I'm a good conversationalist, but struggle escalating physically with women unless she's really flirty and makes it easy for me.

I'll often have good dates in terms of conversation but hit a road block by not escalating things. I know it's critical and needs to be done.

I'm just looking for a list of small moves to get things rolling. Also, date tips for activities that would put me into a position to get some physical contact. A lot of my first dates are basic meet and greets for a drink or two. I hug when we meet, we have maybe two drinks and talk for an hour - two hours, then hug, maybe a peck goodbye and that's it. If I like her and want a second date out of it, I'll do something more fun that allows me to get more physical contact on the second date.

Any websites, reading material, or tips would be great.

Thanks guys.