I'm going to frame this as a hypothetical question, even though its grounded in reality...

Imagine you have the choice between two women to be your LTR partner. You're a 30/M, steady job with benefits, TRP minded, pretty happy in life, and ready to settle down with a woman in marriage.

Woman #1: Very attractive (HB8+), brilliant (Ivy League in undergrad, going to law school), and ambitious (just got a job at a top-tier lawfirm). She's Indian, and is STRONGLY influenced by her conservatively minded family. They want her to get married ASAP to a high-quality man. However, although she acknowledges some RP truths, she INSISTS that she wants a "partner" who is not higher quality than her. However, whenever you flirt and bicker with her, she pulls a ton of shit tests, and insists on being the more powerful person in the relationship. She also insists that you court her for a long while as a "friend" before things become romantic. She is giving strong IOIs, but you imagine that she'll be a tumultuous wife who will constantly demand to be the most powerful partner. Sexual partner count: 1. Doesn't feel strongly about having children; wants to prioritize her career as a lawyer.

Woman #2: Attractive (HB7), smart (good undergrad college), and very TRP minded. Her mother has actually encouraged her to embrace some TRP tenents. Her family is very strong, all supportive of each other, and they're wealthy with island property. She's a lot of fun to be with, but not as brilliant as you might like. The sex is great, very few (if any) shit tests, and she's okay with being the subordinate partner. She's absolutely infatuated with you, very supportive, and makes life pretty awesome. You could easy see having a family with her. Sexual partner count 3.

I was going to put my assessment here, but I'll leave it to TRP to reply...