Hey guys,

Had another first date this week and just have a few more questions. Met up and the date went ok, much better than the last one. Only thing I could really say that was bad was that we went for lunch and were sitting opposite each other although it seemed to go fine despite this. Lasted about an hour and then we went our separate ways.

When we were saying goodbye she said see you sometime soon, or looking forward to seeing you again, something along those lines. I took this as a sign that she was interested in a second date and so said yeah and left it at that. I'm interested in going to her place and watching a movie with her and hopefully escalating that to something more. I don't really care what as I'm quite new to this and would be happy with a make out and anything else beyond that.

Here's the catch: I went on Tinder to match with other girls after the date, to try set something up in case things fell through with her or didnt go any further and noticed that the girl I was on a date with has unmatched me.

Does this mean that because she unmatched me the deal is done? I'm trying to figure out why she would say that she was interested in seeing me again and then unmatch me later on. And where do I go from here? I still have her number and we mostly texted to communicate. Can I text her in a few days saying I want to come over to hers and watch a movie with her or should I not text anything and wait for her to text me?

Loving this sub and all the help, feedback, criticisms and advice I've been getting.

Thanks!