first post here http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2dglt4/fucked_up_how_should_i_have_handled_this/

tldr - run into girl ive known for awhile at a party, she initially rejects me because I used to have a semi serious thing with her sorority sister. literally grabs me and makes out with me 10 mins later. but becomes colder when i text her later.

so a couple days go by, we text a little, and eventually make plans to meet up at house party last night. her tone over text still seemed kind of cool and distant even though it seemed pretty clear she wanted to meet me.

so eventually i run into her, we have a dumb flirty drunk conversation and make out a little. her friend comes out of a nearby room and my girl walks over to her and asks if they're leaving. at this point my buddy who i haven't seen for awhile walks by and i start a conversation with him. turn around and shes gone.

right then my friends who i came with said they're leaving so i say fuck it and we leave. walking down the street back to my place with my friends and we end up walking right behind her and her friend. i didn't notice until they stopped and we walked by and she says "hi asap!" we walk and talk for a minute before she says she's going to a frat house. so i say ok later. and she says bye and walks away. doesn't even look up or anything.

later she texts me "lol". i should've just ignored it but i was REALLY fucked up at that point and i asked "what". she says "nothing"

so what's this girl's deal? when i see her she's all into me. but then it's like she doesn't give a fuck. i don't plan on talking to her again unless she texts me