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Say what you want. If it's useful or resonates within the community, it'll get upvoted or prompt a discussion. If it's shit-tier advice or a super soaker of shitwater, it'll settle at the bottom.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 03:59 PM
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Also just a quick note on this bit: My wife is quite intelligent and very manipulative. She wants to be equals on this project and she wants to drive it. My wife is about to get her doctorate in a medical field (and objectively way smarter than I am), and all women are manipulative. She still looks to me for guidance and leadership because I showed her how smooth and easy everything goes if she relinquishes her need to be in control in our household. Not really the typical reading suggestion her…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:46 PM
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You're missing a really important potential teaching moment if you don't involve her. You're in charge of the project, and she is your employee if you bring her onto it. Lay down the boundary early, and stick to it. If she crosses the line in any area, you get to fire her and demonstrate your word is your bond and you have the ability to follow through on it. Worst case scenario is you end up right where you are now - with a pissy wife who isn't involved in the project. What do you have to lose …
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:37 PM
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Remove all of the real estate stuff and look at this like assembling IKEA furniture. You both want to have a part in putting the shoddy piece of shit together, but you both want to take different paths to get it done. You likely want to just jump in since you've assembled similar pieces before and it's a pretty simple process - toss the legs on and flip it over. She wants to read the instructions in English and verify they say the same thing as the Swedish one by running it through google transl…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:22 PM
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Rent a storage unit and fill it with equipment. I know people that do that here in the states because they hate waiting for people to get off the racks.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 06:44 PM
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Fair point.
/r/askMRP22/05/17 04:04 PM
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I've seen this exact scenario play out with a good friend of mine and his family a couple of times. He handled it by parenting everyone in the house - he spoke in kind of an absolute tone, telling her to cut the shit and pointed out (accurately) that her behavior was twice as bad as their son's. She apologized to him, me, and her son for flipping out and their son apologized for being a little turd about food (he was like 5-6 at the time). His wife and kid just needed to be reminded that dad was…
/r/askMRP22/05/17 04:02 PM
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Forehead kisses are a powerful thing. My wife will get all pissy about something I'm doing or saying, so I'll ignore her and just grab her head, bring it to me, and kiss her on the forehead and change the subject/make a joke. Instantly disarms her. They live for the rollercoaster of being livid one second to melting the next.
/r/askMRP22/05/17 03:45 PM
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My wife is pretty damn intelligent and is on board with the whole RPT train. Since she's honest with herself for the most part, she's able to see the flaws women can have in a relationship that ultimately cause their demise. This does not mean that she doesn't exhibit the same behaviors, because she definitely does, but we can call them out for what they are and adjust them very easily - this often times leads to discussions on sexual strategy/abundance mentality/preselection/alpha v beta dynami…
/r/askMRP18/05/17 07:10 PM
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Ding. A healthy amount of IDGAF goes a long way.
/r/askMRP17/05/17 03:34 AM
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Either that or she did what my wife does: fixate until neurotic.
/r/askMRP17/05/17 03:32 AM
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I vocalized the following policy in my marriage: "If you are dishonest with me, I will leave. If you cheat on me, I will leave. If I even get the feeling that you're doing either of these things, I'll leave and you'll never see or hear from me again.". If my wife is a whore and gives me a permanent STD, my life is pretty much fucked. It's not really worth the risk. You're being a bitch though. Just hire a PI if you're that concerned about it. Either way, I'd have left once I got the feeling some…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 07:23 AM
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In the last 12 years I've cried twice - once after a fist fight with my dad when I was a young teenager, and once as I was putting my dog of 12 years to sleep due to cancer. My dog to me was very much the same as yours to you - loyal, protective, fun, and just a great buddy on all fronts. I gave my dog a pretty good final day, despite her suffering. Expensive beef jerky, a new bed, new toys, and tons of attention. It was easier than expected to have her put down because of her state of suffering…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 10:48 AM
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Do you want drowned children? Because this is how you get drowned children. There are few things more important to a marriage during pregnancy than providing comfort and security to your wife - especially during the latter two trimesters when shit starts to get painful, hormonal, and embarrassing. Adding a ton of stress through useless dread isn't good for her or your child, and is counterproductive to the success of your marriage. Plus she has your child growing inside of her. Even if you don't…
/r/askMRP17/02/17 04:50 PM
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Bank: No Location: No Email: No Social Media: No I wouldn't really care about her having access to any of the above with the exception of my bank. I don't need to justify where I am or have been to her. She'd be bored by my emails, and probably disgusted by my social media (my friends and I talk about our dicks a lot and have an increasingly escalating game of "gay chicken" going). I agree with /u/ReddJive - she's got your balls in a jar. Depending on the type of dude you are, that might be for …
/r/askMRP15/02/17 04:32 AM
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bae lemme smash.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 04:30 PM
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Hey, at least you're cute. How you doin'?
/r/askMRP14/02/17 03:53 PM
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Is it just a matter of time before she finds some liberal activist guy who agrees with her on all the stuff she cares so much about and she has immediate tingles that she's never felt with me? My wife used to describe herself as a feminist and is starting to see the appeal of using the word "egalitarian" instead. She's said straight up that those dudes are vagina repellents for valuable women. What we're seeing with those men is evolution at work. They lack the physical traits that make them att…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:44 PM
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I don't hate my stove because I was dumb enough to burn my hand while using it. Instead I make delicious, healthy meals with it that benefit myself and my family unit. I lost $20k on an investment that didn't come to fruition. I'm not going to stop investing in things I see potential in because of one slip-up. I'm going to keep doing what I do until I can't anymore. See what I'm getting at here? You're angry - cut that shit out. A man who lacks composure when stressed isn't a man. You can get a …
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:50 PM
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The way I read it is that she only works three nights a week. Why isn't she picking up the slack while you better yourself for your family?
/r/askMRP04/02/17 10:26 PM
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Considering she doesn't do anything on her own and works 3 night a week. Why isn't she putting in equal effort if no kids are involved?
/r/askMRP03/02/17 05:12 PM
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Real talk though, OP straight up lacks any utility at the moment. In this world if a man is not useful then he is a child. Women are allowed to be coddled, men are not. That's just the reality of things, and it's why men become men. He's going to have to stand up straight, get some cashflow, and consistently change the bandages of the festering wound he left at the in-laws until he can get his wife and child back into his home. They're going to sit there and talk shit about his poor performance …
/r/askMRP03/02/17 05:07 PM
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But can she bench her bodyweight like you can (you can, right?)? Squat 250? Can she grow a beard? Will a group of men pay attention to her when she's talking? Your wife is smarter than you, who fucking cares. My wife is going to be a doctor in a year while I'm a highschool dropout. I'm fairly intelligent, but very poorly educated - oh and I suck at math, too. Guess who she defers to when there's a problem? Me. She's perfectly capable of solving any problem that is thrown her way, but she prefers…
/r/askMRP03/02/17 04:57 PM
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Brother, listen... Stop engaging. When women attack you with emotional diarrhea they're just looking for a reaction to shift the anger and blame to you, as you're the closest one available. At the end of the day, it's literally just your wife saying rude shit at you. You've allowed this to happen by not correcting it properly in the past - and that's okay because you didn't know. But now you do. From here on our, read the sidebar and lift. Start with NMMNG and WISNIFG and move on from there. In …
/r/askMRP03/02/17 04:47 PM
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I'd like to add to/address a couple of things. There are many that come in here and give us the "I was once Alpha, now I am beta speech". Many MRP/AskMRP users were not, by definition, "Alpha". They were men or boys that prioritized themselves over all others and didn't have the opportunity to compromise on their lifestyles, beliefs, or actions for a woman. Being "Alpha" is a multifaceted state that embodies both mind and body. If the sudden appearance of a vagina causes them to flip like a dog …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 07:27 PM
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10-4 rubber ducky.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 12:21 AM
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You don't go 0-100 like that. Cuddling to titty sucking? There's no mystery or arousal there. When initiating you have to either be dominant and follow through ("Put your ass up, pull your panties down, and suck my cock") or take it slow by showing her that "everything is okay" and that it's okay to enjoy herself. Immersion is what makes or breaks a good lay. If you want quality sex you have to know how to play the game. In your post it seemed like you were just going through the motions, so it'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/17 11:08 PM
