So I (24M) have been seeing this woman for about a year now, and I have questions. We are in a good spot, I am being treated as I want, but some questions about her situation and how it affects me keep running through my head.

The woman in question is 24 years old and has slept with an average of 2 or 3 men a year since becoming sexually active. Her number now totals 20 men. Her past includes FWB, LTR, ONS, and Dating scenarios. She is loyal within relationships. She is sexually experienced, but has never ventured far from missionary and doggy. She has been the aggressor in her relationships, and done the dumping 100% of the time (in command of her own sex life, not passively getting 'picked up'). She is well educated and dresses conservatively. She is well spoken. She has a varied group of friends. She is in control.

She has never been truly 'in love', though she explored the idea.

Where does TRP stand on this woman? Common perception seems to dictate that her number and number alone slate her as a 'slut', yet she has no tendency towards promiscuous behaviours such as multiple partners, simultaneous relationships, drunken 'mistakes', STDs, unprotected sex, or even engaging in oral sex outside of long-term relationships.

Is it not possible for a woman to be the master of her own fate, explore her options, and keep a level head? Why, in the age of birth control and condoms, is she still judged based on 'science' that declares her "unsuitable for marriage", "incapable of pair-bonding", or somehow the product of feminist propaganda/media brainwashing.

Human evolution is at a standstill in the physical aspect. However, we continue to evolve via our minds. Is it not possible that technology and society have developed to a point where sexual activity is truly equal for both sexes? Could we be living in the age of the 'responsible slut'? Where do we draw the line? What are the deal-breakers? Is a woman really the sum of her past, or should we be reading between the lines? Have red flags become more subtle?

I guess the heart of the matter is: am I wasting my time here? I'm young and still desire a single life in my 20s, but I am receiving everything I need from this woman.