Meeting girls after being an incel?

crazycattime · 2014-10-01T13:07:23+00:00

This is a pure inner game situation. Hit the gym, work on your abundance mentality, and fail your way to glory.

You're not going to go from incel to jackhammer overnight. Just keep practicing and try to let the inevitable pathetic mistakes become opportunities to improve. If you don't give up, if you keep trying, the most horrific beta backsliding will be only a funny story your future self uses to swoop a girl you can't even approach now.

Forget your incel time, focus on the groovy frood you will become.

[deleted] · 2014-10-01T14:40:25+00:00

Understand that you're going to fail before you succeed. Then appreciate that this OK. You have to crawl before you can walk, and there's going to be a lot of times you fall on your butt during that transition. Just remind yourself if one particular girl doesn't want you there are billions of others that will.

In the meantime, keep working out and eating right, go get some new (more fashionable) clothes, and find one new hobby that puts you in contact with the opposite sex. Rock climbing is a good way to hit two out of three on that list with one activity.

[deleted] · 2014-10-01T13:20:49+00:00

I'm just now starting to meet chicks again

[Fixed] I'm just now starting to live an exciting life and receiving attention from chicks again

Soultrane9 · 2014-10-01T16:16:19+00:00

You force yourself out of your comfort zone. You approach, burn, learn. Repeat until success. No "tips" exist. No short cuts exist. You embrace the difficulty and expand your limits.

Or you can masturbate in the corner between two League of Legends games.

vandaalen · 2014-10-01T17:09:31+00:00

Meeting and fucking chicks that are below my league did the trick for me. They will have insecurity issues as well, will be much more thankful amd show this to you.

They will also be much more tolerant on you failing shit-tests.

Meet them and bang them like an animal, make them scream for more, make them cum multiple times. If you can't get it up because of excitement then finger them and lick them until they explode. Learn how to make then squirt.

Then watch what happens in the aftermath. Don't worry what if you don't get it right at the first date. You will get at least a second shot. Just because you know how to groom and dress yourself and how to behave at least a little bit alpha-like will make you stick out of their last dating experiences. Believe me.

Find a pdf of The Sex God Method, read it right now and try to apply it imediately.

[deleted] · 2014-10-01T16:42:26+00:00

because of my previous situation

did you grew your dick over night?

You have alwaysed been a man, does the fact that you didn't carry baggs of potatoes when you where young prevent you from becoming a body builder?

How do I combat these feelings?

By having fun and not focusing on outcome or technique.

Title	Meeting girls after being an incel?
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Upvotes	7
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Date	October 1, 2014 12:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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