My biggest problem is that I am not meeting new women. I can't meet them in my classes because most of my classes have about two women in them.
I tried to join clubs but one club was too hard for me to get in to this late in the semester and I will have to join next semester. Another club is enjoyable but doesn't have very many women. I will try my luck with one or two other clubs before the semester is over. I'm not joining the clubs specifically because I am looking for women but it would be a nice benefit.
I've tried parties but didn't have much success. Either way, there are only parties on the weekend and I would like to have a way of meeting women during the week.
Currently, my only "go to" is university events and they work pretty well but I can't rely on them as my only way to meet women. For example, if I wanted to go meet women on a Thursday my best bet would be to study in a coffee shop and hope there is an opportunity I can take.
I don't want it to sound like I am making excuses but this is what my experience has been.
I've had a couple of missed opportunities where I didn't escalate or I didn't pursue but I imagine that this is just part of the learning process. It doesn't happen often. I've also met women seemingly out of nowhere but this is so rare that I can't just rely on women falling in to my lap.
People always say to "approach 2-5 women per week" but I'm just not finding these women to approach.
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