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Marriage is a contractual agreement. If she violates our agreement, the contract is voided and I move on. It's a vocal expectation and a boundary that is not to be crossed. I would get a dog btw, but the blowjobs aren't as fun.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 08:48 PM
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Nah, I don't keep people in my life who betray our agreements (in this case, fidelity). I cut friends/family out of my life that borrow money and dodge me when it comes time to pay me back. Pride + good memory = minimal chances of forgiveness from me.
/r/askMRP22/01/17 05:32 AM
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That, and it would've been on her terms covertly. Gotta fuck on your own time.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/17 05:02 AM
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Cheating on your spouse with a co-worker just means they ticked whatever boxes and were available - that's it. Most of the time that's how emotional affairs begin. Some dude got your wife coffee, listened to her bullshit, she got the tingles because it was something new and exciting and bad, fucked him for awhile, then it was ended. That's all you need to know. Good on you for having the self-respect to file for divorce. As for your reflection on whether or not being in a relationship is the rig…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 07:15 PM
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My mother is severely overweight to the point it's causing heart issues. Told my sister to switch her to a lower calorie diet and she's lost 13lbs in a week and a half. It takes work to be fat and maintain it. CICO is a real thing for pretty much anyone that doesn't have a real hormonal issue (polycystic ovary syndrome etc).
/r/askMRP19/01/17 07:51 PM
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Ah, then this isn't applicable to your situation. Either way, you can choose to argue or choose to AA/AM/Ignore in general. She'll react to your lack of reaction.
/r/askMRP19/01/17 06:03 PM
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Normally I'd say "It takes two people to have an argument - don't participate.", but this situation involves money. If she doesn't have cash and needs access to some to run the household then you're inhibiting household progress needlessly. I make sure my wife has an allowance of $300-500 at all times to cover shit like her lunches, coffee, and whatever necessities I don't feel like dealing with. If I cut that off and she couldn't take care of whatever she needs to take care of, she's unable to …
/r/askMRP19/01/17 05:54 PM
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Wife reads TRP/MRP/RPW to reaffirm her religious upbringing beliefs on a wife's role in the traditional household. We discuss where we think it's right and wrong for us and set the standard. Kills covert contracts on her end because she knows what to expect from me. 10/10 would introduce her to the manosphere again.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 10:13 AM
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Chill. Don't start with MMSLP - that'll do no good for you until you start fixing your core character traits. You're passive-aggressive, whiney, and honestly coming across a little bitchy and generally angry. Take a second and internalize this for a second: This is ALL YOUR FAULT. Inhale, exhale, repeat. Read this post: http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/ Figure out what you want from life and go from there. Also, lift.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 03:37 AM
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I pay for everything while wife gets her doctorate in the medical field.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 02:29 AM
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Where should I send the invoice for spitting coffee on my $200 keyboard?
/r/askMRP10/01/17 05:05 PM
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I'm not going to push one way or the other, but like I said it works pretty well for us. She even picked up a copy of "The Surrendered Wife" which really helped her figure out where her trust issues and anxiety come from. I tackled all of the issues she could pinpoint and it's been mostly smooth sailing ever since. If you decide to introduce her to the manosphere, I'd prime her with that. Maybe fib a little and say a friend suggested it - sister or something.
/r/askMRP09/01/17 11:02 PM
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Sounds about right, but you're walking on eggshells if you give a fuck if she finds out. Be as secretive as you want, but don't lose sleep over it. Here's a personal anecdote: My wife knows my reddit username, knows I post here, and reads a ton of shit I and others posts. The "consequences" I've faced have been discussions about sexual strategy and where I stand on some of the more extreme stuff. Aside from that we're able to have pretty rational conversations on our roles in the marriage as wel…
/r/askMRP09/01/17 10:42 PM
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People lie out of fear. Why are you afraid of your wife? Can she bench you? Are you married to Mayweather's sister?
/r/askMRP09/01/17 09:06 PM
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So bring it up to her. "I'd like to marry you one day, but before we consider that we need to discuss the standards I expect from my wife, as they are different from the ones I expect of a girlfriend". Don't be covert and rely on wishful thinking. Tell her what you want and see if she'll accommodate. If she does, great. If she doesn't and it's a deal breaker for you, move on.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 11:34 PM
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I've got more pride than is healthy and a great memory. I probably wouldn't forgive the intentional sneaking around and would cut my losses there. No room in my life for an unfaithful woman with the prior expressed agreement of fidelity. More attractive women are available to me. No sense in wasting time dealing with one that can't be trusted.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 10:03 PM
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I got the wife a stun gun, pepper spray, flashlight, and knife. Dumbass thinks she'll get in trouble for carrying them in her purse, despite me showing her the laws saying it's fine. If she gets assaulted thats on her at this point. The plus side is she knows how to use our guns and where they're located throughout the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 07:06 PM
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Haha, then the answer is "no". We've got one slot open for a good fullstack software engineer - remote, $130k, full benefits.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 02:42 PM
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Not unless you're a great dev with a ballin track record
/r/askMRP13/12/16 09:16 PM
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In your example of working on a motorcycle, at the end of the day you get a functional bike to be awesome on as well as the newfound mechanical knowledge of how your bike works. In the future if something breaks, you'll likely know how to fix it. Instead of playing games and wasting my time in general, I put that energy into my work. I'm a partner at my company, and my job is to validate, design, code, and test cool shit that people will buy (plus people management and some marketing). My hobby …
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:30 PM
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Also, she is ... unpleasant when I am around. Your wife is a reflection of you. If she sucks to be around, chances are you do as well. Obvious solution: The tickets are only $78/each (assuming you're talking about the Columbus show). Buy four of them and consider it a gift to yourself to have silence in your home.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:48 PM
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Part of being a good parent is pushing your family to excel at whatever they attempt. I wouldn't deter my future children from taking part in something as productive and character-building as sports (especially team sports). If the kid has an interest then foster it and let them grow. Putting gender limits on shit is just as dumb as saying "girlz can do anything guyz can do!!1!1!".
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 12:24 AM
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3 dicks***.
/r/askMRP13/12/16 12:19 AM
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I use a vibrator on my wife as foreplay sometimes or after I've cum (we don't use condoms and don't want kids yet - PO method ftw). I treat it like fingering. Nice to tease her for awhile with it and build the anticipation up slowly. Makes for more enthusiastic sex imo.
/r/askMRP12/12/16 10:15 PM
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Correct. You can have fucked up joints, but a solid sports physical therapist will be able to help you strengthen your stabilizers and prevent injury from occurring.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 09:35 AM
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Haven't done any shopping yet. Will probably take her to pick out some lingerie, nice makeup, and probably some clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:51 AM
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I was under the impression that it focused less on Red Pill Theory and more on the Men's Rights movement.
/r/askMRP03/12/16 11:16 PM
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Sounds like the thought of banging you brings her to tears. Possible reasons could be: She's banging someone else and is feeling remorse The thought of putting herself through sex with you disgusts here and she can't keep up the charade any longer You've used nice dates/etc to be pushy with sex in the past, and she's been dreading it since you held the door open for her to your hotel room The answer to all of these scenarios is, as always, be more attractive. Do you even lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 11:15 PM
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Honestly mine wasn't too bad. I've held pretty realistic views on women and relationships since I was younger though, so that probably mitigated some of my anger. Worst I got was getting pissed at expectations not being met for around a month. Found out through trial and error that expressing my disappointment in a fatherly way was way more effective than being a bitch about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 07:37 AM
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Leading is teaching and providing the means to accomplish something while not silently expecting people to act on your gestures. Making your expectations known is critical to any relationship and should've been discussed prior to the exclusive phase of dating. Silent expectations = bad. Vocal expectations = good. Set the standard and make it known.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 01:41 AM
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Congrats on the weight loss and stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 04:51 PM
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Did you just assume my gender?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 09:24 PM
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Healthy? You surely meant HEALTH AT EVERY SIZE!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:22 PM
