In the first relationship after taking TRP to heart. I contract in the middle east, so I am gone about 11 months of the year. She knew this when we started. I could list the reasons its worth keeping her around but just cut it down to she seems to have her head on right. Good job, plans for future serious business, fun to be around. I don't have the one'itis. Never committed to anything, I have just kept it casual. She has loved it for about a year now.

Today I get the first full press shit test. She compleatly takes something I said by email incorrectly. She asked if I was going to have time after this contract to hang out and get to know one another better. I said I would most likely be around for about 4 months then go thru hike the Appalachian trail. She flips shit, says I didn't answer the question, she has been committed to me for the year, attacks my wish for my thru hike at least three times in this email, tries to guilt me into...... something.

I loose a bit of frame, guilt tripping me pisses me off more than anything in the world, I have stopped dates cold on the first guilt trip. I point out everything she said that was false, warned her that she tried to guilt trip me into action again and we would have issues. Told her to reread what I wrote and if I said what she thinks I did, that maybe I wasn't what she should be looking for in a guy.

I guess I need review on what the hell happened. Why such a stupid shit test, and if I over reacted. Even then, she tries any more guilt trips on me she is gone. To bad, she is a nice girl, good head on her shoulders, and great in bed.