How to pass "I feel you don't respect me" shit test.

cray-cray-cray · 2014-07-15T22:32:43+00:00

Why did you say no to her staying over?

Also, "I feel like you don't respect me or even care about me as a friend." could be due to a lot of reasons. In fact, shit like that can come up because of some offhand comment you made 2 weeks ago that you have no memory of.

My only response... and not immediately, would be "What do you mean?" And after that, I'd probably go silent until I thought she actually said it. Then I'd go from there.

Greyletter · 2014-07-15T22:46:11+00:00

Maybe you should respect her or care about her?

BorMato · 2014-07-16T02:21:47+00:00

"Do you deserve my respect?"

WhitePhillip · 2014-07-16T04:04:24+00:00

She doesn't care about your boundaries or comfort. She's the one being disrespectful.

Explain to get that as time goes on she will receive more intimate time (if that's the case) but don't allow yourself to be bullied into things you don't want.

Title	How to pass "I feel you don't respect me" shit test.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	July 15, 2014 8:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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