So, I've never had trouble getting girls. I'm an actor for a living, so my career literally consists on faking confidence and convincing people that they like me and want to spend time with me (auditions), so approaching has never been an issue with me, same with rejection, not an issue.

That being said, here's my problem.

I've been on the blue pill for a very long time. In my time on the blue pill, I started a relationship that I am still currently in. We are approaching our 4th year anniversary. For the first year or 2 of our relationship, I would hide anything from my girlfriend that I had going on with other girls. I'm a talented liar. Eventually, though, I openly approached her about what was going on, and she was actually really supportive and said I should find other women to sleep with, and that given the right girl, she might even want to join in.

And then the problems arose. A) I'm finding it difficult to find women ok sleeping with me once they know I have a girlfriend of 4 years and b) the times that I've hidden it from them (which I feel like I shouldn't have to, since it's definite beta/female behavior), there's still the issue of getting them alone since my girlfriend and I live together in a one bedroom apartment and it's very definitely OUR apartment and not mine, if that makes any sense. Toiletries and pictures and the like.

So, I'm at a bit of a loss for what to do. I won't move out because a) I do love my girlfriend and she's a definite keeper long term, and b) it's way cheaper having a roommate in a one bedroom instead of a two bedroom. And I can't really think of many other option that don't involve just straight up lying which I refuse to do.

I've tried getting the gf to run the show and help pick up the women with me, but again 2 problems. A) Seems kinda lame getting her to do the work for me and B) she's been kind of awkward in the situations we've tried it and not too terribly helpful.