How to internalize the fact that I am my own judge?

bogeyd6 · 2016-08-14T00:03:38+00:00

Hi there! This post is being removed and I encourage you to post this at /r/askmrp where these types of posts are accepted. It's still MRP, but its for asking the basic questions.

[deleted] · 2016-08-13T23:14:13+00:00

Does God judge you?

bangorlol · 2016-08-13T23:18:08+00:00

In response to taking care of yourself and your happiness first: You're a wolf in a pack of at least two. You're the primary hunter and are responsible for delivering the killing blow to your prey. Food is scarce and your strength is dwindling due to malnutrition. Are you going to let your pack have at the latest kill before eating your fill, or are you going to take what belongs to you so you can secure more food for them in the future?

TL;DR: The alpha male eats first.

[deleted] · 2016-08-13T23:47:21+00:00

I have been digesting the pill for about 11 months now, and I'm still not sure if my marriage can be saved, or if I even want it to be,

Once I mentally threw in the towel on saving her marriage, things started getting better fast. A year and a half after coming to MRP, "a switch flipped" and the girl I married has reappeared. Might just be a mirage, only time will tell, but I will be fine either way.

[deleted] · 2016-08-13T23:48:57+00:00

This is why I dislike organized religion- but see if this helps.

God put you on this earth. He gave you the ability to make choices.

Letting God judge you based on His knowledge of you and the obstacles in your way - therefore knowingly judge the whole soul is very different from being concerned with the judgement of mere Men.

Moses was judged by God not the Israelites ... Isn't that So?

onmyownpath · 2016-08-13T23:57:17+00:00

God knows English. He also knows your wife. Why doesn't he just tell you what you should do?

The Bible is a historic book, written by people in the time and culture different from our own. You have to be able to separate cultural rules from the actual morals of God.

Bottom line... Did God put you here to be happy? Did he choose your wife or did you?

Title	How to internalize the fact that I am my own judge?
Author	hambley
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	August 13, 2016 10:52 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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