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For those wondering, it actually takes work to sound this stupid. I really struggled with it at first, but then I let the autism flow.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:13 PM
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MODS DONT DELETE THIS POST IT'S THE TRUTH U ABUSERS 100% spot on. These boys think they just need to pick up treadmills and stimulate their prostates in order to secure a happy marriage, but it's much more than that. They need to check their privilege and apologize for the micro-aggressions they continue to propagate in their cis-scum white male lives. Their wives don't WANT a strong, competent man. They want someone who they can easily keep control over because ALL MEN RAPE. Did you know that 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 08:12 PM
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Does this come as a surprise to anyone? If we maintain that we are the defacto leaders and all but bulletproof in our day to day lives, they're going to come to expect us to be able to take whatever life throws at us. If we're sick we make ourselves get better with minimal bitching. If we're injured we lick our wounds in silence and ask for nothing. If we get hit with an unexpected expense we recover. Women are largely selfish, and that's okay. Relationships are transactional. If they sense an i…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 10:21 PM
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it takes more courage to lift a stripped barbell in a squat cage than a bending barbell. I had to explain this to my old coworker last year. Those big people you're terrified of looking bad in front of? They know how important form is and won't judge you for doing bar sets. They don't care about you, and will probably happily give form advice between sets. Hell, my DL form was terrible. I asked a dude if I could watch his form while he did his sets to try and nail it down and the guy sat there w…
/r/askMRP23/11/16 02:59 PM
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Take me now.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:12 PM
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but we were sailors - panties drop when they find that out. As a 100% straight dude, the Navy's dress whites make me cream up a little. No homo.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 05:47 PM
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Stick to easy bodyweight stuff to get her interested. Low effort, instant reward. Hell, even goofing off with her will help. Dancing around like idiots, tickling, etc.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 07:09 PM
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I had the same thought while writing it tbh. Closest I came was kinda identifying the feeling as annoyance that I'm essentially okay-ing covert contracts and being emphatic to his wife while in a dojo of male self-improvement.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 06:39 PM
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What I would do if I were in this situation: If you have kids, find a babysitter. Get her to speak with you again. You STFU during this. Get her close to you and be a dad. Hug her, kiss her forehead, etc. Let her cry out her feelings. Again, STFU. Do something funny like lick her tears and say something goofy to lighten the mood and signal the end of the "discussion" Tell her to dress up and be ready to go in X time for a quality meal and/or entertainment. Show her a good time through your actio…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 04:30 PM
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BuzzFeed MRP edition.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 01:17 PM
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Stop using Atlassian products then. :P
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:39 PM
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She wouldn't ask if she doesn't already know it's shit. She was essentially asking what the bare minimum threshold is for you to not leave her for someone else. Be blunt and honest. How are you supposed to get what you want if you're not upfront about it?
/r/askMRP16/11/16 01:38 PM
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My wife's libido tanked while on hormonal BC (Nuva Ring - went from once a day or every other day to like once a week. I was not pleased), and it also added an extra step for sex (she had to go wash her hands, take it out, etc) which made spontaneous initiation nearly impossible and completely killed the mood. Some women experience depression while on BC, which can also cause a loss of sex drive (or more for others). Check for the signs to see if it's a true chemical reaction, because it very we…
/r/askMRP14/11/16 10:29 PM
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Probably too much estrogen stored up in my fatty man boobs. Spit water all over my desk. Either way, congrats. Keep lifting, make more money, and be a better dude.
/r/askMRP11/11/16 03:37 PM
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I don't know what the "markdown" is below but it looks like a form It's just the syntax used for reddit formatting. It makes posts on here a hell of a lot easier to read. When copy-pasted it looks like this.. Post Title Here Opening Statement Do you even lift? Have you read the sidebar? Tell us where you're out so we know whether or not to pay attention to your shit. Context Explain the context of your situation. Vacation planning? Wife shit testing you a bunch? Toss that shit here. Action Tell …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 04:46 PM
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Fair point, although it may encourage people to actually follow the posting guidelines.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/16 04:44 PM
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Thankfully I do not.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 11:36 PM
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I'm interested to hear your thoughts on the house and money grab during the whole debacle. That behavior alone is enough to turn me off to the idea of being with somebody. Wife and I have separate finances, and when I buy a house it'll be in my name only. My possessions and assets are mine, and she gets the privilege of me sharing them with her and having nice things.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 06:45 PM
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In my state, infidelity (which technically is what your proposed situation for OP would be classified as at least until the divorce is finalized) can and will burn the "cheating" partner as far as custody and alimony goes. His soon-to-be ex-wife has already proven she's malicious and intends on doing the usual wound-licking while she prepares for the next assault after her recent disorganized failure. She's paranoid and terrified, which is leading to some pretty rash decisions on her part. It is…
/r/askMRP08/11/16 05:53 PM
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Nah, this is dangerous advice. She'll try to dig up evidence and show he was "cheating" etc and go after his character in court. WK judge will pander to this and he'll burn. The only thing he needs to do is get joint custody, let the divorce go through, and take care of himself and his kids.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 05:05 PM
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I don't know about shitty, but probably not what I'd have done. I tend to appreciate male company more than female, so any attention I get that keeps me from my goal of hanging out with a buddy is generally an annoyance to me. First girl in the story would end up on her ass on the sticky bar floor. Waitress would be told to get me a drink and leave us be. I guess I prefer interacting with women on my terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 04:54 PM
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OP read above. Violent outbursts like this could harm you or your kids. Telling you she's going to divorce you in front of them will also cause longlasting damage. Don't fall victim to the sunk cost fallacy. Chemical mood disorders are dangerous for all involved. You cannot live the life you want while being with this woman. Your kids are going to end up drowned in a bathtub and you'll wake up with your dick cut off.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 04:46 PM
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You sound like fun.
/r/askMRP06/11/16 08:18 PM
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Rollo done goofed.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 08:46 PM
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Did she make any demands or drop any covert contracts? Women are pretty good at assuming just because you listened to them that you agree with what they said and will follow through on the actions they have planned for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 03:25 PM
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Think about the whole "birthday week" thing for a second. Are you telling me that your wife is worth spending all of that time and effort on, just to make her Feel Good™? She's not. You've put your wife on a pedestal and now she's just going to expect the same kind of special treatment that reeks of desperation. Do you know the angle at which your wife has to look to see you when she's up on that pedestal? Down. Of course she's not going to do shit for your birthday - why would she? You're the o…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 09:03 PM
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To add to this: Vitamins, Airborne tablets, Vick's, chloraseptic spray, some cough drops, tissues, and a humidifier. Combine that with some pseudoephedrine (Mucinex D is my go-to) and she'll be over it pretty quick, or at least have manageable symptoms and no excuse to do shit for herself.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 08:31 PM
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Yes. My wife understands biological sciences and has a pretty good grasp on anthropology, plus she also had pretty RP relationship beliefs when I met her. We talk about our thresholds necessary for mutual attraction, where we want each other to improve for ourselves and our unit, and the kinds of people we want our eventual children to be. Having someone onboard as a first mate that actually has the capacity to understand what is going on has made my relationship with her extremely easy. The onl…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 05:23 PM
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I've said it here a few times, but my wife reads TRP and MRP frequently. We're both on the same page with how and where it applies to our lives and it aligns with our relationship criteria. She'll often times call out the guys fucking up and blaming their wives for their mistakes to me, which is always really fucking funny. Anyways, we use RPT as a tool to help supplement our traditional marriage. Both of us grew up in poor households with no real leadership or positive examples to follow. If yo…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 03:48 PM
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I'm interested in this post as well - drop the link here if you feel inclined to do so.
/r/askMRP28/10/16 04:06 PM
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In some of your examples you DEER'd a little, but aside from that you're moving in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/16 04:00 PM
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Interesting observation.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 10:17 PM
1

