Whoo-boy you guys. It's happened, and I'd been doing so well too! I'm actually falling for a girl again. Really falling. I don't want to fuck it up, but I'm somewhat new to TRP, and certainly not a seasoned professional. So I come to you for conversation, perspective, and advice.

Relationship summery: We met, she showed a somewhat over-the-top amount of interest, and we've gone on 2 "dates" thus far. 1st one was for a snack and a drink at a coffee-house, and 2nd was for a somewhat fancy meal at an Italian joint. We have plans to go out again for a picnic this coming Monday.

Nw on to the meat of the situation. At the end of our last date I asked her two questions, One, did she she want to go out again on Monday(to which she giddily replied yes), and two: Could I kiss her?

I know I KNOW I fucked uppp so hard with that one.

She started grinning and playing with her hair and got all nervous and said "No, but only because I've never been kissed before..." And then launched into a story about how she was glad I asked because it's been awkward before with heads bumping together and the whole backing away thing.

I also probably acted too "into" her on that second date which may have contributed to that rejection.

Now, keep in mind we're both 21, and this girl hasn't ever been kissed before. That says unicorn to me. She's "In the family way", in that her major goal in life is to raise a happy family. She's a really warm person, and super feminine, right up my alley, but I'm afraid that I might like her too much and it'll drive her away.

(I should note that this is not oneitis, I do have 2 plates on the go in addition to this girl. I just think this one has the most LTR potential of any girl I've seen so far.)

Metes about me: I direct all the dates. I tell her what time we're going out, the place, the plan, etc. I lift regularly, and although not jacked a-la Dwayne Johnson, I have considerable muscle mass and look good clothed and naked. However, where I think I fucked up is that on our last date, I had her talking most of the time, with me listening, commenting, and providing insight. I didn't spend enough time making fun of her, and I'm SURE I gave out too many compliments. I also was probably paying her too much attention.

My intentions are clear, and she seems receptive, but she has literally no romantic history. She decides things based on how she "feels" (read "tingles") and I know that I need to quickly start generating more of those before I get locked out. She also has no male friends if that means anything to anyone.

TLDR; Just started seeing a cute kiss-less chick(21), she seems like good LTR material but I think I might like her too much and that my interest will put her off.

Ps: the "over-the-top" IOI I mentioned early was this: She left a sticky note on my door with her number on it inviting me to call her. This was after we talked for maybe 2 minutes in passing on the way home.