So recently i have lost much interest in women. That doesn't mean i don't want to fuck one but i usually don't want to put much effort.

Recently a chick who dumped me and because of whom i discovered TRP out of the blue followed me on instagram. When i first discovered trp i thought of putting all the work to just get her back. And now when she came back i don't want her. It's not that i have improved much but i would just stay alone rather than be with her. I just don't see having anything new being with her.

But if my guy-friends knew i would not accept a girl back, they would call me dumb and stupid.

Recently a girl i liked moved to USA. I was pretty heartbroken because i had every chance with her but just took it for granted and now she was gone. I thought i would never move on and i was still having the thought that one day we might meet. Now fast forward to 2 days later, i don't care much if we don't meet. I mean if she reached out first, i might think about it but i know it'll be years and i won't care because there will be another girl in my life.

I don't have much male friends whom i can call bros. They might include me in my plans but only as a tag-along. And i have stopped hanging out with many of my friends who treat me like tag alongs. I would rather stay at home and do something than go out as a tag-along.

Before i would put much much effort even if i knew the girl didn't liked me. Now i just don't care. That being said i don't hate any of the girl who dumped me in the past( except that one chick). Because most of the reasons that i was dumped was because of my own faults. I wasn't a good leader, i was beta. I was still a child. I relied on them more than they relied on me. I still wish good for them as most of them were quite supportive when they were with me.

Is this because of trp and stoicism?