Alright, I suppose that explains why we're coming at this from different sides. I read it as a theory post powered by an anecdote that outlined something I already knew. Kind of interesting how reading comprehension changes the perspective depending on assumed context.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 06:34 PM
1

I don't disagree with any of that. It's a societal norm for low quality women to just "exist" through life, putting in minimal effort just to keep the canoe from sinking their fat asses to the bottom of the lake, the bitching about it because shit isn't optimal. He may have been dropping some commentary on how easy it is to take care of children compared to how hard these lazy women perceive it to be, but that's common knowledge already. Did I just assume that he was trying to touch up on someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 06:19 PM
4

I'm being logical with my reasoning. I'm perfectly fine with pointing out the many areas in which men are objectively better at something (and embracing them), but dropping a blanket statement stating that we're better at something that has so many moving parts and variables is retarded. How about, instead of instantly taking the womans side, you start thinking, and acting like you can know what the fuck you're doing? I'm not taking anyone's side. I'm just not hopping on board with the idea that…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 05:47 PM
1

Thanks for the perspective - I definitely agree that there are environmental factors that determine how somebody will think and behave, but that's not what I was arguing. I'm arguing that the importance of gender between the parent influencing personality growth versus the parent providing health and emotional support isn't noticeable in many cases. Again, I know that we're biologically predisposed to behave a certain way in any number of areas in our lives, but laying down a blanket statement o…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 03:50 PM
15

Eh, I don't buy it. Anybody has the capacity to be a perfect parent, and both the mother and father bring different things to the table. Women also have tens of thousands of years of an evolutionary headstart on us for the whole raising kids thing. One dudes personal anecdote just doesn't do it for me. Men and women are not equal, we're different. Acknowledging these strengths and weaknesses and using them to your advantage can be very beneficial.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 04:22 AM
1

The words for some of them don't match the bone structure..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 12:06 AM
1

Haha, I wish. (Un) Fortunately nobody paid any attention to me in highschool. Kinda wish I had a story like that.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 07:22 PM
3

You can be dominant in the bedroom without being physically dominant. Tell her to blow you. Tell her to get on top. Don't let her orgasm. In my personal experience, the sex women love the most is when they have the least amount of control over the situation. Remove the control and you establish power. Power = dominance. You can lay on your back the entire time and walk away with her in a position of sexual servitude.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:44 PM
1

There was a kid I went to school with who got his pants pulled down as a prank in the busiest part of my school. He never lived it down. He changed schools and everything was perfect for him. You need to change schools. Your wife has been pining after this dude for years, admitted to not having feelings for you, and clearly isn't happy with you. Women don't appreciate the good things about a man when they have memories of all the bad. She'll always remember this guy, and you'll always come secon…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:36 PM
1

It's definitely a bullshit social status thing, but it's a pretty important one. RPT revolves around social status (SMV etc). If you're the best then you should act the best. I've said this before on here, but the abundance mentality shouldn't stop at gaming women. Sure, don't be a giant asshole flaunting your wad of cash while buying a $2 coffee, but you should definitely own nice things if you can afford them (home, clothing, jewelry, accessories, vehicles, gadgets, etc).
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:54 PM
1

Good catch - I should've worded my comment better. I suppose in my life they're one in the same. If I want to do something independently, my wife isn't invited. I use my "me" time as an escape from her and everything else to build myself and be introspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:28 PM
6

Wife: "You laugh at my (female) friend more than me.". Me: "She's funnier."
/r/askMRP24/10/16 01:02 PM
1

