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Turning old friend into FWB. Had sex twice so far, today she flaked

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October 14, 2014
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Title Turning old friend into FWB. Had sex twice so far, today she flaked
Author

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Upvotes 3
Comments 9
Date October 14, 2014 11:58 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2j9o5w/turning_old_friend_into_fwb_had_sex_twice_so_far/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/turning-old-friend-into-fwb-had-sex-twice-so-far.193816
https://theredarchive.com/post/193816
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[–]AskTRP Endorsed ContributorAlphaAsFAQ1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]trpthrowaway2day0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

thanks for the reply....good insight...a couple things:

"He has dick issues again, no big deal, but he is getting all worked up, apologising and trying really hard to impress her."

no apologizing...didnt think i came off as trying hard...dick eventually worked, didnt act romantic or validation seeking (from my perspective of course)

"A week goes past and he is pestering her on text trying to make up for his perceived failures. She only wanted some casual sex but now this guy is getting needy, appearing pathetic and showing way too much interest. She decides to next him by flaking on date invites which she assumed to be the standard way of letting a guy know that it's over."

There was 1 text sent on Saturday to chill (she said no) and 3 yesterday from me (in a back and forth about logistics today which flaked, no other contact). I agree with what ur saying but I didnt respond today to her.

3 months is a long time, but maybe its necessary....if she does reinitiate contact in the next couple weeks I will act unavailable.

"How you responded to your ED might have convinced her that you are too into her and that put her off. It was not because your dick wasn't hard, it was because you were so concerned that your dick wasn't hard. As soon as she realised you were more interested in her than she was in you, she checked out."
truth

only reason i was willing to lose the condom is i know this girls number count is very low

[–]AskTRP Endorsed ContributorAlphaAsFAQ1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheOneWhoWokeUp1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This is probably a shit test. She is trying to gauge your frame, just as long as you don't break frame, you can try a couple different things towards this shit test.

[–]trpthrowaway2day0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

like what?

[–]TheOneWhoWokeUp-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Tell her you don't put up with that kind of behavior?

In all honesty it depends on the frame you have already established with her. (That will require you to do a little thinking on your own.)

[–]trpthrowaway2day0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

seems like breaking frame with her would be coming off as emotionally affected, but ya i do want to make it clear this isnt what i put up with

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[–]trpthrowaway2day0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the reply. Asktrp is great.

Yeah doing no contact for sure. It's tough but I realize it's the only shot to DHV and get her wondering whether I am an option for her again.

"If I had to guess I'd say she's prolly legit busy or at the very least see you with other women." can you rephrase the 2nd part?

I don't have her exact partner count but in the past 6 years she's been with 1 guy up until at least may, meaning MAYBE there have been 3 including me since then. (I know....no excuses...will wrap it up next time)

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