be physical) until Jan 20, 5 days before the wedding she told him not to contact her again that "what their doing is wrong" and blocked him.

She created a new Skype account and abandoned her old one.

At this point we're married and she's pregnant (mine it was planned).

She forgot to log out of the old account on one computer before she moved in with me, I snooped when hooking it up.

I left a letter next to it and left it on the Skype chat and went to work, ignored about 6 phonecalls to find a Facebook status about comitting suicide.

Since then I refused to engage or comfort her in any way for a few days at which point when I noticed she could barely walk. She said the stress made her morning sickness so bad she couldn't hold down water and she started cutting her inner thigh.

After the trip to the ER and IV fluids she's been spotting. She's tried everything she can think of to make me engage her and the hamster stopped. She admitted everything she had done admitted to telling him she loved him. And then wanted him to just go away after he started acting clingy.

I calmly explained the image she portrayed was that of a whore, and that I no longer trusted her and no longer respected her.

I've since started holding her and giving her some comfort to prevent the loss of my child. In our dynamic I regard her in the manner you would a teenage daughter in that I'm firm strict yet always loving.

In the end she gave me the password to every account she owned everything from email to Facebook ,get like to random websites and she did indeed end things before we were married. She's randomly come up to apologize to me about 50 times in the last week. We discussed things in length and she's aware that there will be no more chances, that any sign of infidelity would result in the end of the relationship regardless of the pregnancy.

As I'm new to TRP I would ask advice as to hjow I could have handled things better and how I should continue on to prevent things from reoccurring as I as of yet do not wish to end things.

Any advice is greatly appreciated and I apologize if my writing is had to comprehend as English is a second language.