I frequently use the "she looks like she's got a massive vagina" line with my wife. That usually does the job. It shows I've thought about them naked but addresses the comfort test showing that I'm not interested. If I were interested in her friends I'd just say so if asked. "She's cute. Why do you ask? You trying to catch a finger?".
/r/askMRP23/10/16 06:58 PM
0

Hey man, the Texano at Rancheritos on State is impressive af. Green sauce, obviously.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 06:51 PM
2

It doesn't matter how it should've been addressed now. What matters is how you'll handle this situation and any like it in the future. Never let anyone speak to you that way - especially your wife. You shut that shit down when it comes up, otherwise it becomes permissible. You can save this by having a stern, scolding conversation in private. Be a parent in this situation. Her behavior was out of line and she needs to be punished. You were slapped because she was given permission to slap you. Yo…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 02:15 PM
2

I think some of the commenters here are missing the point of this post. Using videogames and porn aren't the best examples as everyone here is geared towards self-improvement, and vidya and porn are detrimental to that endeavor. Those of you who are hung up on the zero-value-added activities, replace them with "working on a car" or "building something". You still get a guy using his free time doing exactly what he wants to be doing with no female participation. The purpose of this post (or at le…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 02:03 PM
1

You seem to expect a lot. Ditch the covert contracts and focus on yourself. Stop worrying about what she's doing and not doing. Eventually she'll notice that you're more valuable and she'll either fix herself or go crazy with jealousy and start issuing ultimatums. Win/win for you. She's focusing on her career and extracurriculars because it's better than being with old you and current you. Pining for her attention and approval isn't going to do shit for you - invest that time elsewhere. Pick up …
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:39 PM
2

Marriage can be very fulfilling for a man. When done right you have sexual availability, respect, and someone to share your life with. The catch is that in order for everyone to be happy, the man needs to be a man. Most people in the manosphere are very anti-marriage, and with good reason. You're putting yourself through a lot of risk for benefits that can disappear faster than a cheesecake in front of Rosie O'Donnell. You can't control what will happen, so for many the risk isn't worth the rewa…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 06:05 PM
3

I've thought about the lack of context in posts quite a bit when reading comment replies on AskMRP. Many of the comments offer advice that I would never in a million years consider employing in my marriage. Perhaps a simple way to mitigate this issue would be to encourage anecdotes within the comments because let's face it, in three weeks nobody is going to see this post unless you sticky it over there. The questions will keep coming and the inapplicable comments will pour in with them. Example …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 02:36 AM
1

Hey, at least you guys have a common hobby (railing your wife). For real though, I'm Facebook friends with a couple of my wife's exes (they added me and I accepted for giggles) - no jealousy etc on my part. It's better to be not phased by it than to mate guard and bleed insecurity. Are you an inferior man? My wife compares me to them semi-frequently and always ends up expressing how glad she is that she found someone who was objectively better on all fronts. I only mention this because there are…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 02:03 AM
1

Indeed. On the flip side the same rules apply to me. Since I enjoy having my wife around its a nice motivational boost to not be a fat lazy fuck.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:56 AM
3

So you've ditched the expectations - good. Evaluate your standards for a partner. Are you good enough to demand those standards in your relationship? Probably not. Here's the thing, it seems like hard work because it is. When you've internalized a masculine identity it will be second nature and you won't even notice the little things. You'll start walking away from things that aren't productive to your growth as a man. Instead of sitting there listening to your wife complain or try to argue abou…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:54 AM
1

Ding. Wife and I had this talk before we got married. We've each got max weight/bf % figures that, if exceeded, are grounds for divorce. I've given her permission to bloat up past the acceptable point during school and pregnancy, but past that she doesn't get a pass.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 09:10 PM
1

Quick observation on your situation (correct me if I'm way off here): Longer hours = less presence at home for you, no? The way you described the situation tells me your wife notices this and is trying to step up into a leadership position. Why should she let you tell your son he could bring his bike? You don't get the whole picture because you're not present. He CAN'T bring it with you because... because... Matriarch Hamster. Seems like she's slid right into the role and will continue to underm…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/16 05:48 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback. Honestly my career (I'm in tech if that explains much) doesn't really have an emphasis on business communication, so I don't have too much experience with writing - I'm also a highschool dropout who never kept up on the aforementioned skills. My dealings with people are kept mostly low-key and casual. As for the oil bit, I don't actually pay attention to how much it costs. $50 was merely an arbitrary number I threw out there. Learned something new regardless haha. Either…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 08:02 PM
5

Congrats man. No mention of kids or any real reasons to keep her around. You're free. What do you intend on doing when the divorce is finalized?
/r/askMRP11/10/16 10:38 PM
1

No
/r/askMRP11/10/16 06:50 PM
3

Invest your time and energy into CREATING what you want, not fantasizing about what you might be able to have elsewhere. This applies to every facet of your life and relationships with others. Sexual Anecdote: Sex with my wife is easily ten times better than with any of my old FWBs/hookups because we know what each other enjoys. We're comfortable with each other and try new things all the time to ramp shit up. With an affair the only thing i can guarantee is the excitement of being with someone …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 03:44 PM
1

Completely irrelevant to the subject matter of this sub, but I'll bite. I fucking love it. If western society wants to push the "everyone is equal" bit then this what they get. Don't want to include trans people in your sport? That's discrimination - enjoy the lawsuit. Men are biologically stronger and more encouraged to become kinesthetically aware, so by and large we make better athletes depending on the sport. Transgendered athletes help drive that home.
/r/askMRP06/10/16 03:47 PM
4

Are you a teenager? Because putting up explicit posters on the wall is something teenagers do. Your wife won't see it as competition, she'll see it as immaturity or a midlife crisis. Apply dread with real women, not paper. Its not different than letting her catch you watching porn - she'll see it as pathetic.
/r/askMRP06/10/16 03:43 PM
1

Yes and no. Flip-flopping on the "others" portion.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:45 PM
1

That's valid and all that, but ultimately you're benefiting from being validated. Even if it's just a reminder that shit is working, it's still a good yard stick to determine whether or not you're making progress.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 05:19 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain here (downvotes and differing opinions are welcome) and say that it's normal. RPT at its core is about validation from others. "Be attractive, don't be unattractive" is a testament to this. We lift so we're healthy and look good in the hopes of sparking attraction with our wives and others. We outperform others professionally to impress our superiors (unless we own the businesses we work for) to gain something. There's nothing wrong with being awesome and daydre…
/r/askMRP04/10/16 01:32 PM
2

You are correct. If saving an extra $100/month makes such a huge difference in your financial situation then you shouldn't be looking to find ways to get THINGS, but finding ways to get extra cash.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/16 03:12 PM
1

Be careful with the second one - tone dictates how it will be received. Too little sarcasm will come across as passive aggressive, as will too much. The only way you can make it sound like you aren't butthurt is if, well, you aren't.
/r/askMRP02/10/16 12:10 PM
2

