I stumbled upon this webcomic today /r/marriageisbliss. It captures some of the behaviors men, especially married ones should avoid in relationships. I think it's a good mention here, because sometimes its helpful to see behaviors depicted, here rather than simply reading about them.

Look at this guy, do you want to be him? The thing you need to realize when looking at this comic, is that the way the main character is depicted is from his wife's point of view. His features, his washed up broken demeanor...this is how your wife probably sees you.

Do you even lift?

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