Essentially, I got far too mad at this particular girl I was seeing due to a mixture of her stupidity and too much alcohol on my part. Told her to never message me again. She then starts messaging me apologising and I keep frame but take it too far and she started to really dislike me. Normally I don't really care but she's incredibly intertwined in my social circle. So beta me apologises to her after a few days and she accepts it, though things like "It will never be the same" are said on her part. I tell her I don't really care as long as we're good. Basically, right now we are no where near on as good of terms as we were but we are ok.

Now, the obvious solution is to just next her, and deal with the fact that I fucked up. I can do that, but my question is if I was to try and get her, what should I do? Is it possible to just restart with the frame I had when I first met her which ended with her sleeping me, after enough time has passed?

I wanna know because I'm seeing a lot of girls from high school due to 21sts and what not, and since I was such a beta loser in high school I would like to know if I should even bother having a crack at these girls who saw me at my worst.

Cheers

TL;DR fucked up massively and beta'd out. Potential to re-spark interest by going back to what I was like when I first met her?