/u/TheFamilyAlpha is one of the more quality posters in this sub - I think I enjoy his general outlook on marriage because he doesn't treat his wife like the enemy (which I feel is counter-productive to progress). I don't know his or his wife's history and don't really care. If the theory is good then I'm fine with it.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 02:04 PM
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As far as the gym thing goes, AM would be a good tool to employ here. "How am I supposed to surprise you with a rock hard six pack if you watch me wrap the gift?" or "I ate a donut and felt guilty. Didn't want you to find out by seeing it on my love handles tomorrow (wink)". Store thing.. well, your time is your time. You're probably not in a position to make that apparent yet, so AA/AM yet again can be your friend. "My phone was stolen by a band of marauders." "I couldn't get my phone out of my…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 07:12 PM
2

Some dudes get off on having other dudes plough their women. Some women get off watching their men bang other women. Sometimes it's about power, sometimes it's about a lack of power. It's a fetish. As for the race of the "bulls", I'd imagine half of the appeal has to do with it being something taboo. Women love danger and the thrill of doing something "bad". Honestly I don't think it's as prevalent as you think it is. If your porn feed on whatever site of your choosing consists of BBC cuck video…
/r/askMRP27/09/16 11:34 PM
2

Talk less.
/r/askMRP24/09/16 04:52 AM
1

Solid post. I can definitely empathize with the "wanting to give one more bit of information" point.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 02:36 PM
1

Her: "Why would you say that?". You: "Because I want you to be prepared, of course! We'll need to be on the same page if we're ever going to organize a threesone with you and my girlfriend!"
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 02:25 PM
1

Ouch. Welp, you recognize the problem and know what to do to fix it. Best of luck.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 06:55 PM
11

The purpose of having a partner is to have someone to share your life with, not live your life for. If your happiness and need requirements rely on someone else then you're doing it wrong.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 06:48 PM
1

Why would you tell her she hurt your fee fees? STFU and ignore her if she gets under your skin, or simply say "Don't speak to me that way". If she escalates, go do something else. I don't know why so many people have this issue. Would you care if a homeless dude calls you a faggot when you deny his request for free cash? No. You smile and keep on walking because who the fuck cares what he thinks? Dealing with your wife should be the same, after all she's just like the homeless dude - they both j…
/r/askMRP21/09/16 06:43 PM
1

Jesus. Just laugh. 90% of the time that's all you need to do. Laugh, make a quick quip about her attitude, show her that her emotions aren't your problem, kiss her on the forehead and go do something else. Her hamster in this situation: "I'm mad. Okay, he's laughing and not taking me seriously. I'm even more mad. Okay, he made me smile a little. That was funny. Awww, he kissed my forehead like my parents used to do when they tucked me in. I should call them soon. I'm hungry. I wonder if there's …
/r/askMRP21/09/16 02:58 PM
2

Terrible parent. Terrible provider. Please read the sidebar material. Thank you. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/16 05:09 AM
3

2002 Honda with 197k miles on it Honda is a reliable brand. I'd get another one if I were you, but buy used and in cash for a few reasons: New cars require full coverage insurance, which can easily exceed $600/month. Many dealerships require any maintenance be done at their shop while under lease/whatever. The vehicle depreciates in value as soon as you sign the paperwork saying you accept responsibility for it (to the tune of THOUSANDS). Assuming you don't have the cash to buy outright, you los…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 09:34 PM
4

I thoroughly enjoy mint. One of my local utility companies doesn't have online billing for their services, and writing checks is annoying to me.. but what do you know, Mint Bill Pay supports said utility company. Worth the nominal fee imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 09:17 PM
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Getting an emotional response out of you was easier than expected. You should read more content on frame control.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 10:39 PM
3

This subreddit is about self-improvement. Lazy and fat people make a meal out of McDonald's. I abhor both. Being either of those goes against what we stand for, so if you admit to disregarding your health in this arena you're going to get called out. You're fat, aren't you?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 10:07 PM
1

Ah, that is unfortunate.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 06:27 PM
3

It's not weight gain - it's calorie investment!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 04:32 PM
2

Noted. Why the need to try and be anonymous? They're just words and theories. Are you afraid of the potential career backlash if your content is tied with your identity?
/r/askMRP16/09/16 03:54 PM
2

Jesus Christ did you record that video on your phone in a cardboard box? My dude, you need proper equipment. Scoop up a Behringer B1 and an audio interface, or any directionally configurable mic.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 03:40 PM
2

Painful sex is caused by: not being in the mood (wet), not being attracted to the dude, or an STD. If she's had Chlamydia, that can leave scar tissue that makes PIV painful. Sounds like you have a fat wife who won't fuck you because she's infected or isn't attracted to you. Fix what you can until you're at a place where you can be happy.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 03:34 PM
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For some reason the only thing that pissed me off in this post is that you feed your family McDonald's. Stop that, please. Part of being a provider is to provide decent, healthy food to your family. Fast food doesn't fit in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/16 01:14 PM
1

My wife reads RP and MRP. She finds the theory behind it very interesting and mostly truthful - it's opened her eyes to why she acts the way she does and how to reel in the crazy. She bought a physical copy of "The Surrendered Wife" to assist her in this. She grew up and still is Christian and has a tendency to be very introspective - both of these traits help. That being said, my wife's involvement in RPT started with me linking her some female-oriented theory posts and articles (why women lose…
/r/askMRP15/09/16 03:50 AM
9

AA is my favorite tool here. "You don't help around the house" is met with something ridiculous like "You're right! The other day I missed the toilet while shitting and blamed it on the cat.". A little unrelated, but women are selfish. Most of the time they're incapable of fathoming the lives of those around them. They don't know that you forgot to do X because you were prioritizing the much more important Y. They won't care if you explain it to them. The only thing they see is your failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 03:41 AM
1

Hmm, I suppose that could make sense. Fortunately I'm not nor have never been in such a situation. Different situations call for different actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 02:51 PM
1

STFU is easier and more effective.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 02:30 PM
1

Her response (I’m paraphrasing here) was that this chick is the smartest, most successful kind of gold digger, because she didn’t go for a high-value man who would take lots of effort to get her claws into, but for a low value man who would give her everything he has in return for very little effort on her part. Oomph. Brutal, but I can't help but think about the diminishing returns there. Sure, she probably controls everything in their relationship, but the king of a land with no water is still…
/r/askMRP13/09/16 02:15 PM
1

This is the second best Game of Thrones erotica I've ever read. I've only read one.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 02:06 PM
4

I don't have a problem with this as long as it's not a grab-keys-in-a-huff and rush out the door kind of way. If he simply realizes his time would be spent better elsewhere, shrugs, and leaves then let her hamster spin on. Telling your partner what you're going to do and then going to do it builds their trust in you which directly influences your partner to become a more willing first mate. Leaving to go run an errand without at least alerting them just shows that you're probably being passive-a…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 01:55 PM
1

Lol. Why the hell are you married to this girl? Throwing a hissy fit and breaking things = hard next. Let her go. You'll be fine.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 02:58 PM
2

