so my mum has been trying to grab as much cash as she can to send to set up a new life outside of the country - australia. Dad is working his ass off and trying to look after the family, just today I overheard a conversation where mum was begging the welfare guys on the phone to change change the recipient of the welfare money back to her saying bullshit like "my children's clothes are torn and their beds are dirty". Dad needs the cash to support the family. Anything I can do?