I'm a 21 year old dude in college. I've been casually seeing this girl for about 4 months now. She was really into me in the beginning, always texting me and wanting to fuck. I dropped a different plate about 2 months ago. This is where my troubles began.

She became my my only access to sex, and because she was always down to hang out, I stopped actively looking for other girls. I opened up emotionally, and not gonna lie, I was head-over-heels. Cuddling every time after sex/spending the night, talking about past relationships, texting just to talk... We were hanging out at least twice a week, usually more. I was trying out a different anti-depressant that made me super anxious about personal relationships in general, but there's only so much I can blame on the medication.

I snapped out of it, but it might be too late. Long story short, I can tell she's been losing attraction for a while now. I haven't seen/texted her in a week, and with the weekend coming up, I don't know if I should hit her up. She would've made a GREAT plate if I spun it right, but I fucked up. Should I cut my losses and just ghost until she contacts me, or should I send her a message over the weekend, and just demonstrate high value when we meet?