Kids in rural areas still experience this - I see it all the time where I'm at. In any populated area they're more likely to be kept indoors by helicopter parents or glued to a screen or mirror. It kinda sucks for those who have too many entertainment options. They're never forced to make shit happen for themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 02:16 PM
2

I grew up in New England as well (VT/ME/NH) - same scenario. Was outside all the time building forts to sleep in, hunting small game with my bb gun, processing them, and roasting over a fire. Hell, my dad and I lived in a farmhouse that was built in 1876 while we remodelled it - with no electricity or running water. We did this for a year before the well and generator was ready for installation. I fucking loved it. The benefits of those learned skillsets help me to this day. If something breaks …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 01:47 PM
1

Holding assets within a trust appears to be a decent way to insulate yourself. You can't own it personally, so you'd need someone you trust fully (dad, brother, etc) to have rights to it. You can draft up some paperwork saying they can only withdraw from it on your behalf, too. http://www.forbes.com/sites/robertpagliarini/2014/05/15/how-to-protect-yourself-in-a-divorce-using-a-domestic-asset-protection-trust/#6974fc1d2f5f
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 12:50 AM
1

Your ship can't sail if it never leaves port. It can't leave port without a captain. Where are you?
/r/askMRP08/09/16 12:38 PM
4

Eh, dude had a year to get over his wife emotionally and in the end got freedom. He still wins.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 05:39 PM
1

Have a cup of whatever your poison is and read it again. Shit made me giggle.
/r/askMRP02/09/16 01:17 PM
7

Judging by the snark I'm assuming he's tired of people shitposting without reading or internalizing RPT.
/r/askMRP02/09/16 12:38 PM
1

Better get rid of all the knives, too. Guns and knives kill, bro. Didn't you know that? ~ Posted from my Ruger SR9 ~
/r/askMRP01/09/16 02:12 PM
5

3 weeks huh? You're early a master of RPT and deserve affection and desire from your wife, especially since you were such a shitty captain before. She should see these changes and immediately start slobbing on your knob! What the hell is wrong with her?! But seriously, slow the fuck down. You need to read more sidebar material, the top posts in this sub, and just chill the fuck out. Yes, this sub tells you that you should see results pretty quickly, but that's assuming you're starting from zero.…
/r/askMRP31/08/16 01:46 PM
1

And probably read NMMNG again.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 04:58 PM
1

You can't negotiate desire, so withdraw the affection until she gets the fuck out or she's the one initiating. Put hard stops on her advances and stop pining after her so hard. Let her know through actions that you're the prize, the one who is approached, and whose terms on which the affection is acted upon. Stop caring.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 04:55 PM
2

Eh, just tell her to get on the fucking table dude. Massage her, touch her pussy like it's not what you want, dry her off with a towel, and go do something else. She's going to expect you to do something sexual, and when you don't it'll fuck with her. You've got better shit to be doing anyways, right?
/r/askMRP30/08/16 02:35 PM
1

Oh I feel you man. Yeah, I code, do the marketing, split test, and optimize everything myself when I take on a new venture. Hardest part is finding something that won't eat up all my time.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/16 06:04 PM
2

Sound advice regarding the spend less save more bit, however I have a pretty successful track record of flipping businesses. I don't mind dropping $50k on something that has the potential to earn double that with some optimizations on the marketing or UX front. Bizops and marketing are my bread and butter, so while I agree with your advice on flipping businesses is a bad idea for the vast majority people, it is a pretty solid guarantee of ROI for me and my team.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/16 05:10 PM
1

Depends on the area, but I'm inclined to agree.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 06:36 PM
1

I feel like this post may have been spurred by mine on the main sub. I'll elaborate on my situation: I make $100k or so working as a Software Engineer for my business partners startup (we're partnered on another venture). My salary is actually low for the value I add to the company, but I'm in it for opportunity and equity. I earn another $50-60k from an application I developed that is doing well currently, and we're adding features and paid accounts to bring that waaaaaay up. The startup I work…
/r/askMRP25/08/16 06:27 PM
3

Was literally about to get back to work when I saw the nice little red envelope on my screen. I really like your reply because it shows true introspection. I sisnt really touch up on where I'm trying to improve because it wasn't relevant to the content. For the sake of your well-written answer I'll write it here. My physical fitness is where I'm failing the most, which I stated briefly in the context section of my post. I'm not lifting enough and have more body fat than I'd like. My diet is shit…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 02:18 PM
5

I said congrats faggot, what more do you want? I want a tender kiss on the lips from you with your eyes closed and mine open. I want to watch you fall in love with me. We can open a B&B in Vermont if you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 12:39 AM
0

Damn son, firing shots. I do take comfort in knowing that people perceive me in the same way I perceive myself. I'm the prize, and it brings me joy to see how far ahead I've become relative to the rest of my peers. As I stated earlier in the comments, my wife's perception of me is something I future, and have no difficulties doing just by being in charge. Does one not want to be desired? Respected? Cared for when sick? I have that in my current arrangement as well as the control a man should, co…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 12:16 AM
7

PM me it when you're done - investing in personal and professional relationships is an interesting topic that doesn't get covered enough on here... Which is strange, since it's the best tool for developing a strong network IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 11:07 PM
3

I chose my wife because I value her, and I value her input. I'm secure in my choices and lifestyle. I do live my life for myself, but my wife is an extension and reflection of me - this is something I have internalized - so I do it for her as well. The same rule applies to my wife's perception of me. It's positive and filled with admiration as it should be, so why would I want to neglect that? I'm not coming from a dead bedroom or a harpy situation. My dynamic is old fashioned and works well. My…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 09:18 PM
2

Date her, ffs. I fucking guarantee you did shit with her you didn't actually truly enjoy on your own but liked because she was with you. Take her places where your value will be shown. Impress her with hidden talents (you have things you are good at that she doesn't know about, right?), your knowledge, etc. Go participate in an activity with a ton of attractive and young women - she's going to participate as well as there will be competition. It's your responsibility to lead her to try new thing…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 01:34 PM
2

