Okay so I chose that title partially for the fun of trolling the blue pill sub. But seriously it'll make sense in a minute as you read this.

Some of the newer guys at times remind me of a woman in an abusive relationship. Now let us think about how women in abusive relationships justify all the heinous crap their man is doing to them. Now I'm talking about actual abusive relationships not hurt feelings because a guy is not being nice enough. The woman is repeatedly abused and comes to her friends for advice but she never takes the advice she just wants attention for her abuse. She wants to cash in her victimhood for pity and attention. Because she never takes any of the actual advice that her friends give her to get out of that situation. She never takes into account that she is in the wrong for staying in that situation and allows this abusive cycle to continue.

Some of you guys remind me of that person at times. You coming here over and over complaining about your relationship asking for advice when what you really want is pity and then going back to your little world and repeating your situation again not changing anything at all. This sub is not a battered women's forum, this sub is where men figure out how to take action in place of feeling sorry for themselves. This sub is a place where your victim puke is useless. Whining serves no purpose but to get you ostracized from the group. We're not being mean we're not wasting our time on people who are going to go back to the same situation and not even do anything about it.

If the cure to your problem was compassion then you could just call the suicide hotline. But you and I know that's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. Stop coming here and repeating the same behavior that's been getting you nowhere. Stop coming here and posting without reading the source material. If possible memorize the source material memorize no more mr. Nice guy. You're most likely new here because you're lazy because you're slipping because your game sucks. Your wife probably thinks you're a spineless faggot. If you are new here you likely like a battered woman sought out someone to perpetuate an abusive relationship with because you're weak. You identify as a weakling and your actions show that you are weak.

Stop trying to be strong by pretending you are and do the heavy lifting. Commit yourself to a plan of action and go forward. Don't post zero progress updates we don't care. What we do care about is that you actually do the work on yourself and add value to this group. As you elevate your own value you will learn that you have more to contribute and the more you contribute the more reciprocal value you will receive in exchange. Don't look for a handout do the work Harvest your own value and look for trade. Your problem has been that you always look for a handout you have no Mastery of self therefore you believe value can only be given from above instead of established from within.

Make it your mission to grow in value and knowledge and to wisely invest your own value as a means of Exchange with others that elevates us all. And stop telling the same sad story over and over looking for attention or that sad story will be the only thing you ever own.