In response to taking care of yourself and your happiness first: You're a wolf in a pack of at least two. You're the primary hunter and are responsible for delivering the killing blow to your prey. Food is scarce and your strength is dwindling due to malnutrition. Are you going to let your pack have at the latest kill before eating your fill, or are you going to take what belongs to you so you can secure more food for them in the future? TL;DR: The alpha male eats first.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 11:18 PM
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Q: How long you have implemented red pill into your marriage? A: A little over 1 year Q: Where are you at on the 12 Levels of Dread? A: Low. Probably a perceived 3 by me, maybe more for her. She's fairly quiet about her current insecurities. Q: How long have you been married, and how is it going? A: Almost a year. It's going well. Birth control put a damper on the sex life and desire/etc, for 3-4 months, but we nipped that in the bud. Q: How is your sex life? (quantity and quality) A: As stated …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 01:46 PM
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+1 for making her deal with the consequences of her actions. -1 for leaving her on her own in another city while off her medication.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 02:45 AM
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Words are what I get paid for. If a man, firmly within his own frame decides to work from home and provide a real service to his children in the form of education and leadership, I'm all for that. The perks of not being around autistic neckbeards is nice, too. If you look at the progression of the posts from m'lady that I tested, you see she challenges the praxeology in the context of TRP being a sexual strategy of abundance and for the most part, anti-ltr. It is mostly anti-LTR unless you see s…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 02:43 PM
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Also, upvoted for your usage of "gelding". Giggled when I read it. Nuts are intact still, fortunately!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:43 PM
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Husband and frequent reader of this and the main sub here. I'm a software engineer and have the ability to work from home for an obscenely high salary + bonuses etc - more than my wife will ever make annually in her career as a doctor in the medical field. I'm totally down to work from home and raise my kid(s). The nature of my work affords me this luxury. I'd rather not hire a nanny or send them to a daycare. I have very specific values I'd like instilled in my kids, and the only way to do that…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:42 PM
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Don't go to a damn chiro See a physical therapist. If your lower back is tweaked, chances are a chiro isn't going to help with your muscles guarding longer than 1-3 days at a time. Almost everyone in the PT field is physically fit, and exercise is a huge part of the healing process for most injuries. A PT can do lumbar adjustments to you in such a way that won't hurt you (some chiros are brutal with their adjustments and can make your problems worse). They'll have you exercise to strengthen up t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 05:44 PM
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A bit late, but try doing unweighted squats in front of a mirror as slowly as you possibly can. You've seen the "1 minute pullup" challenge videos, right? Work them stabilizers, yo. Go for less weight and more control until you've got some solid muscle memory on your form. As RPAlternate42 said, your stance is probably off as well. I know I tend to go a bit to narrow on mine which results in shitty form/
/r/askMRP22/02/16 06:17 PM
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Truth, although I don't particularly care for using coconut oil in mine. Leaves a weird residue (unrefined as OP stated) and smell. I much prefer my Grave before Shave + beard balm. Wife even picked me up a little thing of it. Honestly, the combination of them has really helped my facial hair in general. Looks better, smells awesome, and is much softer to the touch. Keeps it tight against my jawline to chin. 10/10 would recommend.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 02:41 PM
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"I want a man who is funny!" translates to "I want a man who can be the center of attention and make everyone want to be around him". John Doyle (the husband of the author of "The Surrendered Wife") said, "As far as secrets to making a successful marriage: Make 'em laugh.". source
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 01:05 PM
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Brb, posting on /r/deadsubreddits about how I'm stuck in a sexless comment thread and maybe will eventually thumb through the last four pages of NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 05:55 PM
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would rather not fuck you I'll settle for some pillow talk and earlobe nibblin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 05:48 PM
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Ah, well fuck me for my shitty reading comprehension. Excellent point - I concede.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:18 PM
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Meh. Just fucking with them is enough imo - save the door-opening and mm'ladying for special occasions as rewards for good behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:09 PM
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Letting her actions dictate your mood isn't good my man. Brush it off, go to the gym, come back leaking sweat and testosterone, and do what you want for the rest of the night. Grab her ass, kiss her, then walk away and do something else. She'll follow you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 02:44 PM
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Yep. Literally letting it all hang out.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 09:39 PM
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Went to your profile to see which branch you were in out of curiosity. Way too many dick pics, brother. No need for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 08:15 PM
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Be somebody worth having and call them out on their bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 07:20 PM
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What OP doesn't seem to understand is that any hobby, skill, dedication to completing a task, or general ability to problem solve directly adds to your worth as a person. My skills, hobbies, and all of the other shit my wife admires me for don't just disappear when she's out of earshot or I've left the house. Character attributes are one of the more important driving factors that draw your wife/partner/whatever to you. They can and always will be transferrable to any situation you find yourself …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 06:21 PM
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Often times if you've got shared (equal, 50% custody) neither parents end up paying child support. The only exception is if one parent (usually the mother) is living in squalor and not creating a safe home environment for the child. If this occurs, then the higher-earning parent helps provide an adequate lifestyle for the other. Obviously it isn't fair for the parent paying out, but in the end it's supposed to go toward the benefit of the child. In a perfect world it would work, but people are e…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 05:02 AM
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Oh yeah, probably. Personally I'd never do anything like that, but I know some desperate and undersexed dudes who would.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 06:45 PM
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That's actually a story from the show "Blue Mountain State". You can watch the full episode here (assuming you're in the US). http://www.crackle.com/c/blue-mountain-state/pocket-pussy/2490262
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 05:10 PM
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Yes, the wage gap is feminist crap. It's been debunked many times over I don't think I brought up the wage gap issue, and if I did inadvertently then I wasn't denying it isn't exaggerated. Newsflash. Most of America isn't in a "healthy relationship." Who is at fault, then? I understand people pretend to be something other than what they actually are to their significant others until they're both comfortable with each other, but it doesn't take a genius to know when you should get the hell out. I…
/r/MensRights16/11/12 12:55 AM
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The women watching the show, or taking part in the production of it? For the former: It's a shitty premise for a television show, so chances are I wouldn't like them very much if their personalities had anything to do with their entertainment choices. Hell, my cousin watches Honey Boo Boo purely to laugh at how ridiculous it is, and I'm sure he's not line. Latter: I'd probably let them know my views on what they're doing to society when the opportunity came up, then have a conversation with them…
/r/MensRights16/11/12 12:43 AM
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I asked a legitimate question, and in the post you replied to I didn't state any beliefs whatsoever, so assuming my views align with what you consider to be "feminist crap" isn't really the best way to respond to it. I guess I just don't see the big deal with letting your partner be in charge of buying stuff the household needs. If you're in a healthy relationship both of you should be aiming for the same goals - a healthy, happy lifestyle. Thank you for the response and the stat links.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 12:36 AM
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Just added it to my basket. Do you recommend any other reading material on this subject?
/r/MensRights15/11/12 10:54 PM
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You would figure there would be at least one report/journal/study done on the roles the man/woman have when spending their money. A quick google search returned this article by the Nielsen company: http://blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/consumer/in-u-s-men-are-shopping-more-than-ever-while-women-are-watching-more-tv/ Note: I'm not fishing for an argument here - just stating my opinion. As for your second statement, how isn't how the money is being spent relevant? I fail to see the difference betwee…
/r/MensRights15/11/12 10:52 PM
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I'm going to have to agree with you on this one. It's probably more of a safety issue than gender in/equality. Edit: Holy shit. I just looked through OP's post history. He's either a really bad troll or giant douche.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 10:22 PM
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Could I get a source and statistics for this bit if possible? In many households, the man is the primary breadwinner, but the woman is the primary spender. Typically the wife/mother of the household is the primary spender because they get stuff the family needs (groceries, cleaning supplies, etc), which kind of makes that point null and void. Naturally I'd need to see the facts and statistics before coming to a conclusion on the matter, though.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 10:19 PM
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